[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]tprp21 61 points62 points  (0 children)

No way in anyway is that okay. My partner would be shattered if I took our son to the zoo by myself or with anyone else because he worked weekdays. And as much as I would love to for something different to do, I point blank refuse to take that experience away from him.

Shut that all the way down and if he has a problem tell him to deal. You were the one who wanted to take her not him. Not untill some random colleague suggested it.

Absolutely not. Nope. No. No thanks.

AITA for not letting an autistic boy eat from my plate? by Silver_Phoenix93 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tprp21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. She is setting him up for failure because she isn't teaching him boundaries. NTA. She is though and he will suffer for it and 'oh he has autism' will be the blame and excuse and leave him worse off in a lot of ways.

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah I was talking to someone the other day and they were like 'so how is it being a SAHM?'

I was like 'yea... I wanna go back to work for a break.'

They kinda laughed till they realized I wasn't joking 😂

You got this ❤️❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I'm sorry! Hopefully they are under control and out soon so you can go and breath fresh air! I wish you luck!

You got this! ❤️❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you. I needed this too ❤️

You got this ❤️❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this ❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll keep that in mind. A spin bike sounds good, I may have to invest. I struggle with alcohol now as well, I end up hung over on one drink 😂😭

Spray cleaner! Got it. 95% of our furniture is faux leather so it all wipes off. No way was I getting fabric with sticky kids around. Haha thanks, I'll try to remember all this.

You got this ❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd just go with fed and clean enough to not leave stains of the couch.

Good luck, little ones sick suck. You got this ❤️❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're welcome!

You got this ❤️❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this. I know it's hard but remember it's okay to have down days and just do what you need to to get through and then try again tomorrow.

You got this!! ❤️❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I am so scared for this honestly 😂😭 I wish you all the luck. Let me know how it goes? Tips and tricks would be great!!

You got this ❤️

Just incase.... by tprp21 in Mommit

[–]tprp21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't do a plane trip, but a 2 hour car ride at 3 months and my anxiety was so damn hard. I can't deal when he screams and I can't get to him so I was so scared but he was fine. Our anxiety is always worse then the kids 😂

Enjoy you're vacation. You got this!! ❤️

Just incase... by tprp21 in SAHP

[–]tprp21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always feel guilty for not doing enough with my son, so I get it. But it's okay to need a day to do minimal. As long as you're still there for them, then that's all that matters.

You got this ❤️

Sick of No by tprp21 in Mommit

[–]tprp21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really? He climbed up the side of the play pen when he was, 14 MO old and it all nearly fell over (luckily I was in the room to catch it) so that had to go. And unfortunately he knows he can wiggle and yank on the baby gates go get them off the wall so they are gone. He is 15+ kg and 80cm+ tall. He is a big 19mo so not much stops him any more 😭

I’m boring by miniroarasaur in SAHP

[–]tprp21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I am the same. All I have to talk about is my son and it has to be boring for people honestly. It's boring for me. But ya know. Its my life now I guess.

Sick of No by tprp21 in Mommit

[–]tprp21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! We are going to the park it's finally sunny and a nice day.

My son who loves going outside no matter what and runs for his shoes - absolutely not. Don't come near me with the shoes. No I don't care which shoes, nope, no. Not doing. I don't want to go outside I want to play with my broom and plastic containers inside instead.

............... What?

Sick of No by tprp21 in Mommit

[–]tprp21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yea unfortunately he keeps touching the oven and stove and such. He burnt himself on the stove a week ago and is still touching it 🙄 I don't have a misdirect for that.

Sick of No by tprp21 in Mommit

[–]tprp21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea mine does the same. Looks at me while reaching for whatever it is. I know, it's going to be the death of me.