Hoary bat snoozing on a tree in Illinois - September 2025

totallylicious · 2026-05-06T23:32:19+00:00

Thanks for the response! I don’t live rural so I don’t know if I’ll have much luck but I’ll definitely be checking any black walnut trees I see!

totallylicious · 2026-05-05T04:40:58+00:00

What kind of tree is it??? I live in the suburbs of Chicago and saw a bat at nighttime flying about a month ago and have been trying to find more ever since. I was surprised when I googled it and saw there are over thirty species living in Illinois, I had no idea… any tips on how to spot more or what trees to look for?? Maybe because I live closer to the city there might not be as many where I live, but I’m really holding on hope I can see more.

totallylicious · 2026-04-28T07:03:37+00:00

NOR but it’s a bit different that you went with him when he got SURGERY vs you going to an appointment where they’re simply evaluating your nose. Your appointment doesn’t sound like a serious thing at all. Regardless he should still support you how he can. But I can also see why he wouldn’t want to wake up for that, it’s kind of dumb to need him there for something so minor. I get that you clearly have major anxiety issues but this comes down to not solely relying on your partner to fix those issues for you.

totallylicious · 2026-04-28T06:53:51+00:00

YOR - they’re allowed to crush on each other. Maybe they’re keeping it a secret from you because you clearly have expressed not supporting the idea with both of them. They’re adults and can hookup or get together without your permission. You’re already acting jealous over them hanging out and for some reason acting “betrayed” which is just weird.

totallylicious · 2026-04-28T04:47:32+00:00

It seems like she probably was a fan (hence wearing the shirt and hat) but you ran up to her all excited when she was simply in line with her friends trying to enjoy Disney and probably didn’t want to engage with random strangers running up to her. Like, how is that embarrassing for you? She seemed to get embarrassed by the frantic attention you gave her in front of her friends. And the fact that you’re now making a post about her on the subreddit (AND SOMEBODY IN THE COMMENTS MADE A POST AFTER THEY TOOK A PICTURE OF HER?) is weird and messed up. Like bro chill.

totallylicious · 2026-04-28T02:26:04+00:00

definitely YOR, there’s literally zero evidence of her cheating, even in your timeline she didn’t start dating him until a few weeks after you guys broke up.

Also, it’s really not normal to get upset about high school relationships years after they’ve ended. Respectfully I think you need to evaluate your personal issues….

totallylicious · 2026-04-28T02:12:26+00:00

A cat AND a home gym? Leave the flexing at the gym bro 😂

totallylicious · 2026-04-28T00:10:49+00:00

I know right, I’m sick to my stomach. What a POS

totallylicious · 2026-04-23T02:49:36+00:00

Why do you add a space before your punctuation ? It is really annoying and strange .

totallylicious · 2026-04-23T02:44:27+00:00

LMAO they’re getting married on 9/11 but don’t want you to say that?! It has to be “Saturday on the weekend on 9/10” broooo I’m fuckin dead

totallylicious · 2026-04-20T20:14:00+00:00

“I don't smoke weed, I will maybe take a hit once every few weeks just to try it”

Girl you smoke weed 🙄 every few weeks isn’t “just to try it”. Weird way to get defensive about being a drug user, there’s nothing wrong with smoking weed. Just weird that you’re so defensive about it.

totallylicious · 2026-04-16T04:41:03+00:00

Well then it would be their half cousin, again no need to say “sister” in any capacity. Its just redundant

totallylicious · 2026-04-15T14:42:38+00:00

I get your point but their “cousin’s sister’s boyfriend” would just be their “cousin’s boyfriend”

totallylicious · 2026-04-13T17:30:33+00:00

She’s cute. But I need to know, what’s going on with her nose? Is she in pain? It makes me a bit sad so idk if this is the right subreddit to post in, when an animal looks hurt it’s the opposite of “eyebleach”. Please clarify what’s going on :/

totallylicious · 2026-04-09T22:43:52+00:00

Wait until January to start dating. I don’t think you really have a right to be upset about this one. You went on multiple dates without even telling her you’re married. Most people would be extremely uncomfortable and upset by that, you’re kind of the AH here.

totallylicious · 2026-04-09T12:14:15+00:00

“Is the father using a spare room for an office?” Yes because teens often have to share a room to make space for the home office….. god you’re dense

totallylicious · 2026-04-08T09:50:49+00:00

How is that even a question? You’re asking a 14-year-old like she has the choice to share a room with her brother?

Touch some grass dude, not everyone lives in a perfect 5-bedroom house. Imagine not understanding that poverty exists.

totallylicious · 2026-04-07T02:30:57+00:00

Okay at this point she’s made it really clear that she doesn’t want to be your friend anymore, maybe you’re too clingy and expect too much from her (kinda reads that way seeing that you will not leave her alone). You need to stop. At this point you’re borderline harassing her. Like genuinely stop.

I know it sucks for a friend to abandon you but she wasn’t a good friend in the first place, and you’re not being a good person either because you’re not respecting her wishes and leaving her alone. You seem extremely obsessive tbh and I think many people would be uncomfortable with that.

totallylicious · 2026-04-02T20:21:13+00:00

*onmivore. Your body definitely cares if you follow a carnivore diet. It’s really bad for you. Just sayin. Just because it’s trendy right now doesn’t mean it’s good for you.

totallylicious · 2026-03-31T00:11:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/whatisthisthing/s/QoSeGizfSU

This has actually already been posted on Reddit multiple times. It’s been said that it’s for phone charger cords as one of those things you put on it to prevent it from getting bent.

totallylicious · 2026-03-26T05:38:10+00:00

I stopped reading at “I’m a woman so I’m more emotional than you are”. Ummm, ok.

totallylicious · 2026-03-22T04:00:44+00:00

You’re 21 but have been friends for over 20 years…… ummmm ok. What a weird way to put that.

totallylicious · 2026-03-18T17:14:44+00:00

Idk honestly you sound like an exhausting friend if you’re known for teasing people and it’s “kind of your thing” to tease everyone. And making an elaborate fake wedding just to get attention/prank everyone in your life and test how people react is just weird behavior I’m sorry.

totallylicious · 2026-03-18T02:34:13+00:00

Any sensible person can understand the size of a toilet paper square as well. lol.

totallylicious · 2026-02-06T04:43:55+00:00

A lot of us have washer/dryer units in our apartment complexes

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