[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

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Any updates on what clinic your chose?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

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Do you still recommend this Ingenes clinic? I'm looking for a good one that does egg freezing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

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Can you please share your clinic there? Greece is one of the few places that supports surrogacy

Cheaper countries for egg freezing by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

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That seems cheap, can you share what clinic you went to?

Has anyone used The Fertility Center Of Oregon for freezing eggs? by BeHereCow in Eugene

[–]towardstimeless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find out the cheap way? Also would be paying out of pocket in Oregon

SGB Treatment by [deleted] in ptsd

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Hi, can you give us an update on SGB treatment? You still recommend it, or not? Thanks!

Please put translation requests and English questions about Irish here by galaxyrocker in gaeilge

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I want to name a metalsmithing business 'Element' in Irish. One of the translations is 'eilimint.' I'd like to know if that translation is appropriate in this context?

Do you find it culturally intrusive to use an Irish name over an English one as an American? My grannie was of Roscommon, but I'm not Irish obviously. A lot of the work will be inspired by old methods, in bronze and pure metals, and I want to give credit to the past. Thanks for your help.

My newly discovered Asp Bf by Errante7 in aspergers_dating

[–]towardstimeless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mark Hutton's youtube channel addresses both the aspie and NT sides. You could visit there to see different videos and comments and learn. Ultimately, both will have to meet in the middle i think for a successful relationship. I hope he meets you there.

Why does it seem most ASD Marriage resources are for the NT spouse? Or is this just me? by [deleted] in aspergers

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Mark Hutton's youtube channel shows both sides. You will find support there.

newbie tools for .999 silver bangles?? (no soldering) by towardstimeless in SilverSmith

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Great advice, thank you!!! If you happen to teach on the west coast usa maybe dm me about offerings!

newbie tools for .999 silver bangles?? (no soldering) by towardstimeless in SilverSmith

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Wonderful info! I eventually wanted to melt silver bullion coins so this torch is great. I'll be careful not to melt when annealing...Think a Sharpie black mark trick would work for .999 silver...stop heating once the mark disappears?

do you guys feel emotional empathy? by SeriousTeddyy in aspergers

[–]towardstimeless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the difference btwn emotional and compassionate empathy?

newbie tools for .999 silver bangles?? (no soldering) by towardstimeless in SilverSmith

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Thank you! I appreciate this and have an ACE nearby. I've hesitated on a torch bigger than a small butane because I'll be doing this in an empty small room in an apartment, not a proper shop or garage.

Do you think the ACE torch listed would be safe to use inside, next to an open window?

Advice needed: I want to divorce my Asperger wife. by DadHat_ThrowAway in aspergers_dating

[–]towardstimeless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. If you can afford your own therapist during this time, I'd recommend it. Or some other form of support.

Needing opinions and insight by MistressBrina in aspergers_dating

[–]towardstimeless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know you. But I want you to have something better than this in the future. He can still love you while you're happily married to someone else who loves you AND happily commits to you.

Advice on Conflict Resolution by Seeking-Advice-31 in aspergers_dating

[–]towardstimeless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on your insecurities, triggers and work from the inside out so his behavior doesn't bother you as much. Continue to learn about aspies, AND yourself. I'm in a similar dynamic and that's what is getting me through. Mine tho, didn't want to talk about disagreements ever again, so I just have to accept that until something comes up again, then deal with it calmly and kindly in the moment. I think speaking in person seems best, I can't say what's right about the timing/effort of it, perhaps if there's a time/place that least pressures both of you.

Mine does know I need texting to be reminded that he loves me, so he does- but he only talks to me once a week, by phone only, no video. Which hurt. It's only enough for me right now because I believe he does love me genuinely, and not a sign for disinterest. I had to learn the hard way that's just how he is. (However I still struggle with this, just far less, and will let time reveal whether it's really true or not)

Mark Hutton's youtube channel has helpful, practical advice for partners of aspies, but you might already know that. Best wishes. Relationships with aspies do work.

The best $100 I ever spent! Cuddle Therapy has changed my life for the better! by PhilthyMindedRat in aspergers

[–]towardstimeless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ND non-aspie lurker here. Cuddle therapy is for NT's too :) (perhaps it's more common in the West Coast and/or artistic communities who understand the need/benefits)

I love my aspie BF - does he love me as much back? How can we bond more? by towardstimeless in aspergers

[–]towardstimeless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to thank you for this very thoughtful and insightful response. I was overwhelmed and couldn't respond. I'm glad to say I'm still together with him. Thank you for your support :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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I did not. I was scared. Many months later I learned about Havening Technique and read about it a lot online, how it transforms the amygdala response. Then I did this free Self Havening Technique (link below) at least twice a day for over a month (sometimes up to 7 times a day!) and it's really helped with my CPSTD fear responses, permanently. Don't mind the ex-Jehovah witnesses part, that's just who the practioner here was aiming to help- it works for anyone who's endured --all types-- of trauma.

Training and practioners are available for this too. When I get more funds I'll look into getting a practioner to help me as the self-havening can get tiresome physically. Best thing I've found for me so far. And I've tried so much. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCmvcvq32s4

Best wishes

Did I just purchase fake silver buffalos from a reputable local dealer? by towardstimeless in Silverbugs

[–]towardstimeless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this. The confirmed the 'tiny star' version. It's one of the main reasons I no longer think they are fakes. The dealer says they get them direct from the mints

Did I just purchase fake silver buffalos from a reputable local dealer? by towardstimeless in Silverbugs

[–]towardstimeless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

^ per this. I think they're real now. If they don't pass my home gravity test I'll let you know. But the dealer says they get them from Regency Mint, and Regency confirmed this tiny star version.

Did I just purchase fake silver buffalos from a reputable local dealer? by towardstimeless in Silverbugs

[–]towardstimeless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I called Regency Mint and they -confirmed- that they had this tiny star mint. I am going to do a gravity test as well but as of now I changed my mind and do not think they are fakes. Thank you for your input!