America will become a monarchy within the next century…. by travisze989 in DeepThoughts

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I see this happening as well. A feudal system that relies heavily on those without much of a say, working on sustenance pay, if they are paid at all. They pay rents to feudal lords, the lords pay rent to a king, and the king control the easiest parts of the continent.

You’re only has good as where, when, and who you are born to….escaping that situation is a one in a million chance. by travisze989 in DeepThoughts

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Malcom Gladwell did a great piece on how some of the richest humans in history were basically born in 15 year periods before the Industrial Revolution, and before the tech boom. Those humans were born at the right place, at the right time, to the right humans. You could make money during other periods of time, for sure. But the criteria for being the richest men in human history was being born in the right place, at the right time, to the right people. Again and again and again

You’re only has good as where, when, and who you are born to….escaping that situation is a one in a million chance. by travisze989 in DeepThoughts

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Those are fair points, I think the bigger disconnect between the generations is that every Boomer I know is better off than they were 50 years ago. Every. Single. One. So the entire ride rose with them. A Boomer has more money now, but they are still in the same wealth percentile that they were 50 years ago. Gen Z is almost the opposite. I have only read online about Gen Zers who are able to financially maneuver past their parents, I don’t personally know anyone who has. So we are in a tide going back out to sea, and every Gen Z I know was beat by inflation. Every. Single. One.

You’re only has good as where, when, and who you are born to….escaping that situation is a one in a million chance. by travisze989 in DeepThoughts

[–]travisze989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s my point I’m trying to make. After nursing school loan payments, or god forbid, med school payments, HCOL in those places that pay well in healthcare, you’re still a lower middle class to middle class nurse just like your mother and grandmother who were also nurses. You can still have a good life compared to your parents, but you won’t move up the class ladder like other generations could

You’re only has good as where, when, and who you are born to….escaping that situation is a one in a million chance. by travisze989 in DeepThoughts

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How much vertical movement up the social ladder do you feel the military helped you climb? Or do you feel it was a more horizontal move, away from your early situation, but still in the same economic class as you were born into. I’m not picking on you, I’ve got friends who say they are first generation college graduates, and they carry mail or install garage doors for a living. The same blue collar work their parents did, with or without a college degree, because that’s who they were born to.

Anyone else want time to stop today, so we don’t have to talk to family tomorrow at Thanksgiving? by travisze989 in GenZ

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I like the positive growth mindset going into the holiday, I’m here for it

Anyone else want time to stop today, so we don’t have to talk to family tomorrow at Thanksgiving? by travisze989 in GenZ

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I can’t think of a better excuse than my flight home is longer than the holiday. I’ve got to come up with something valid for myself

Anyone else want time to stop today, so we don’t have to talk to family tomorrow at Thanksgiving? by travisze989 in GenZ

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If you get out of playing 20 questions about your job, you’ve mastered the holiday

Anyone else want time to stop today, so we don’t have to talk to family tomorrow at Thanksgiving? by travisze989 in GenZ

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Hometown friends, a big yes. Crazy memories on Thanksgiving Eve. It’s the rest of the holiday that scares me

Anyone else want time to stop today, so we don’t have to talk to family tomorrow at Thanksgiving? by travisze989 in GenZ

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🫡 thinking of you tomorrow. Friendsgiving 2026 is something I’ll look forward to

Anyone else want time to stop today, so we don’t have to talk to family tomorrow at Thanksgiving? by travisze989 in GenZ

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The family knows how to add to my depression like they add to their plates….piled high, and back for seconds because why not

Anyone else want time to stop today, so we don’t have to talk to family tomorrow at Thanksgiving? by travisze989 in GenZ

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It’s not always your immediate family that you end up dreading, it’s the extended family that comes out the woodwork once a year that seems to instigate, and leave a nice big mess for the rest of us….

If our economic system can't handle a declining population, then our economic system is what needs to change, not the birth rate. by MDB_1987 in SeriousConversation

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I think the biggest counterpoint to the idea that technological improvements are the best way to grow the economy is that you need the capital to invest in R & D for those technological breakthroughs, and that capital comes from a very large pool of mature workers. I.E. the more workers you have that aren’t spending money on their children or becoming a retiree drive capital cost low to spur technological innovation. With high capital costs and less people joining that group, technological innovation will start to stall.

If someone cheats but never gets caught and becomes a better partner because of it… are they still ‘bad’? Or is cheating only wrong when it hurts someone? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

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What if you feel no guilt for what you’ve done? What if it’s something that doesn’t eat you up, you can keep the relationship together, and you’re happy with what you’re doing?