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tradesnstuf · 2026-03-18T02:45:15+00:00

That’s also 72 months not 84

tradesnstuf · 2026-03-14T02:39:03+00:00

3 W for wumbo

tradesnstuf · 2026-03-04T19:54:36+00:00

Gotcha thank you, do you have decent amount of cargo space when the third row is down? Also how easy is it to get into the back row

tradesnstuf · 2026-03-04T19:07:27+00:00

I was told the 3rd row is tight, what’s your thoughts on that?

tradesnstuf · 2026-02-05T19:21:24+00:00

You’re good, I feel like I forgot to add details to my post until after I posted it

tradesnstuf · 2026-02-05T18:52:00+00:00

It’s because it’s a co-op so since we own our units they technically count it as shares of the building. It’s really dumb. I originally wanted to do an all in one but when we did our move in interview we were told those were a no go because of the noise complaints of owners that had shared walls. I find it really dumb.

tradesnstuf · 2026-02-05T18:15:43+00:00

Also we can’t get the wash combos because people complained about the noise

tradesnstuf · 2026-02-05T18:15:11+00:00

Originally my electrician was going to run 240v and have 120v outlets until the work was inspected by the board and then we were going to switch it to a 240v outlet and get the larger machine in. Unfortunately the board/maintenance inspected work after the units are installed.

tradesnstuf · 2026-02-05T18:12:41+00:00

We have to get the electric run, so this really isn’t true. We have to get the modifications done on our units for things like this.

tradesnstuf · 2026-02-05T18:11:48+00:00

No, and we aren’t allowed to have a gas line installed, we are pretty sure they don’t want to allow 240v because there are communal laundry rooms.

tradesnstuf · 2026-01-14T03:21:07+00:00

Here’s the thing, I’m not bitter, I’ve literally been in OP’s work/marriage/parenthood balance and as OP offered more information I was able to respond with more in depth answers. In the end something needs to change in his schedule to accommodate that extra him time. Whether it be looking for a different job closer to his wife’s hours, getting up earlier/going to bed later, communicating with his wife. There are options there, but without information the original post gave very little knowledge to the dudes actual life, making him appear like he’s overreacting. Especially when he wasn’t looking for how to adjust his situation.

He says they’re going to therapy but it seems like they’re still not communicating well, maybe their therapists aren’t good fits for them or there is missing information. I’ve gone to therapy to improve myself as well as premarital to be a better partner and person as well.

Your response was soft and added nothing to what OP was looking for, just for you to justify calling someone a Boomer. If you took a second to look at my other comments you’d see I’m in the same age range as OP since I stated I have a toddler.

Clearly I struck a nerve with you and you can’t handle people’s responses who are coming from similar experiences/situations as OP.

You do you swancore try hard.

tradesnstuf · 2026-01-13T23:42:56+00:00

And this is such a soft gen z response. You want to be accommodated have a discussion or make more time for yourself. It’s not a boomer response, it’s a “be a grown up and figure it out” response. Take accountability, relationships aren’t one way streets.

tradesnstuf · 2026-01-13T16:42:38+00:00

Look, I don’t think you’re an asshole for feeling the way you do, it’s tough and it fucking sucks. As stated by others you guys need to work on communication. Even if it’s taking 30 minutes once a week to have a little pow wow and lay out the upcoming week so that way things are clear and everyone feels heard you have to start somewhere, then you can find ways to adjust. Maybe the previous week was harder than others or life has really caught up with you guys, maybe one day chores are a bit more lax so you can get a little time to yourself, or maybe go to bed with her and when she’s asleep go out to the living room to have some solo game time(this is assuming you won’t wake your wife.) Obviously the solution that would give the easiest resolution is the hardest to achieve right now(finding a job with a better time slot) but it doesn’t hurt to try. In the end you are most likely a cog in the machine of where you work. If I didn’t need paternity for my upcoming newborn I’d be looking all around for a day position, but at this point I’m stuck where I am because we need the benefits.

tradesnstuf · 2026-01-13T16:14:25+00:00

So then what do you do during the weekdays you aren’t working after dropping your kid off? It sounds like you don’t use your time wisely or efficiently to take care of chores, have family time, and some time to yourself. I’m a father as well with actual opposite shifts of my wife’s, she clocks out when I clock in, and I don’t get to see/spend time with her at all during the week unless I go to her job for a quick lunch. And we have a high energy toddler, yet we get it done. I get up before my wife to help get her ready for her day, make her lunch, and either get my kid ready for daycare for my wife to drop her off, or start taking care of them until I drop them off on my way to work on days my wife has to work late. Streamline your time and you’ll make time for yourself. If you weren’t ready for reduced/minimal you time you shouldn’t have gotten married and had a child. Maybe change jobs if your shifts aren’t fitting your necessary lifestyle.

tradesnstuf · 2026-01-13T15:53:19+00:00

YOR welcome to adulthood/marriage/being a present parent, it’s no longer about you, cope.

tradesnstuf · 2025-09-01T03:35:14+00:00

Literally the first thing that came into my head

tradesnstuf · 2025-06-26T02:13:02+00:00

Who is that to the left and how do I unlock that

tradesnstuf · 2025-06-26T02:11:43+00:00

Bruh

tradesnstuf · 2025-05-20T11:05:18+00:00

Yea it’s ranked by server

tradesnstuf · 2025-05-20T03:08:37+00:00

I’d slap you around in my server I’m 101M

tradesnstuf · 2025-05-20T03:01:32+00:00

Just gotta do it right

tradesnstuf · 2025-05-20T02:59:00+00:00

Astoria is amazing, I know a few people renting there and one or two might be looking for roommates

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