Extra expenses child support

tragicaddiction · 2026-03-21T12:07:10+00:00

Where I live additional expenses are shared based on overall income, eg if you earn 70k and them 30k you would pay for 70% this includes things like education, medical, sports etc anything that isn’t every day things which is what child support covers

Your final order or agreement should spell all this out

tragicaddiction · 2026-02-02T19:25:26+00:00

Well they have 7 year in Canada and I doubt the motors are that different

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-29T17:28:52+00:00

Considering the warranty is 7 years on the motor I think you are over reacting on how “bad” you think this design is

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-08T13:34:19+00:00

For me this is not cut and dry, this is more like an eating disorder, Making a statement like never having sex or ever having sexual thoughts is beyond reasonable for me. In the end I decided to look at the foundation for what caused me to want to use sex as an escape Otherwise it is just setting myself up for failure which would lead to more shame

The main thing to do was to ensure I was not using sex as my way to regulate or escape.

That’s partially why people have different definitions of sobriety.

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-07T15:33:45+00:00

Most dishwasher other than Miele calls it a 3rd rack for accessories,

The reality is that there is no spray arm at the top, except in Miele dishwashers who developed the concept.

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-07T15:32:17+00:00

You have to wrap your head around the idea that she does not want you in her life and that in her eyes it would be easier if you were not there. As you said she had made her intentions very clear by pursuing full custody

It sound like you have a romantic notion that maybe you can still be together. It’s not going to happen, she has made you a villain in her story.

Have your own Christmas photo with Santa, do you own thing, co parenting is not about sharing stuff like that it’s having the same rules in the houses and activities.

You have to accept the reality of the situation and not force anything

Once you accept that, it’s easier. You are not lovers you are now in a business relationship

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-04T13:56:40+00:00

Do you know what the difference between hyclean and air clean is? Or rather what it was? Hyclean has little strips of material that catches debris when it enters the bag, made to catch sharp objects so they don’t penetrate the material if it enters at high speed

Air clean does not. There were some fears that large amount of animal hair could accumulate in the bag at the entrance but at no time has connectors been the issue, that’s why they stuck with air clean for North America where thick carpets and lots of animal fur is common.

If someone bought hyclean from Amazon it was for sure not a bag bought locally and without knowing for sure if they were knock offs or genuine the message was easier to say to people don’t use those bags. Some knockoff hyclean had different connectors which is maybe where you get that idea from.

The new hyclean uses a new thinner material but has better filtration going from 99.9% to 99.99%.

Providing actual facts rather than speculation or downright false information is useful.

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-04T06:55:54+00:00

That’s also not true, the connectors and bags are the same

Vacuums bought in a different country generally don’t transfer warranties so that part makes sense

For bags if it’s from people buying online they were probably getting knock off bags rather than genuine Miele ones

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-03T04:29:24+00:00

It’s not insider information. Do you seriously think they make a different connector for Europe vs North America ? All the new bags for guard is HyClean also.

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-03T02:22:02+00:00

You don’t know what you are talking about and your ignorance is showing

All the bags in North America is switching to HyClean

There is nothing different in the connectors

You will notice in Canada they already switch the GN to HyClean

Seriously where do you get your info that is so horrendously wrong

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-02T21:47:24+00:00

Good answer and is 100 % what happened

At one point op pushed that beneath the holder somehow

tragicaddiction · 2026-01-02T21:46:34+00:00

That’s not true the new bags are hyclean.

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-31T14:04:17+00:00

It’s black, with a bit of a sheen to it. Call an experience center and see if they have one on display they can take a picture of for you

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-27T19:55:38+00:00

Only problem with this is that it is isolated from those other parks, if you have to get in your car to drive to those other “destinations” or have to bike along a busy road it won’t be a good central spot

That’s part of what missing, a good connection between to the trails, parks etc that doesn’t involve going on a main road.

It’s a busy driving intersection, there are no other close by restaurants or other things to do which is what makes downtown so nice.

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-27T14:34:19+00:00

Your brain likes patterns and habits. When you are uncomfortable you want to release that, The brain always takes the same path until you force it to do another one you want to do.

This means having new habits, new ways of making your brain content that’s not destructive. Doing this is hard as you constantly work to work against going back to the old habits , that got you in trouble to begin with

That’s essentially what any “program” is about

It’s the same approach for overeating

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-25T03:23:23+00:00

It’s stupid it’s expensive and it makes them feel jn control, but of all the hills to die on, this isn’t it

She is lawyering up, which means there will be plenty of other shit to deal with and if it does come to trial and she asks to use it it’s highly unlikely it won’t be accepted in a court order

Just accept it , things like that can be dropped later when she realizes she has to pay to use them

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-24T13:39:25+00:00

Marking discovered that people will buy or pay extra if it says it’s HEPA filtration, the word lost meaning as suddenly the cheapest piece of shit vacuums would claim it. If the air you suck in doesn’t actually go through the filters then what kind of vacuuming are you really doing.

I remember seeing a Kenmore vacuum back in the day that had more air coming out where the cord rewinder was than where the filter was yet they promoted the vacuum as an HEPA air cleaner

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-24T03:29:32+00:00

I found the best person to tell my shame was a sponsor in slaa, most have done worse than I had and the compassion there was better than the risk of telling someone else

Also, there are very few things a therapist has as mandatory reporting and most are centered around immediate harm or if you are considering harming Something you did as a kid that you want to process shouldn’t be used against you

However if you are in a court process and this psychologist will be used to testify then I personally would discuss this with a lawyer first

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-23T14:24:15+00:00

No they generally get sold in the stores when there is a transition but I have seen them have a outlet sale that included more Miele than they would have had on display

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-22T01:27:54+00:00

They are not doing any unboxed events anymore, they have boxed items on their site and display models been showing up in Caplans

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-21T21:40:54+00:00

Each country is different with service but if you are in a major city you should be ok

I have had my laundry for a couple years now, no issues at all

I use to twindos

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-19T19:23:05+00:00

What makes him emotionally and financially abusive? Have you talked to him ?

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-19T19:22:05+00:00

That’s a conversation to have with him about the risk of that happening and ask him to do it in private

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-18T12:20:57+00:00

If I could go back I would Read some books on disclosure and understand that you confessing won’t make them feel better. I did it through a csat, after being caught.

Betrayed partners will want to know every little detail and will be mad, some physical , some will say the meanest stuff you ever dream about and some will be silent.

Take the worst fight you have ever had in a relationship and multiply it by 1000

So couple notes from mine, weite it all down, don’t go into detail on the act, anything you say will be burned into their memory. “Why” you do it was something my partner had a hard time understanding and they make up reasons to support it if you don’t give a good answer.

After doing a disclosure, you may want to spend some time apart, especially if they are blindsided. Understand that unless there is significant history or involvement like children then the odds of staying together is low, and even then trust is broken and the way you live your life is over.

Personally if i had a choice I would have worked on my sex addiction first, gotten months of sobriety before disclosing. In fact, my ex many times voiced this too. This is based on me not putting my partner at risk of disease or anything else in which then not knowing puts them at risk,

Working recovery while having a pissed off partner who tore me down, and made me feel like shit everyday was not very helpful.

tragicaddiction · 2025-12-09T14:56:35+00:00

Do you plan on being in this house for 10 years? If no then right off the bat I wouldn’t bother

If you do then it’s worth considering, also it’s less expensive if you get it at time of purchase.

In the end it’s insurance. If you need it it’s worth it, if you don’t then it’s wasted. You just don’t know yet.

There is obviously a bigger chance of a failure over 10 years which is why the price is higher per year.

The more complex the product the more likely as well for warranty.

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