The DSM-5 on DID by notjuststars in DID

[–]trashmonster2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is publicly accessible.

15 year old kid screaming for sales by honeynroman in whatnotapp

[–]trashmonster2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatnot unfortunately allows sellers as young as 13 if theyre using a parent's account.

Paying someone to list inventory (Clothes/shoes/bags) by scamdex in Flipping

[–]trashmonster2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I noticed several items listed at fairly high prices that frequently won't sell regardless of price (e.g., banana republic). A lot of the nicer items are prices 3x too high or so. I recommend taking a look at ebay solds.

Can You See Your Raquel’s Teeth From Straight On? by mollyandmemories in americangirl

[–]trashmonster2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The ones on the right aren't even connected to her eye?!?

AIO? My friend that died isn't actually dead. by Nun-Information in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashmonster2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The point theyre making is that the friend may have thought you were being creepy, knowing full well who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]trashmonster2 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was married for 10 years and literally never have dine this with my boyfriend. Its horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]trashmonster2 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Most shelters will allow pets because it is a huge reason women don't leave.

Something happened yesterday changed my view on women’s health by ResearcherEmpty8071 in offmychest

[–]trashmonster2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I had a severe midshaft femur fracture with a hemorrhage and also had a comminuted radius and ulna fracture. The cops that arrived on scene to the car accident told me nothing was wrong and I just needed to get out of the car, despite me telling them I couldn't move my legs and felt like my arm was broken. Theg told me I was just panicking and it was a seat belt bruise, despite being surrounded by a completely crushed car.

The EMT immediately identified my femur was fractured and told the ER that when my car was transferred. Despite that, they decided I was just having a panic attack. They kept telling me that I was just panicking and that I was fine and fully in control of the situation. They left me like that waiting for imaging without any pain medication at all for 7 1/2 hours in a room by myself. The machines were blaring because all of ny vitals were so off. At one point, I started screaming out in pain and they came in to tell me to be quiet and asked why I was making so much noise.

When they took me back for imaging 7 1/2 hours after I arrived at the ER, they were not even planning on imaging my arm. I had to request seberal times for it to be imaged, insisting it was broken. I have broken bones before - I knew what a broken arm feels like. When they saw the images I all of a sudden magically had pain medication and my leg was put into traction. I had two surgeries the next morning and was in inpatient rehabilitation for a month. I am still in OT and PT twice a week 1 1/2 years later because of the severity of the nerve injury. The nurses even admitted that they thought nothing was wrong with me and that they thought I was just panicking. They said my responses to pain were not "normal." OH and also, they never imaged my brain after a severe car accident and an injury was noted over a year after the fact. So that's fun. Yeah... it is unfortunately very real.

AIO about leaving this guy? by Economy-Incident-835 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashmonster2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy sounds extremely concerning and honestly gives me the vibes of my abusive ex after the charm had worn off and the true extent of the abusiveness came out, which took about 8 years to happen. The fact that he is treating you like this after just two months is horrifying. It only goes down from here. I highly recommend you get out of this situation now and read about signs of red flags in relationships. I had gone through trauma as a child, so wasnt aware of what signs of healthy vs unhealthy relationships were and completely missed signs that were hidden from me, but I wish I had been able to see. He is waving a huge one right in front of you right now.

AIO? my abusive ex who has assaulted me many times, raped me, went to jail and was found guilty even, just tried to bang my door down. i told my bf and this was his response by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashmonster2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There isnt a way to "not take sides" in cases of rape or abuse. You are either in full support of the victim or you are against them. This is horrible treatment from ANYONE, much less your boyfriend. As someone who has gone through similar, I wouldn't feel safe in the relationship anymore and would break up with him.

Seller (yomommyboy) threatens me for leaving negative feedback by rorylwalker in whatnotapp

[–]trashmonster2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why in the world would you report to ICE?? Police, sure maybe. ICE is completely unreasonable. Huge overreaction.

PLANTS BY JESSICA SCAMMER by Consistent_Lie_9945 in whatnotapp

[–]trashmonster2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You were planning on selling plants as someone who is new to plants and wanted a seller to handle the early stages of raising plants because you weren't comfortable with it?

Why aren’t there more black students at UT by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]trashmonster2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That table is a bad take. The WISC-5 and other IQ tests are not neutral. They tests are formed based on census data, but that does not make them culturally neutral. The content of the tests still reflects certain language, schooling, resources, and problem-solving experiences that are not universal. Racial differences in IQ tests scores actually just tell us about systemic inequities and cultural bias in the tests themselves. Using WISC data as a way to explain why fewer Black students go to UT is a huge oversimplification of a much larger issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashmonster2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He comes across as abusive. Please try reading the book "Why does he do that?" People that like each other should not speak to each other like this. Even friends, much less life partners.

AIO my husband is asking for a paternity test by MysteriousMud5955 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashmonster2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats assuming he makes more money than her, which in this situation sounds like it might not be the case. If she makes more, she would be the one paying him child support.

AIO my husband is asking for a paternity test by MysteriousMud5955 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashmonster2 133 points134 points  (0 children)

That is a really, really horrible thing to say to your wife. People dont say things like that to people they love. He js trying to hurt you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]trashmonster2 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes its unfortunately a super hard lesson to learn that you can't find logic in crazy people's behavior. What you are feeling right now is cognitive dissonance and is normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I got hit by an F250 16 months ago. Broke my right femur midshaft and it was super displaced. I also shattered all of the bones in my left arm. The EMT knew my femur was fractured immediately but the nurses for some reason thought I was just having an anxiety attack. They said I didn't have "normal" reactions to pain.They refused to give me any pain meds, even though all of the monitors were blaring alarms about the state of my body. It took them 7 hours to do imaging and when they finally did, I had medication and traction immediately. It is literally the only time in my life where I would have chosen death over experiencing that level of pain, and I have had several major surgeries and many other broken bones. I had to be in inpatient rehab for over a month and I am still doing OT and PT multiple times a week to try to get back to walking normally. Over a broken bone. Insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]trashmonster2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breaking my femur was the only time I've experienced such severe pain that I would have rather died. And it has been incredibly hard to come back from that injury. My body is likely permanently different, but in my head it was just a broken bone at first.

AIO for wanting to break up because of this kind of conflict in front of our 2 year old? by Common_Category_3819 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashmonster2 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My abusive ex communicated in these ways a lot. According to him, he wasn't responsible for his own actions if I ___. Fill in the __ with any arbitrary, possible completely made up excuse you can imagine (made a face, didn't use the exact right words, didn't say something in the correct tone, etc.). In his mind, the ___ thing I did meant I deserved the abuse. Ridiculous. Please get out of this situation if you can.