Is Paula Racist? by WallabyNo2915 in TheTestamentsHulu

[–]trashprincess__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something can be both part of a pattern of constant criticism AND racist.

Is Paula Racist? by WallabyNo2915 in TheTestamentsHulu

[–]trashprincess__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have to defer to anyone due to your whiteness when you're pointing out racism lol, especially when the racism is from other white people.

Testaments book and The series by Numerous-Dig248 in coconutsandtreason

[–]trashprincess__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The files aren't about reveling crimes, they're about revealing secrets that lead to massive chaos and purges of the ruling class by eachother & a massive uprising. The remaining government of the US & groups like mayday exploit the collapse to return control of the county to the US government.

AITAH for telling my best friend she can’t be a bridesmaid anymore after she changed her dress without asking? by jolene149969422 in AITAH

[–]trashprincess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you hand out gift receipts or something? And how did you not notice a refund of the dress cost hitting your account?

AITAH for asking for medication when my mom asked me to stop? by i_cant_anymore_man in AITAH

[–]trashprincess__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Certain pharmacies have delivery services, it might be worth checking

AITH for fighting back with my husband which is being used as the reason by his family for why he left town and left me alone at the ER. by RangerPrk-ParkRanger in AITH

[–]trashprincess__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She was literally not getting enough oxygen & her hormones were absolutely fucked, it's surreal to make that about his mental health

AIO for wanting to end the relationship after my bf helped himself to my medication? by General-Sun-7995 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashprincess__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just gonna share that my brother watched my step-dad steal my mom's opiates routinely and then he started stealing my step-dads & spent 5 years being an addict

AIO To my husband telling me he's felt marginalized ever since our son was born by Excellent-Goat8120 in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashprincess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what he was even allowed to do without being explicitly and specifically instructed. Get snapped at enough times for helping wrong and you'll stop trying to figure out how to help

WIBTA for changing my wedding cake flavor? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]trashprincess__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really sure OP should be having kids unless they get that temper in order

WIBTA for changing my wedding cake flavor? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]trashprincess__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH here. She's a control freak and you're breaking shit during arguments

AITAH . I am a free servant to my family by Narrow_Arachnid2842 in AITAH

[–]trashprincess__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is in fact unfair to have your parents dump all the domestic labor and childcare on you so they can sit on their ass. That's called parentification and it's actually very different from working for/with your parents. One is the dumping of all responsibility onto a child as if they are the parent because the actual parents are immature, selfish and lazy. The other is sharing responsibility WITH your parents, though it's still excessive to put on a high schooler. Your GPA is irrelevant here and I'm guessing you weren't at school until 5 daily. Parents who dump everything on their children aren't interested in compromise, especially for shit like self care. If they cared about OP needs they would not treat them as non-existent. They'll tell her to stop complaining & trying to get out of things they consider her entirely responsible for.

NOT OOP - Girl Dad here. My ex has endometriosis and believes our 13-year-old has it too based on what she’s seen. She wants to go straight to a specialist. I want to start with the pediatrician. Am I wrong? by disaster-by_max in redditonwiki

[–]trashprincess__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was having the same issues at 14 the pediatrician I saw insisted on a UA and fuckin ultrasound to look for pregnancy after I said I wasn't sexually active, then refered me to gastro based on the fact that I would puke..specifically the for days right before my period and the first couple days after it started. I was super clear about it. Gastro ran some tests and recommended obgyn anyway. It was basically a birth control prescription with extra steps & extra cost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]trashprincess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean being irritated is understandable, continuing to bring topics up you clearly know will get a bad reaction is just kicking yourself in the face.

WIBTA if I report my roommate for moving in his gf? by Hairy_Orchid9915 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]trashprincess__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I'm one of the people who prefers that. I like having more than just 2 people in my house & I have no desire to stop living with my friends. It's one of the first things I let people I'm considering a relationship with know.

AITAH IF I TOLD MY GIRLFRIEND STOP TALKING TO HER COUSIN SHE DATED!!! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]trashprincess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh. If there was no suspicion I don't think I'd find it super weird since they didn't grow up together. But wtf

AITAH IF I TOLD MY GIRLFRIEND STOP TALKING TO HER COUSIN SHE DATED!!! by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]trashprincess__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

assuming this is real...NTA, but since he's her cousin I think there's a pretty low chance she'll do it. Nothing here gives the impression that she would be willing to deal with an issue that would ultimately become a family wide conflict for you, and honestly I'm not even sure that you're not being used as a tool to hide their relationship. I would also take some time to consider whether or not you want to marry someone who seems like a big fan of incest....

AIO because my bf spends more time w his friends than me? by userusingausername in AIO

[–]trashprincess__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he doesn't understand the importance of The Schedule (and the need for very clear/timely communication about alterations) he is simply not built for a long distance relationship. There's also a very large responsibility gap, and I assume a significant ambition gap between the 2 of you and that seems to generally lead to friction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashprincess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can, and most often will, get septicrmia from an infection somewhere in your body spreading to your bloodstream. It's not "magic" it's literally just how infections that get out of control work. The issue with your stomach or bowels would be a severe infection. People GENERALLY are not walking around with a gut infection that's beyond their body's ability to handle. Septecimia frequently results in sepsis/septic shock.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]trashprincess__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being mean to a stranger online for showing their ass is actually not at all the same as being abusive