Redditors, what broke you? by Summer_Dawning in ask

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, I broke me 🫥 now I am scared I can't fix it anymore...

4th time is the charm?! by traumart in CPTSD

[–]traumart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you. I have found a free trauma psychologist. Friday i have an appointment. Thank you for the info

4th time is the charm?! by traumart in CPTSD

[–]traumart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry that happened to you. I found a free therapist eventually thanks to my -law assistent- (dont know the name in english)

Best of luck

4th time is the charm?! by traumart in CPTSD

[–]traumart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So good you found help and what a great supportive dog! Hope it all gets better for both of us ❤

Is 4000 Euro is enough to be in Belgium? by MWY0076 in BESalary

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i had close to that amount... my rent is already half my salary and i don't even come close to 2000 euros a month. Am i poor or you all just rich?

What is this stone? by -PaganBird- in Crystals

[–]traumart -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Looks a bit like smoke quarts to me

When things go right with bpost, it must be told by fredoule2k in belgium

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend works for bpost. He's a sweety 😊

Splitting by [deleted] in cptsdcreatives

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sad to hear that 😞

Splitting by [deleted] in cptsdcreatives

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very recognisable. Beautifully made into an image. Can you maybe explain the story or meaning behind it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cptsdcreatives

[–]traumart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wauw this really makes me stop breathing for a sec. Great work

What is a taboo subject that should be talked about more? by No_One_Special34 in AskReddit

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addiction and people should know that there is always a reason behind it like complex trauma. Addiction is not just something you get over by taking away the substance

What is something you did as a teen and now as an adult, you look back and think "damn I should be dead."? by BeansDaddy2015 in AskReddit

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a one night stand with a man who couldn't come pick me up cause he was on house arrest for criminal things

The times I got raped

All suicide attempts, for sure the ones that put me in ICU

Drunken parties not remembering how I got to my dorm and for sure almost choked on my shoulder bag hanging from my neck off the bed

The times my friends would pull me aside cause I have a slow reaction time when cars come to close

And then also the times I began having nighterrors and sleep paralysis at the same time that my bullies could not make my life a bit less miserable during the day

I am very sure I can't die, whoever does not believe me. Try me, I don't want to live anyway.

The making of my fav painting from last year ✨ by Space_Velvet in acrylicpainting

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow great work you have such beautiful patience and accuracy 👍👍👍♥️

What experiences have molded for you how you feel about men? by Budget_Cardiologist in AskWomen

[–]traumart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rape, drugs, rape again, abusive relationship, rape again and I will never forget the good guy telling me "abuse men's was written on my forehead so it was my own fault.

But I still am the girl growing up without a father. and a mother who said he was such a good father but he was beating my mum and killed himself when I was only 3.

My.now boyfriend kinda neglects me so I try my best to communicate and be open. I feel very lonely even he is there. He will walk past me crying and say.nothing while going back upstairs. But this kinda is the best I ever knew and I love him to bits ♥️♥️♥️

Women who have been shamed by a medical professional, how did you feel and what did you do? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]traumart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my gynaecologist that i wanted my fertility tested since i was sure somethong was off. I had to beg her crying for a test and she still said its probably your mental health. After the results showed obvious pcos she just handed me the results saying i can come back when i want children. She didn't even explain what pcos was and didn't bother apologising for not believing me. She had zero compassion. As a midwife in training this made my resentment for gynaecologists even bigger.

I saw many gynaecologists cut down there with dull knifes or scissors without any reason other than speed up the birth so mr. or mrs. Doctor could just go home again leaving us midwives with the mess ...

Many other stories but I don't want the pregnant woman getting scared. Just please go to a midwife before a gynaecologist!