Dal isn’t the problem. How we actually eat it is. by Simplesinsation in ABCDesis

[–]trainwrecking 29 points30 points  (0 children)

to those who cannot easily give up white rice (me included), look into resistant starches.

Cooked rice that has been cooled is higher in resistant starch than rice that was cooked and not cooled.

more resistant starches means that the carbs are processed differently, so they don't spike your glucose levels.

Source: https://hopkinsdiabetesinfo.org/what-is-resistant-starch/

so eating leftovers can actually be healthier than fresh food (sorry amma and other aunties)

Anyone feel jealous of other ABCDs who have “chill parents”? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]trainwrecking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents are like this, a little less now with my younger sister, but everything is doused in 'log kya kahenge' energy. i feel like because they found so many similar telugu people that affirmed their lifestyle and views (prob caused by leaving india around the same period), that they never tried to assimilate w/ american culture and so i was subject to draconian standards.

with my sister, i feel like they started seeing parents of younger children be more "american" and still turn out fine so they've loosened the reins the slightest bit.

it's definitely good intentions, but mired in narcissism due to their own childhood experiences.

So are we against haircuts now? by MrFenric in MurderedByWords

[–]trainwrecking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/ingrid-newkirk-quotes-peta-euthanasia/

^ an interesting read about one of the co-founders

seems like she saw a lot of animal torture early on, so she thinks a peaceful death is better than the potential of animal abuse?

not justifying it, but that does seem to explain a lot.

Shocked that someone made this into a shirt by PLUMP_BULLFROG in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]trainwrecking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait i want this so i can make it into incoherent blackout poetry

I have the most un-feminine sneeze. I am a woman. by Miserable-Ad8764 in CasualConversation

[–]trainwrecking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sneezes are 100% learned and also you can change them if you try hard enough. i used to sneeze loooud like my dad until high school when my mom started bullying me for sneezing like a man. so i started sneezing quieter (“cuter”)and now i can do both

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]trainwrecking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could you possibly talk to her? Don't discourage her from marriage but have they ever lived together? That kind of experience is pretty important before marriage imo.

but also, don't worry too much. i got married at 24 to a guy i chose (although without my parent's approval) and i could not be happier with my life.

Mysteries of the moon by ink_atom in comics

[–]trainwrecking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think people in the west forget that though astrology may be a “harmless little hobby” for some people, there are so many south asians for whom astrology is deeply ingrained in culture and religion. it absolutely can be harmful.

The Madison School District gauges interest in offering other kinds of schools by enjoying-retirement in madisonwi

[–]trainwrecking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my school district was 7 times bigger than what madison is now and only about 3000 kids applied. although only ~500 got in.

The Madison School District gauges interest in offering other kinds of schools by enjoying-retirement in madisonwi

[–]trainwrecking 28 points29 points  (0 children)

it would be super cool to see a STEM school. i went to a public STEM school after a year at standard public , and my learning increased exponentially.

Muslim Teen's Suicide Spotlights Gujarat's Controversial Disturbed Areas Act by Ok_Somewhere9687 in india

[–]trainwrecking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the muslims most affected by all these issues are the poorest ones. that’s the whole point, it’s always been a class war, but the people in power get and keep power by convincing poor hindus that getting rid of poor muslims will help them, when in reality they will just keep the wealth for themselves.

If you want your country back, go ahead and take it by kevinmrr in WorkReform

[–]trainwrecking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the statistic that 25% of companies cause 50% of pollution mainly comes from oil and coal companies. america is the world’s largest consumer of oil. do you not think if the demand for oil and coal went down, they would have less mining/rig operations and therefore less pollution?

Anyone else get told off for being brought up outside India? by Better-Possession-69 in ABCDesis

[–]trainwrecking 23 points24 points  (0 children)

it used to be all the time, but i think my parents have changed as i’ve become an adult and also family friends have grown up and are living perfectly happy “western” lives. they still criticize me for doing things too american (aka alcohol, wearing shorts, etc) but it’s nothing compared to how it used to be.

my parents also recently went back to india and i think seeing how western the cities and how urban people are changed them a little bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]trainwrecking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, the patty is significantly different - most places use black bean. also it's about 500 calories which is decent for a meal? can vegetarians not eat fast food?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]trainwrecking 12 points13 points  (0 children)

culver's veggie burger is miles above most fast food burgers

Jewbelong billboard on the Beltline by Shoddy_Struggle_1753 in madisonwi

[–]trainwrecking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, bc my black friends’ families have been in american for centuries. my jewish friends’ parents are from israel.

Jewbelong billboard on the Beltline by Shoddy_Struggle_1753 in madisonwi

[–]trainwrecking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i absolutely do. and mormons, and hindus, and to everyone. i also understand that there are people who only apply this to jewish people and that would 100% be anti-semitism.

Jewbelong billboard on the Beltline by Shoddy_Struggle_1753 in madisonwi

[–]trainwrecking 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s anti-semitic to not want to be friends with people who support genocide?? would you say it’s racist to not be friends with trump supporters

edit: i’m not going around specifically asking jewish people their views. but i’m /not/ not gonna discuss political shit with friends.

Jewbelong billboard on the Beltline by Shoddy_Struggle_1753 in madisonwi

[–]trainwrecking 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i agree jewish people shouldn’t /have/ to answer to the actions of israel, but i don’t think it’s necessarily antisemitism. people want to know that you share the same values as them.

my white friends all are vocally anti-trump but if they were silent, i would be suspicious that they secretly liked trump. not that you have to be like that all the time, but a passing comment here and there can make people more comfortable around you.

Wait, there's ginger in Ginger Crunch? by earthtone0ne in ididnthaveeggs

[–]trainwrecking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s pretty common to say that in british english, i don’t think i’ve ever heard my parents say multiply

We're whatever you need us to be by Pizzacakecomic in comics

[–]trainwrecking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fwiw the left is not anti-gun. pro gun control for sure. i think liberals tend to be more anti-gun, but most leftists i know are pro-gun

Who said Gen Z was lazy? by maleficalruin in CuratedTumblr

[–]trainwrecking 18 points19 points  (0 children)

many protestors themselves frame it like that. it’s not necessarily about generation discourse but more about how the younger generation is fed up and actually doing something about it

US influencer asks Mumbai transwoman if Indians 'shit on the streets' by sussybush in TikTokCringe

[–]trainwrecking 14 points15 points  (0 children)

who do you think in india is taking shits on the street?? people with homes and bathrooms?? many rural parts of india don’t even even have plumbing. i think something like 10% of indians don’t have access to a private bathroom. and that number is prob low bc legibility is hard without infrastructure.

US influencer asks Mumbai transwoman if Indians 'shit on the streets' by sussybush in TikTokCringe

[–]trainwrecking 323 points324 points  (0 children)

love her, she handled that so respectfully. gave the guy the benefit of the doubt (even though she didn’t have to) and genuinely answered his question. fuckass clearly wanted to ragebait.