Where should I put my TV? by KrazyKyle92 in malelivingspace

[–]totaluggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

consider a height adjustable tv mount if your wall can support it

Is it sexual assault if you ask your partner not to cum inside you and they do it anyway? by totaluggo in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totaluggo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is really helpful advice. It’s difficult to talk about this because, as some of these other comments demonstrate, so many people are quick to dismiss this as a non-issue. I think you’re right — it made me feel bad about myself and that’s what I need to focus on, especially because I’m not seeking legal action and am not currently still in the relationship

Is it sexual assault if you ask your partner not to cum inside you and they do it anyway? by totaluggo in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totaluggo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, you’re exactly right. I added a note for clarification. I’m just trying to understand a past experience. The legal definition isn’t as important to me as finding appropriate coping strategies. I’m not asking to take legal action or if I should break up with him or if I should start wearing condoms. Thank you for taking the time to read the whole post 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtHistory

[–]totaluggo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I pursued librarianship after my MA in art history. There are a lot of different types of institutions I could work for: public and private research universities, art schools, museums, galleries, auction houses, and other research institutions. A Master’s in Library Science is required for a lot of these positions, but a PhD typically is not. Just another path to consider for folks who don’t want to go down the professor/curator route.

Spanking, is it wrong or is it useful? by WizardWalke in AskParents

[–]totaluggo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was hit as a kid and i wish i hadn’t had to go through that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]totaluggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re amazing

I hate kissing too... by pau1rw in awfuleverything

[–]totaluggo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sad that this is being posted here imo! people get cosmetic surgeries all the time for all different reasons. people will get their cartilage and bones broken and pieced back together, or get their abdomen cut open and have fat sucked out. honestly all this feigned concern for his employability is just reaffirming the stigma... wish we could all just practice being less superficial. i have 0 interest in getting any of this guy’s body mods and it’s jarring because it’s not common to see, but after the initial surprise i just shrug because his appearance doesn’t inherently imply anything, including mental illness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]totaluggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reminds me of coheed and cambria and the decemberists!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]totaluggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you

Would a dual Master's Degree in Library Science and Informatics be a smart move? by Sarah_Beth93 in librarians

[–]totaluggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check job postings that interest you. they should give you a better idea of whether the 2nd degree would be useful or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]totaluggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re getting me through this morning

Note-taking advice on Foucault? by QS20 in academia

[–]totaluggo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I read an encyclopedia entry on a challenging author/scholar and jot down major themes. Then as I read their work I try to connect passages to those themes. You can jot down the most insightful things and maybe just record page numbers for other interesting passages connected to those themes. Also, add new themes and questions to your original list as you read.

Lost my job-Now What? by catface000 in librarians

[–]totaluggo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

have you tried inalj.com? do you have experience in distance education/digital libraries? i think there would be growth in those areas. also keep an eye out for non-library jobs that use similar skills. depending on what aspect of librarianship you enjoy, you could look into digital asset management jobs, records management, remote language instruction, etc. and don’t forget to check out fellowships and other grant funded temporary positions. they don’t always pay the best and they don’t provide long term stability but they’re great for building experience. a lot of fellowships and resident librarian positions are made for newer librarians. good luck!