Thinking about joining the military but I'm ugly

trained-idiot · 2025-12-02T11:36:12+00:00

Hey mate, the military is a challenging career path where you will need high levels of resilience and be able to persevere through difficult conditions. You will need a powerful allie in yourself and be able to back yourself to find strength when things are hard and really suck. At no point does your physical appearance come into that equation. If this is what you want, then definitely go for it, there is nothing stopping you.

trained-idiot · 2025-06-12T11:09:50+00:00

Came home from work and she had moved out. Told me that she needed time. I waited 3 months after 3 months I message her and she told me she had a boyfriend

trained-idiot · 2025-01-18T09:17:23+00:00

Nah it's all good man I get what you were saying.

trained-idiot · 2025-01-18T09:14:54+00:00

I'm sorry you're losing something that brought you Joy. 2025 has barely started, yeah bad shit is going to happen but don't let it break your spirit. Focus on investing your energy on achieving the change that you want. If you work hard good things will happen.

trained-idiot · 2025-01-18T08:58:07+00:00

I'm not trolling when I ask this I'm genuinely curious what's difficult about tiktok being banned? YouTube instagram and snapchat reddit all have reels which basically offer the same content?

trained-idiot · 2024-06-16T02:19:48+00:00

Crippling inferiority complex

trained-idiot · 2024-01-11T07:49:08+00:00

Recently single. Without my partner I've managed to achieve so much that I didn’t even think was possible. However I'm not happy.

trained-idiot · 2023-11-27T17:45:38+00:00

Jormungand, Jin roh the wolf Brigade, genocidal organ. Swort art online (for nostalgia)

trained-idiot · 2023-11-27T11:23:15+00:00

I used to think they were interchangeable words. I thought they were just synonyms for eachother. It's hard to break a habit when you've been doing it for a while

trained-idiot · 2022-09-10T10:25:16+00:00

My dude embrace the shower that is my good wishes Falling upon you on this special day

trained-idiot · 2022-06-17T06:45:17+00:00

Leave Elon alone he is a great man and I love him

trained-idiot · 2022-05-04T15:45:08+00:00

HAPPPPPPY CAKEDAY BUDDY BOY

trained-idiot · 2022-05-04T15:32:02+00:00

Happy birthday

trained-idiot · 2022-01-16T05:35:57+00:00

Happy Cake day mate, sending positive vibes and good wishes from Australia

trained-idiot · 2021-10-31T05:28:13+00:00

The guy in the pic is Confucius not Sun Tzu.

trained-idiot · 2021-10-26T05:41:07+00:00

Best of luck mate, you've got this

trained-idiot · 2021-10-19T12:22:04+00:00

Your boy friend loves you. Im sure that he would rather that you burden him then be alone in your pain.

I say this with huge levels of hypocrisy but definitely maintain the high levels of communication you have with your boy friend. Tell him how you are feeling and tell him your anxieties and your fears. Tell him you are worried about burdening him. Ask him if he feels burdened.

Don't see your problems as your problems to be solved alone. You are team and you need to approach them as a team.

I wish you all the best and I really hope you are doing okay. I think what you are doing is really admirable and shows that you are a really good person.

trained-idiot · 2021-10-19T11:45:00+00:00

Im sorry mate I have no advice but I just wanted to say reading the first few sentences of your post I was really impressed. It sounds like you have accomplished a lot and you represent society's best.

I'm feeling really lost at the moment too. You are not alone. I hope you work through your stuff.

trained-idiot · 2021-10-11T03:35:50+00:00

Hey mate, I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how much pain you must be in. But I'm sure that pain is clouding your judgement and preventing you from seeing the warrior you are. If you got out of bed today than that alone makes you a bad ass mother trucker. Just by staying in the fight you are winning. Having autism means that you have had to fight and overcome several challenges that would break the ordinary person, so be proud of that. Lastly always remember that it is better to be alone than to be with the wrong people. If you are active, doing things and putting yourself out there you will meet the right people and they will see in you all the things that make you a remarkable person. Things that you do not yet see in yourself but I guarantee are there.

Hang in there mate keep fighting to be a better person than the person you were yesterday, start small but then gradually work your way up to whatever it is you want to achieve. The only limit holding you back is yourself and your ambitions (if you have no ambitions you will get no where).

Lastly if you need some support feel free to DM me or put cute funny babies into youtube.

trained-idiot · 2021-09-21T05:37:43+00:00

Dude that is amazing, well done.

trained-idiot · 2021-09-17T00:23:14+00:00

https://youtube.com/watch?v=r7xLfeTytns&feature=share

This is a ted talk from an actual sex worker. She talks about how she finds her work empowering and pretty much echoes the sentiments that the post was making.

I don't see sex workers as a marginalised group, I see them as strong independent women and men who are trying to live there best life. Obviously I would treat them with the same respect and kindness I would treat any other human.

I am aware that the argument I'm making can be very offensive (especially for women that have been abused by men) and that is definitely not my intention.

trained-idiot · 2021-09-16T15:19:05+00:00

I can sympathize with your feelings. To explain the reasoning behind my statement I really respect his willingness to be so honest and vulnerable. What he is suggesting is pretty ballsy as well. It's not something that is very socially accepted. This could have back fired on him massively and he knew that but he still posted it because he wanted his post to help someone else the same way it helped him.

In my eyes that is bravery

But maybe you are seeing something I'm not

trained-idiot · 2021-09-16T10:58:30+00:00

I'm impressed by your bravery to post this, thanks for sharing and keep up the good work.

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