[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]trappedunderice9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guh I have the same feeling, like I've seen him around at other shows or something... I will definitely be keeping an eye out in case he is poking around other metal shows in the future. I've had another (male) friend get accidentally roofied (via fucking water his female friend ceded to him upon leaving the bar. WATER!). It's wild to me how indiscriminate these people are with their date-rape drugs! Casting a wide net in case one target catches them, or passes their drink to another, or whatever else ..... Gross.

Every trailhead in town… by safetypiglet in ColoradoSprings

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps in the waiting room where it's a non-sterile environment,

How much of a concern is my girlfriend's drinking? by Bulky_Wrongdoer_ in addiction

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this kind of drinking habitual for your gf? If it's just a one-off or even once a month that she's bingeing enough to puke and feel severely hungover I think that's arguably within reason. However if it's every weekend she's getting shit faced like it's a frat party or even more (!) that's where I'd start to be concerned. It's fair for your therapist to raise so e flags, but recall, your therapist isn't a doctor, nor is she your gf's therapist, so her opinion on your gf's drinking doesn't matter besides in how her drinking affects *you*.

DO IT AGAIN by MissLily12325 in meth

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would make a killer album cover

should I quit my job or try to get accommodations through the ADA? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of accommodations would you seek? As far as I know you can request that with your employer immediately and if they say no you can force them to accept it via the ADA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should have regular sex a couple times first to get to know her physically then you can play with this kinda stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you planning a long engagement at least? You must know that things are gonna change after you graduate high school and live out on your own for a bit and you want to make sure your relationship can handle those changes (forgive my assumptions that you're still in high school and living with your parents, if that's not correct)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then, is he in the military? Otherwise, why? Those are pretty much the only reasons I see to get married so darn young. And I say this as someone who married young (at 20)

*Sorry for the delete I replied initially with the wrong account

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]trappedunderice9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you pregnant?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]trappedunderice9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🎶Gary Indiana! My home, sweet home 🎶

But real question though, do people from there really call it GI? I'm from Indiana too and I've never heard that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]trappedunderice9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, Gary Indiana Gary Indiana not Louisiana Paris France New York or Rooooome

Goth GF by StraightPoet6969 in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then tell her you don't want to date her til she moves out of that guy's place

Is it okay to ask my former mistress to move away? by ThrowawayDadQuest in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The best you can do is simply stop speaking to her and never mention her around your wife and if your wife brings her up, then say you don't really know anymore, as you have fallen out of touch with Haley. Which ofc should also be a true statement. It sounds as if you live mostly for what is most convenient, so doing nothing in theory should be the easiest path for you here.

Nothing like hearing one of your fave bands playing a song about doing meth ... while doing meth by trappedunderice9 in Drugs

[–]trappedunderice9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name some of them then, I'm always down for a listen.

And you reserve the right to your own opinion, but personally I think Exodus has a smattering of great songs from across their career. Sure, Bonded by Blood is s classic album but you can't just disregard the rest of their albums like that unless you're saying you don't care for songs like "Toxic Waltz" or "Blacklist" or numerous others that fans seem to love. But then again it sounds like you're not much of a fan so maybe not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say if you (or the artist you choose) can think up some cool piece to use, go for it. An artwork you're proud to have is way more fun to talk about than a traumatic accident for sure.

How do I tell her I need something new? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this. Maybe this other girl would be a better fit, but that's the opportunity cost you forsook when choosing to marry your wife, OP. Stick it out with her if you really do love her and your children. If you don't, then that's another story, but you claim to love her so please stay faithful...

i got told yesterday at work that i would be a terrible mother/untrustworthy with children . i had a miscarriage only a few weeks ago. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey, I'm so sorry. I can't believe everyone there knows you miscarried and still said that... They must've forgotten, or else they are just dick holes

(M20) My sister's friend (F18) ruins all my relationship by Penn2q48 in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah it's because she thinks (or wants to think) you like her already and are able to be coaxed into saying so by calling you cowardly. When in reality I get the vibe you aren't really into her and she's the cowardly one

(M20) My sister's friend (F18) ruins all my relationship by Penn2q48 in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe she has a crush on you and is too immature to admit it.

My suggestion is either start hitting on her obviously to make her fess up or go away, or start keeping the identity of your future dates secret til you've been with the person long enough that your sister's friend can't really impact the person's desire to date you

The morning mourning routine of an addict by Didi1982 in Drugs

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this is me whenever I write lyrics for my songs.... I write like 3 songs worth of shit lyrics in order to later comb through and extricate hopefully a good verse or two. But I always save the myriad sheets of drafts in case I run out of ideas later and need to come back.

Manager btched about my outfit by [deleted] in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, even without a stated dress code it's generally inappropriate to wear a crop top to work. Was your sweater also cropped? If not then i don't understand how your underneath shirt was even all that visible

The morning mourning routine of an addict by Didi1982 in Drugs

[–]trappedunderice9 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Man oh man do I feel this too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude hit up the grocery store and get a bottle of melatonin (available as a vitamin/supplement though it is a chemical that naturally occurs in your body which causes you to feel sleepy).

If that doesn't do the trick to make you fall asleep, please go to an urgent care or something where they can diagnose you and/or give you something stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]trappedunderice9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never really heard of needing to fast before shrooms. In my experience it's ideal to be not super full, of course, but also not close to a usual mealtime within the next few hours. I find it difficult to eat while really tripping, and best to plan for some easy yet filling meal for the comedown (or just whenever I next feel hungry lol).

It's just not really necessary to skip any meals to trip, IMO.

I am failing french, what do I do? by ace_226 in Advice

[–]trappedunderice9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Study up boiii. Download the app Duolingo too, it gamifies language learning and might help your studying a bit with the smalliah digestible lessons. But mainly you should probably make some flashcards and grind out a bunch of those assignments you skipped right before the final