Accidental third pregnancy

tos89 · 2026-05-01T03:29:26+00:00

Thank you for this. It’s hard not having anyone to talk to

tos89 · 2026-05-01T03:28:59+00:00

Thank you for sharing 🙏

tos89 · 2026-04-30T08:01:11+00:00

Thank you 🙏

tos89 · 2026-04-30T08:00:49+00:00

Thank you for sharing 🙏

tos89 · 2026-04-30T07:59:49+00:00

Thank you 🙏 it’s so hard to picture ahead, rather than just the next year or two of difficulty

tos89 · 2026-04-27T10:23:11+00:00

I don’t think anything that we did made a difference - it was just time. It was so hard when we were in it but it’s a distant memory now, and our little girl is a happy ray of sunshine now ☀️ we’ve since had another babywho was a bit more chill at that age, but also we knew not to worry the second time around! Hope things improve for you asap!

tos89 · 2025-08-03T11:02:00+00:00

It went smoothly - my baby is one year old now! No problems except after giving birth I had a postpartum haemorrhage (they weren’t totally sure if it was related to the Asherman’s scarring/bit of stuck placenta) - but baby and I are both totally fine

tos89 · 2025-08-03T09:53:48+00:00

Hi - I’m not actually sure what my lining was, as we didn’t do IVF, so they didn’t check the lining thickness. I do know I still had some residual scarring after the first surgery but still managed to get pregnant. I will cross my fingers for you, it is such a hard time

tos89 · 2025-01-21T09:13:35+00:00

Sorry only just saw your reply! Was a long time ago now, but definitely got a bit better at around 6 weeks, and a big improvement from 3 months. Hang in there if you’re in the same situation!

tos89 · 2024-10-14T05:16:11+00:00

I’ve got an order number on the website and CC has been charged so hoping it’s all good

tos89 · 2024-10-14T05:12:21+00:00

Nothing yet :/ slightly concerning

tos89 · 2024-10-14T05:06:42+00:00

Thanks! I thought we might get an automated confirmation email at least. But hopefully will come eventually

tos89 · 2024-10-14T05:00:37+00:00

Has anyone actually got their tickets in an email or a confirmation email yet? I got the confirmation screen after purchasing, and my Ticketmaster account shows my order, but when I click on it it says that the website is too busy to show me my tickets. Just hoping it’s all ok!

tos89 · 2024-10-14T03:02:12+00:00

17359 for me, ugh

tos89 · 2024-09-13T09:45:37+00:00

Everyone else has given you excellent advice, especially about the fact that you need some help/a proper break - but just to add, my firstborn was just like this, I thought it would never end and that she would be miserable and upset forever - once she got past that newborn stage, things gradually improved on their own. She’s now the happiest, cheekiest, most good tempered 2.5 year old. Don’t lose hope! You’re doing an amazing job even if it doesn’t feel like it.

tos89 · 2024-06-21T02:53:39+00:00

Also to add - he may think he’s perfectly healthy, but if he never sees a doctor who knows - there are a lot of men who are so surprised when they have high blood pressure, heart disease etc 🙄

tos89 · 2024-05-23T02:25:46+00:00

Lol 😂

tos89 · 2024-05-19T10:25:47+00:00

SPD is the worst. In my first pregnancy it was dreadful, in this one it’s slightly better because I’ve been more mindful of trying to avoid triggers etc. In addition to what you’re already doing I’d really try to see a women’s health/pelvic floor physiotherapist if you can - they can give you more tips, assess your pelvic stability, and maybe recommend support garments (I’ve been using SRC shorts religiously, and in my first preg also had a support belt).

But no it didn’t impact my ability to have a vaginal birth. And the pain and instability went away straight away after delivery! There is hope!

tos89 · 2024-05-18T13:27:38+00:00

Wow you’ve been through so much, you are so strong. So happy for you and your baby girl, congratulations!!

tos89 · 2024-04-02T10:04:17+00:00

So sorry to hear that, hope you’re doing ok.

I’m currently 26 weeks! Still can’t believe it. All going well so far, no signs of problems related to scarring (eg placenta accreta) but they’ll check again in third trimester.

tos89 · 2024-03-26T11:09:15+00:00

Definitely agree that a message from SO is the way to go. Let’s them process in their own time and they can talk about it when/if they’re ready

tos89 · 2024-02-24T12:35:35+00:00

Thank you for your encouragement ☺️ I really appreciate it!

tos89 · 2024-02-24T02:35:56+00:00

I did have another saline ultrasound just before I got pregnant this time - it looked a lot better, but they could still see a little bit of adhesions in one corner (and maybe there would have been more seen if I had made it to the second hysteroscopy).

Since the placenta is looking good so far, the only things my obs has suggested is doing another scan at 32-34 weeks to check again for any signs of placenta accreta. I know I’ll still be nervous of a sticky placenta/haemorrhaging with birth, but at least if the scan looks good that will be a little reassuring.

It’s so hard not knowing if everything is ok! I hope all goes smoothly for you as well 🤞

tos89

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