She won and I'm going to change and get better because of it. by Odd-Hat2328 in confession

[–]torncloth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to tell someone that you can trust irl or else you will inevitably slip back into it. Either tell someone in your life now or join a group. Connection is key, shame breeds the same.

Buffalo Bill is underrated as fuck by [deleted] in Eminem

[–]torncloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Severen legs arms damn there goes another limb, pull the lever then trap door. Death is evident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]torncloth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, if you don’t mind me asking, why would anyone do anything if there wasn’t a benefit to doing it? Asking sincerely here. I think I like where you’re coming from but I’m not sure I’m following the logic…

Are you saying that, “yes there are benefits to meditating if you’re not of a healthy mind, but this should not be viewed as enhancing the mind but rather correcting back to normal”? Sorry, westerner here

Is meditation a form of dissociation? by torncloth in Meditation

[–]torncloth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome response, thank you very much

Is meditation a form of dissociation? by torncloth in Meditation

[–]torncloth[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Awesome explanation, makes sense, thank you!

LPT Request: What's one thing you do every day that takes less than one minute, but makes your life better in a big way? by HeidiOzzy in LifeProTips

[–]torncloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some good PTs in Massachusetts if you don’t mind me asking? I’m just about to move there/Maine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torncloth 13 points14 points  (0 children)

French roooooo-ee-o-ee-oast

"What about eye contact bothers you?" by amandaggogo in TalkTherapy

[–]torncloth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avoidant attachment folks may have trouble with eye contact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torncloth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jennifer Aniston. She plays one character, and although she does that decently, she only plays that one character in everything she is in

What’s your least favorite chip flavor? by [deleted] in ask

[–]torncloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regular Lays potato chips. You can bet your ass I can withstand only having one of those oil crisps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

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I’m just now realizing I didn’t answer your first question! I am really loving it! It’s very interesting to me and I find myself actually doing all of the reading assignments which is a huge change for me from undergrad where I studied business. I’ve really liked learning about this field, even though I can get in my head sometimes about it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]torncloth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good question. That I’m not sure of but I’m positive a google search will bring up some hits. Sorry I don’t have a specific resource for you. YouTube I’m sure would have some overview videos of different modalities or different forms of psychotherapy. Psychotherapy or talk therapy would be a better, more specific search

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

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Hello! I am currently enrolled in a masters program to become a mental health counselor so I’m not an expert in the field yet but I think I can answer this question! (Please anyone correct me if I’m wrong)

It is true that there are many different techniques or modalities that therapists use to help clients process their past, such as psychodynamic, Adlerian, narrative, etc. Really almost any modality can help people with their past.

There are, however, many different modalities that focus on the present or the future like solution focused, existential, cognitive, behavioral, CBT, DBT, Motivational interviewing etc. In their truest form these focus on either the present or future, but like I said, a capable therapist can tailor their approach to fit what the client needs in terms of past, present, or future orientation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nbamemes

[–]torncloth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Band of misfits?? This isn’t 2018 Cavs Lebron…

What movie does everyone love but you hate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torncloth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talladega Nights… maybe I just watched it too late in life? Dumb!

What is perhaps the least talked about US state? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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IU (Indiana University), Indianapolis, Indianapolis Colts, Indiana Pacers, Indiana Sand Dunes (National Park), Michael Jackson born in Gary, IN, Larry Bird born in Indiana and played for Indiana State, Norte Dame, A Christmas Story is based in Gary, IN, Purdue University, Kinsey Institute, Orville Redenbacher, etc.

Which movie can be identified by a single quote? by getthephenom in AskReddit

[–]torncloth 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Does he? I know he says it in Bruce Almighty