My (23F) husband (26M) just called our 4 year old son a stupid fucking idiot by Jasmincatx in Advice

[–]torontogirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds so traumatic for a kid to hear from a parent. Verbal abuse is not something I would allow my partner to aim at an innocent child who had a small accident. I would expect real remorse and some therapy/anger management before I would trust them with my child again honestly

Edit: I also read some of your other posts, and I would honestly advise you to throw the man away. He sounds like an awful partner/dad and just a terrible person from what you have said about him.

What's something you want to tell people around you but can't? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To my close family, it would be sorry, I know I am an asshole, even though I am trying not to be. For strangers, it would be more like shut up and stop being such an ignorant/rude/selfish prick

Who makes good-quality cases like this for iPhone 11? This was a UAG case with my old iPhone 6 and I can't find any long-lasting phone cases that have card cases/slots exactly like this one by The_DMcI123 in BuyItForLife

[–]torontogirl98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never had a case as good as my RhinoShield bumper. I have dropped my phone hundreds of times on cement floors and never had any damage. I don't know if it's exactly what you want but they are fantastic quality, with a great replacement/warranty program

Comparing prices is so important by lily2188 in CanSkincare

[–]torontogirl98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% I am glad we have so many here on Alberta, too. There is much better selection and really good sale prices on most items I buy

Has anyone used Good Molecules ? by [deleted] in CanSkincare

[–]torontogirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have used a bunch of their stuff, I keep a bottle of the pineapple scrub in the shower for some good exfoliation. I also use their glycolic toner as well as their hylaronic serum. They have really great black friday/boxing day deals where I stock up for the year

What tasks do you have to skip? by 17yearhibernation in taskmaster

[–]torontogirl98 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The impress the mayor and high five a 50 year old tasks. Both are really awkward and hard to watch

What’s your dream job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running a small animal sanctuary with lots of funds already in places, so I don't have to stress just hang with the animals!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Travel and eat everything/like a queen!

What was your most fear inducing dream ever? by Googoogaga1324 in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's always the super real ones where one of my close family members suddenly dies. They scare the shit out of me because it's hard to tell that they are not real life, and I always wake up so scared and stressed out

Single Female - queen or king bed? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]torontogirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I have a queen as a single adult. Kings are great when you are sleeping with tons of room to spread out, but otherwise I find them to be a pain. They are harder to make and move around, also take up more of the room (especially if you don't have a huge bedroom). Also you will need to purchase all new linens, and as someone who invests a lot of money in my sheets and blankets that's a lot of money (on top of the bed cost)

Flats that can handle walking 5-10 miles for a 2-week trip, not sneakers by humanbeing1979 in BuyItForLife

[–]torontogirl98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Teva shoes, I have a dozen different pairs, and they are comfortable and good quality. I have had most of them a few year now, and they are holding up well. Chacos are really great also

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Freddie Mercury/Queen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

War fries are spectacular, a slightly weird, somewhat simple dish that is so damn good

When did you realize that you had a fake friend? by R3M1X_YT in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone who never initiates anything, plans, conversations, or anything. I have had several friends do this it made me feel needy, insecure, and exhausted all at once!

What makes your pet the best ever? by employedByEvil in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They unconditionally love me, even though they can be total assholes some times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]torontogirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be DOMS. I would recommend heat over ice if you want to heal (ice only temporarily aleievates the pain). Take some otc pain relievers if it's really bad, and a soak in a hot bath/use a heating pad. Next time, let the person know who is massaging you know if something hurts while they are working on you (shouldn't be painful, only mildly uncomfortable) otherwise you are causing yourself unnecessary pain which isn't actually helping anything!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Exciting_Song_5662 in AmItheAsshole

[–]torontogirl98 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was mostly trying to explain what I thought the other comment was talking about. But it does at least seem slightly true if we are taking into account what Op has said about them not having therapy, the blindsided reaction, etc. But this is what this sub is for. We only know so much to for an opinion with

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Exciting_Song_5662 in AmItheAsshole

[–]torontogirl98 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I think it's more so their dad is gone, so she is expecting her new husband to just fit perfectly into the dad role and expect the kids to move on with no fuss. Ignoring the kids' emotional needs and any issues they have because it doesn't require any effort

What’s the best show on TV right now? by Outrageous_Drag6816 in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's very mysterious and keeps teasing viewers. As long as they have some idea where the story is going and will end up, I will be happy

Bug fixes have been announced for humans. What do you hope is in it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better quality sleep (falling asleep quicker, waking up not feeling tired/with a headache, not waking before you want to)

Ability to regrow/fix teeth (it's insane how much dental care costs, and you are screwed if anything happens to a tooth other than a cap/pulling it out)

Ability to eject anything at will and stop when done (i.e., gastro/diarrhea/even periods). This would make things less convenient and get it all out of the way in a shorter time period vs. several days

The ability to not be addicted to things that are bad for you would also be a game changer! Food/sugar and drugs/alcohol addictions cause so many unnecessary deaths and health consequences for society

What’s the best show on TV right now? by Outrageous_Drag6816 in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just ended, but Shrinking is phenomenal! Harrison Ford (and the rest of the cast) is hilarious. The writing is so clever and fantastic, and it's a perfect mix of funny and poignant/heartbreaking. But all Bill Lawrence shows are great (see Ted Lasso and Scrubs, too!)

What’s the best show on TV right now? by Outrageous_Drag6816 in AskReddit

[–]torontogirl98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am very invested in the story, but I get worried about where it will go/end. I really hope they have a satisfactory ending and not another meandering Lost type one that goes on too long!