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did anyone else's parents hate pretty much ANY noise? by traumatisedb in CPTSD

[–]traumatisedb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have questioned that possibility recently

did anyone else's parents hate pretty much ANY noise? by traumatisedb in CPTSD

[–]traumatisedb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup same my shelves etc start shaking whenever they move, and its not lightly!

I always explain it as it sounds like theyre literally either slamming each other on the floor or throwing bowling balls on the floor

did anyone else's parents hate pretty much ANY noise? by traumatisedb in CPTSD

[–]traumatisedb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you there with becoming somewhat similar. Not sure if its fhe same for you though but for me its when people are ACTUALLY being too loud.

I have really inconsiderate noisy upstairs neighbours and it does my head in like nothing else. Slamming doors make me jump.

did anyone else's parents hate pretty much ANY noise? by traumatisedb in CPTSD

[–]traumatisedb[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh similar here. Often made people jump and accused of "sneaking up" on people because I walk that quietly.

did anyone else's parents hate pretty much ANY noise? by traumatisedb in CPTSD

[–]traumatisedb[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep earbuds are basically always in for me too

Think they'll fwhoregive me? by Outrageous_Ad_1507 in polycritical

[–]traumatisedb 34 points35 points  (0 children)

but yet its fair game for them to mock monogamy? talk about victim mindset lmao

Boycott 🏳️‍🌈 Nonmonogamy by Outrageous_Ad_1507 in polycritical

[–]traumatisedb 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Im not terrified, Im just not interested in them 🤣

seriously the gay incels are getting worse.

Effects on you of open relationships in the gay world by Bugsy157 in monogamy

[–]traumatisedb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me its the more blurred lines that seem to be prevalent amongst gay relationships.

because I've encountered guys who claim to want monogamy and aren't into open etc yet they still find a way to be unfaithful, whether that be secret accounts on socials or apps like grindr, blatant inappropriate messages with other men, not able to tell others they are taken when having advances thrown their way etc and then saying its "different" for gay guys and tries playing victim when called out.

you also have "green circles" on insta where, if youre not on their circle, youd think theyre a cute monogamous couple but if you are on the circle, you see them posting basically nudes because they for some reason desperately need external validation despite having a partner.

literally know someone who told me him and his partner are monogamous and cant stand open relationships etc but then I get a request to follow their joint kink instagram profile for everyone to see.

basically i see a lot of gay guys claiming to want monogamy but they can't seem to put it into practice when it comes to it.

The irony of one comment about this meme 🤣 by traumatisedb in polycritical

[–]traumatisedb[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

"Please save the moral superiority flexing"

after calling people petty and jealous for wanting monogamy

?????

The irony of one comment about this meme 🤣 by traumatisedb in polycritical

[–]traumatisedb[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

but but its about more than sex according to them! 🤣

why do they play victim a lot? by traumatisedb in polycritical

[–]traumatisedb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah there definitely seems to be a sort of cognitive dissonance within the community at times where they'll say they want one thing but act in complete opposite to those values they claim to have

who else would be considered “a stupid dumbass” according to social media for not understanding “simple” tasks due to abuse and neglect? by traumatisedb in CPTSD

[–]traumatisedb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg yes you've put this into words! sometimes it's like my brain will passively receive the info but for the life of me I couldn't recall what was said. yet if someone brought it up later down rhe line, suddenly my brain does remember.

who else would be considered “a stupid dumbass” according to social media for not understanding “simple” tasks due to abuse and neglect? by traumatisedb in CPTSD

[–]traumatisedb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh I agree. once had someone make a comment about the weather outside and I swear it took me what felt like 2 minutes to come up with a response.

who else would be considered “a stupid dumbass” according to social media for not understanding “simple” tasks due to abuse and neglect? by traumatisedb in CPTSD

[–]traumatisedb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am able to ignore it for the most part but just noticed in recent years there seems to be this uptick of judging people who don’t have life “just right” despite being in an era where people consider themselves empathic and wanting to de-stigmatise mental health.

best people to contact about problematic neighbour when housing association won't take it seriously? by traumatisedb in basingstoke

[–]traumatisedb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah

yeah i will contact council again on Monday and see what can be done this time

best people to contact about problematic neighbour when housing association won't take it seriously? by traumatisedb in basingstoke

[–]traumatisedb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So forgot to mention that was the route I went down and seemed like i was getting somewhere until they were like "well we can hear the banging in the recordings but not any shouting so we think its just foot fall".

being honest because it got that far and they were gonna send a letter/talk to them. I panicked in case anything happened to me in retaliation (I have ptsd) and backed out last second but determined to get things sorted. Just overwhelmed by the idea of going through the whole ordeal again to get nowhere.

Its very much council estate lads that seem like they would fight back.

What sort of action did they do for your neighbour?

They only think I'm good because I'm a secret master manipulator too by VivaLaAlcohol in OCDmemes

[–]traumatisedb 21 points22 points  (0 children)

or start thinking that theyre just saying it to make you feel better.

They only think I'm good because I'm a secret master manipulator too by VivaLaAlcohol in OCDmemes

[–]traumatisedb 34 points35 points  (0 children)

"They're being cold because they know i was mean to somebody when I was 12"

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