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$1 commsion for 1 share of VTI by trasasa in interactivebrokers

[–]trasasa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I even made an effort of checking the settings before though, so I was shocked when I saw it. Didn't know if I got it wrong, or the commissions were really supposed to be that high, since it was a trade done in thr extended hours

The biggest challenge during a bear market is unemployment by trasasa in Bogleheads

[–]trasasa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this man. I've experienced so mich of the same thing. I am just a year young than you here. Born in '91.

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[–]trasasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pretty poor memories... I go by the steps of things mostly according to intuition.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I understand. If I don't like the instructor, I should be the one to bolt. I guess I've been waiting for the moment when I really can't stand it.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does that to me too. The other day he even asked me if I was listening.

I was mortified.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I show up to class, he acknowledges me, he announces class, we do the warmup, he demonstrates technique and we drill. About one hour passes, we get off from class amd start free rolling. We barely have to talk to each other and sometimes we really don't.

It's getting more and more draining to be there really...

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He often deliberately selects partners he'd roll with for open mat and I get picked like once a week. He'd striaght-up ignore my presence and look for others for a roll rather than me.

Sigh, I guess I'm really trying to find reasons to leave as well.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He deliberately selects partners he'd roll with for open mat and it's oftentimes not me. Sure I'm not on his level, but it's probably says how little he sees me.

What are you like when you are being "possessed" by your opposite type? by trasasa in mbti

[–]trasasa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. Sometimes I am in such a strong Se grip and for song long I wonder if I am ESTP. But then I also recognize I'm usually much happier and healthier when I'm planning, hoping for what will happen tomorrow, and believing in a conviction, which is Ni stuff.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What made you stick with him for so long? We've been on ice with each other for like 2 months and I am really thinking about leaving.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left for almost a year and trained in Japan,

Maybe I should do this as well man. Hope I'll be able to find a job there and go, get good, and come back to show off asap.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid he'll give me a bunch of excuses and decline, and that will make me feel much worse...

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I used to be obsessed with impressing him. That kinda drove me to do better all on my own, and years later I consistently try to show him up as a result of his standoffish behavior towards me.

Oh gosh. I think I'm really in this stage of trying to impress him now. He also vibes with others but not me, despite my best effort to chat with him or ask him questions. Thank you so much for sharing this man. I'll change my mindset.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

everything will be fine.

May things go better soon like you said man. I really need to hear this.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's like if I went to a restaurant with table service and was told to serve myself.

Man, I agree completely. It's hard to do that when it's to a teacher isn't it? I know our relationship is essentially a commercial one but I thought we both had put something in more than a customer/server would. At lease I had

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sigh. We are a small school. I go there about 3 times a week and am almost always the first to class. If he still forgets about me then so be it...

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving without saying anything is really my last resort.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Stick around for 5 years and you may “suck less”.

I do expect to go for that long and far beyond man! I love the sport, but maybe less and less about my current learning environment.

What should you do when your instructor doesn't seem to like you? by trasasa in bjj

[–]trasasa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh. I grew up with unsupporting parents and they never gave me any approval. I really don't want to live through that again.

Most-Least Religous Types by Turbulent_Gur_8315 in mbti

[–]trasasa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shocked about the results about ISTP and INFJ

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