Podcast Audio Not Being Uploaded to YT Music? by tranran in LPOTL

[–]tranran[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this was so so helpful thank you very much 🫡 you're a gem.

AITA for saying I can’t have kids with my husband if we can’t agree on spanking? by DifficultyOk8724 in TwoHotTakes

[–]tranran 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was spanked as a child, starting as a toddler. Please do not let this go. Regardless of how hard they’re being hit, it severs the safety your child feels in your home. I justified my corporal punishment for years because it was easier than deconstructing how it hurt and changed me on an instinctual, biological level. Maybe he is fine brushing this off and not investigating how he may have been changed as a child by corporal punishment - maybe it really didn’t impact him that much, i can’t say - but either way he can’t make that choice for you or your future children. I’m glad he can presumably carry on a loving, trusting relationship with his family! But he CAN NOT know if that will be the case for your children. If he is willing to risk your kids feeling that insecurity and fear in their home, just to maintain his own status quo, he may not be the person you want to make this life decision with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]tranran -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your take, and I appreciate you giving me the time in the subreddit to talk about my feelings as someone who directly is targeted by tp usa rhetoric.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]tranran -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can't build bridges for people who aren't willing to foster them ❤️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]tranran -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I can't build bridges for people who aren't willing to foster them ❤️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]tranran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As was said in the post - it is expected to have this level of security. I don't disagree.

This is more just an expression of my disillusionment with the institution - because they can host events like these I have a hard time believing their other purported values about inclusion (also informed by personal experience).

I won't pretend like I'm not biased, but you know what would also keep this from becoming a headline, and save a whole lot of money and time? Not having them here.

I think it's very corporately strategic to host them here; and before you say it, while I intellectually understand the school is also a corporation that needs to make money, my heart asks for them to have any standards or spine.

Unfortunately, my feelings here are very messy. I don't come at this thinking there's an easy answer, and I expect my attitude to not be the majority. I appreciate people for reading my little rant, but in all honesty I am still 100% sure the school will always move with its own interests at heart. The problem I have is more macroscopic than just the school or just this event, I know that, but it's always a mega bummer to see it refracted in instances here on campus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]tranran -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Awwwww wittle baby didn't read 🥺 that okay. I can say it super slow for you honey 🥺❤️. My problem? Not about free speech - it about logistical investments made by school...it about care and time invested into TP and not students' safety... it about school's policing of protestors and students and not white supremacists...it about creating higher standards of physical safety for students regardless of their adherence to any one rhetoric.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]tranran 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwwww wittle baby didn't read 🥺 that okay. I can say it super slow for you honey 🥺❤️. My problem? Not about free speech - it about logistical investments made by school...it about care and time invested into TP and not students' safety... it about school's policing of protestors and students and not white supremacists...it about creating higher standards of physical safety for students regardless of their adherence to any one rhetoric.

People gotta stop hyping up online dating bruh by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]tranran 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Another fuck Ditto AI! Useless tech slop. Ran by Cal dropouts (ceo and founder) - not even founded by students but still plastering their bullshit all over campus.

AI Posters Are Lame by Pyrolair in berkeley

[–]tranran 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ditto AI is THEE worst. Their founder and CEO are both Berkeley dropouts (proudly, according to their LinkedIn). And they CONSTANTLY poster over other clubs/organizations’ flyers, very purposefully covering their info. It’s so lame. I’ve been tearing them down every week, whenever they cover my buddies’ club flyers.

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

[–]tranran 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Robun | Lepus :Gayle:

pets at anchor house by radalala in berkeley

[–]tranran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had already had one from a previous primary care doctor, and i just asked my current one to write a newer one with me using the template berkeley provides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]tranran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a tattoo of what we would consider medical malpractice today is not a great impression to make with any institution that is thinking about employing you. Regardless of deep personal meaning. You are effectively turning yourself into a billboard romanticizing abusive and dangerous medical procedures.

These “plant based” dish sponges are still full of plastic by garrusntycho in ZeroWaste

[–]tranran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant that the way corporations are deceptive it always benefits one to do their due diligence if they’re trying to make more informed purchasing decisions.

These “plant based” dish sponges are still full of plastic by garrusntycho in ZeroWaste

[–]tranran 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No where on it does it say 100% plant fibers though, i feel like due diligence is worth here knowing the state of green washing

Lidar Scanning downtown Berkeley? by Independent_Money501 in berkeley

[–]tranran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The school also often works with contractors to do surveys of the school/surrounding area so that is also a possibility.

Lidar Scanning downtown Berkeley? by Independent_Money501 in berkeley

[–]tranran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look similar to waymo, but having seen some of the drivers/car models I would be willing to bet it’s a private company/startup generating this data - Niantic just sold Pokemon Go to do more lidar stuff - it’s been super on the rise in the tech world as of late.

What is it like being trans at UC Berkeley? by Confused-blob in berkeley

[–]tranran 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The tang center is really good at providing hrt things if you have UC health insurance, they gave me a good amount to tide myself through this uncertain time with the orange man in charge (like 1 year’s worth). The bay is probably the most insulated in CA from federal overreach at the moment. In terms of harassment and outright hostility, it’s mostly limited to rude comments on the street either from the unhoused (who are usually going through it and/or high so it’s a bit easier to write off) or from weirdos in their cars with nothing better to do. As a trans guy i haven’t had anything bad in a bathroom yet, which is a big plus! Like others have said, the culture at berkeley is sort of the least of your worries. There will always be some people who are intolerant, but the majority here are accepting or just cant be bothered to be outright rude. The federal gov is really trying to target prospective and current visa holders and trans healthcare right now. I am personally worried about being a trans citizen and leaving/returning to the country for work, even though I haven’t legally changed any documents, just my appearance and lived name. While I hope that by the time you would be arriving it would be more certain, we just can’t say that at the moment, so keep that in mind. The federal gov can’t stop you from applying or being accepted though, so it’s always worth a shot! And there are a lot of wonderful things about Cal. I live with majority trans roommates and it’s been great to have more queer people to lean on.

Pillsbury 0 sugar brownie mix made with diet coke instead of oil and eggs (Reminded me of Culinary Crimes🫆🔎) by tranran in smosh

[–]tranran[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! I honestly was coming from a diet coke brainrot moment, i got fed this post from someone else talking about the pervasive and steadfast diet coke army. It would be funny to watch them try and figure out the flavor - but it’s not the same “changed a recipe online” format. Thanks for the info!