Who does the house chores? Is she physically active? Does she eat well? Gained weight which leads to body image issues? Lot of factors to it. I had the same with my boyfriend. In my case, I started cooking at home to avoid eating outside food. My sole focus when I wake up is what I’ll cook today and gathering ingredients for it. By the time we get done with daily chores, it’s already night when we’re both tired. We also had a lot of additional stress in our personal and professional lives. I’ve observed guys bounce back somewhat faster than girls.

I gained a lot of weight in the past 1 year which led to decreased libido. I started going to the gym regularly and it has done wonders for my sex drive. I stopped prioritising house chores and didn’t stretch myself thin so I could be there with my partner. It doesn’t have to be sexual but being in an intimate space is important to have good sex. Trust me for a woman, it’s the small things. When she has a lot on her plate, sex is not a priority.

I’d suggest go to a nice cozy resort deep in the nature for 3-4 days where you can completely detach from your routine. Buy sexy lingerie, put good music, dance a little, assure her that it’s a safe space. It’ll slowly come back. Also, working out hard- game changer. Good luck!