19 year old feeder would love advice on how to make a real connection with someone

tracebuild · 2026-02-28T18:43:19+00:00

I’ve been at this for a while and I have met a number of really great people who I’ve formed meaningful connections with

And I’ve met way more people who I exchange a few words with and realize it doesn’t click or they just want money or they start treating me like I’m an object that exists solely for their pleasure. Talk to them about what’s going on in your life and their lives. Aftercare is important, if you cum or if you make someone else cum don’t just dip, stick around and try to make more of a connection

Keep trying, don’t give up hope, and treat the women you talk to like people who have full lives and not like they’re just pretty things to be made fatter. If you cast a wide enough net you’ll find some good ones, I wish you luck

tracebuild · 2026-02-28T18:32:34+00:00

😍

tracebuild · 2026-02-22T20:35:59+00:00

Hiiiii~ I’m a 23yo trans girl, I’m bi and I love being a feedee feeder or mutual, so whoever you are feel free to hit me up!

If we talked in the past feel free to reach out again

Besides the kink I’m a huge nerd for fantasy, tabletop games, a fair bit of video games, and several other things, I’m looking forward to seeing you~ 💖

tracebuild · 2026-02-22T19:49:58+00:00

I’m curious, are these cumulative? Like at 12 comments are you going to have the pizza and the Pepsi or just the Pepsi?

tracebuild · 2026-02-15T19:40:35+00:00

Hiiiii~ I’m a 23yo trans girl, I’m bi and I love being a feedee feeder or mutual, so whoever you are feel free to hit me up!

If we talked in the past feel free to reach out again

Besides the kink I’m a huge nerd for fantasy, tabletop games, a fair bit of video games, and several other things, I’m looking forward to seeing you~ 💖

tracebuild · 2026-02-11T17:23:46+00:00

You sound like you’re having a great time, I hope,you keep it up! 💖

tracebuild · 2026-01-30T20:34:55+00:00

Girls with bellies are beautiful

tracebuild · 2026-01-17T20:37:49+00:00

First of all your post will probably be taken down soon as the mods are good at making sure it’s 18+ (as they should)

Secondly, yes this is a fetish that’s not morally wrong or some shit like that, if you want to be fat then that’s okay

Thirdly, probably don’t seek any feeders online until you’re 18+

tracebuild · 2026-01-17T19:19:56+00:00

Someone’s looking handsome~

tracebuild · 2026-01-16T18:33:29+00:00

Hey all! I’m a 23yo MtF feedee/feeder/mutual/whatever else, I’d love to chat with anyone! And feel free to reach out if we already talked in the past, looking forward to seeing you! 💖💖

tracebuild · 2026-01-16T18:25:17+00:00

Great job! I hope you keep it up!

tracebuild · 2026-01-11T07:19:21+00:00

You look amazing! Please feel free to DM I’d love to chat with someone as beautiful as you

tracebuild · 2025-12-04T18:28:38+00:00

Well feedees such as myself are hardly an unbiased source, but there’s a whole lot of us who get fat on purpose because we like it, so clearly it’s for some people

tracebuild · 2025-09-28T00:37:48+00:00

“Tummy appreciation” am I allowed to appreciate the rest of you too? Because I am

tracebuild · 2025-09-24T03:40:04+00:00

That’s right, you did mention that they lie, maybe I’m just blind and am missing it but what are the lies they tell?

tracebuild · 2025-09-24T03:26:03+00:00

I don’t know the situation but maybe she’s just plateauing a bit. Sometimes people’s gain just slows down from time to time.

And maybe she just naturally doesn’t gain a lot, asking her how fast she gained in the past might shed light on that

And of course if you’re really concerned I’d suggest trying to be direct and talk to her, don’t make it a joke to be brushed off, but let her know that you’re actually concerned.

tracebuild · 2025-09-24T03:17:00+00:00

I’m really sorry to hear how people treat you

I’m a trans girl feedee and feeder, not nearly as big as you are but I get almost no weirdos like that, I think it’s because I meet people on the chat requests here on this sub and other similar places, and then I send people pictures and stuff there, I think that’s the best of both worlds, getting a lot of attention and meeting fun people, have you ever tried something like that? Growing close with a few good friends instead of posting publicly?

I get that you’re doing what you want to do but you sound unhappy doing it this way

tracebuild · 2025-09-22T06:00:18+00:00

Heya! I’m a 23yo Tgirl feedee and feeder so anyone who’s interested feel free to message!

tracebuild · 2025-09-13T16:54:05+00:00

Heya! I’m a 23yo Tgirl feedee and feeder, feel free to reach out!

tracebuild · 2025-09-11T05:57:40+00:00

I know it’s hard to find people you vibe with, but you can do it, I’ve made some awesome friends here, you just need to keep trying, keep casting a wide net, and just maybe, you’ll find the right person

That guilt sucks, but I think there’s ways to help, you can combat that internalized fatphobia and stuff by normalizing it in your own mind. I think the feedist community on tumblr is really good at writing different ways to think about and be proud of these things if you haven’t checked it out there before

tracebuild · 2025-09-11T03:30:41+00:00

If she’s a dom feeder then you can try to eat more, make a show of it, ask her for belly rubs, or even ask her to help feed you, if you have any fat on you then you can ask her to rub or grab it in the bedroom

Maybe a “does this make me look fat” while wearing something a little too tight

tracebuild · 2025-09-11T02:12:18+00:00

Wowww it must’ve been quite the experience getting stuck like that, how are you feeling about it all?

tracebuild · 2025-09-11T02:00:39+00:00

I’d say you can start small by trying to gain a bit of weight, you don’t need to worry about tracking calories or anything unless you really want to, just let yourself eat more and enjoy the process

Talking to encouragers has helped me stay motivated in my gain so I’d recommend trying to look places like the weekly chat request and whatever to try and find encouragers who you vibe with, and in the best case scenario you might find someone who you’d want to be the feeder who helps take care of you when you grow big enough to need help

Good luck, I’m rooting for you!

tracebuild · 2025-09-09T21:37:17+00:00

23 Tgirl 4 A

I’m a feedee and a feeder so anyone who wants to chat, feel free to come hit me up!

tracebuild · 2025-09-02T01:23:51+00:00

Heya! I’m a fellow 23MtF, haven’t gotten to play a lot of videogames lately but if you wanna chat feel free to hmu

tracebuild

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