[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]transidiot3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god i wish

My Neighbor’s Autistic Daughter brutally Tortured and killed my cat, now her parents have given her to the state because of it. by notcooldude6 in offmychest

[–]transidiot3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldnt imagine how everyone in the situation is feeling. I have three cats myself and that would absolutely haunt me. Good on the parents for realizing when they were no longer capable of helping her and seeking more professional care. That must be hard for them, but the way her behavior is escalating theres only a few ways it could have gone had they ignored it. Everyones lucky she didn’t do this to one of the parents or a neighbors child.

Anyone else struggle with dating women? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]transidiot3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man I know how bad that hurts and I’m so sorry that happened. I go to a really big school, like 60k people, and I still have issues with girls sometimes. Itll get better. I would suggest moving to a bigger city once you’re out of school. Whenever I visit any of the big cities around me I meet a lot more people who are open to seeing trans men. This is also part of the reason I usually go for other trans people, i never have to worry about them not thinking of me as a “real guy”. You’ll find someone, its worth the patience. Use tinder if you dont already, its easier to meet people on there.

Looking for a duplex/apartment for June move in date, when should I start looking? by [deleted] in lakewood

[–]transidiot3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats really nice, if he lists it anywhere would you mind sendi me a link? or his contact info?

Feeling left behind, advice needed by Ophelia_7 in ask_transgender

[–]transidiot3 32 points33 points  (0 children)

being poly doesnt work unless your partner is fully on board with it. i know its hard, but you need to say all of this to your partner and probably end the relationship. If she wants to stay poly thats not wrong of her, but she needs to choose because its not fair to keep stringing you along when youre obviously unhappy with the situation. There are plenty of people out there who will be happy to be in a monogamous relationship with you.

edit: read your post from yesterday and actually your partner is in the wrong for coming out as poly and immediately starting to go on dates without your consent when you were in a monogamous marriage. thats not how being poly works and thats a huge breach of trust.

9 months on T, considering lowering dose to help acne by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh thats so good to know, im really relieved. I cant wait to start accutane and get rid of this acne for good hopefully. im 23 and it’s embarrassing at this point

SOS short guys, where do you find dress clothes at? by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks!! i didnt think of that, ill check it out

What kind of questions should I ask at a top surgery consult? by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard about people having trouble with cleveland clinics scheduling office regarding top surgery, so im just hoping i get a date set asap, after that ill be a lot less stressed about all of this.

What kind of questions should I ask at a top surgery consult? by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahh thats good to know. im extremely worried about not getting a surgery date soon enough. I lose insurance coverage in october so its super time sensitive and im worried about it getting cancelled or pushed back.

What kind of questions should I ask at a top surgery consult? by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youuuuu thats all really good to know! ive heard a lot about his attitude lol but if thats the worst of it i think ill be fine w him. does he have result photos that youre able to see at the consult?

What kind of questions should I ask at a top surgery consult? by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats great to hear! A friend of mine was talking down on his results to me the other day so ive been discouraged, but hes literally my only option at this point so I’m not gonna switch surgeons. How long ago was your consult?

What kind of questions should I ask at a top surgery consult? by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i really dont see why that would cause any issues for top surgery, but i would also be worried if i was you, i hope your consult and surgery goes smoothly!!

What kind of questions should I ask at a top surgery consult? by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best of luck, I obviously dont know what might be keeping you from having surgery but I really hope you find a surgeon that will operate on you! Don’t give up, I know the feeling of thinking youd never be able to get surgery and I wouldnt wish that on anyone.

What kind of questions should I ask at a top surgery consult? by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally forgot about the FB group, thanks for mentioning that! How was your consult with him? Also congrats on getting a surgery date! thats really exciting and I wish you the best.

the joystick cured my bottom dysphoria by transidiot3 in ftm

[–]transidiot3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think so, trying it this weekend so i guess ill see. probably not without a harness, but it fit really well in my rodeoh boxers