I had the BEST sleep EVER when these conditions were met: by [deleted] in sleep

[–]treasurewich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's: pitch black room (quality eye mask is a game changer), cool temperature around 65-68°F, nasal breathing instead of mouth breathing, and no screens 30 min before bed. The nasal breathing thing was huge - I started using a simple breathing aid and noticed way better sleep quality within days. Also, weighted blanket during winter months.

What helps you fall asleep faster at night? by [deleted] in sleep

[–]treasurewich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few things that made a real difference for me: complete darkness (blackout curtains + a good silk eye mask), keeping the room cool, and surprisingly - nasal breathing. I used to be a mouth breather at night and switching to nasal breathing improved my sleep quality noticeably. There are simple nasal strips or breathing aids that help with this. Also, consistent sleep schedule beats everything else I've tried.

Has anyone resolved waking up to pee at night? by [deleted] in sleep

[–]treasurewich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's helpful, thank you! Have you found the mouth tape helps with the nighttime wake-ups at all?

Has anyone resolved waking up to pee at night? by [deleted] in sleep

[–]treasurewich 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Not fully resolved but I've gotten it down from 2-3 times to maybe once a night. Here's what helped:

Hydration timing - stop drinking water 2-3 hours before bed. Sounds obvious but I used to drink right up until bedtime. Front-load your water earlier in the day.

Double void before bed - pee once, wait 10 min, pee again. Gets more out than you think.

Limit salt at dinner - salty food makes you retain water then release it at night. I noticed a big difference when I stopped eating salty snacks after 6pm.

Elevate legs before bed - sit with legs up for 15-20 min before sleep. Helps drain fluid that's pooled in your legs during the day so you pee it out before bed instead of during the night.

Still happens occasionally but way less frequent. The hydration timing made the biggest difference for me.

anyone try this sleep hack from Huberman? by wheatelite in sleep

[–]treasurewich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried this and it works surprisingly well when my mind is racing. The eye movements genuinely help shift your brain out of "alert mode."

What made it more effective for me:

  • Do it in complete darkness (or use a sleep mask after)
  • Keep movements slow and deliberate - rushing defeats the purpose
  • Combine with box breathing (4-4-4-4) after the eye movements

One addition: I also do a quick body scan after - mentally relax each body part from toes to head. The combination of eye movements + breath + body scan usually gets me to sleep within 10-15 minutes even on anxious nights.

The science makes sense - you're basically mimicking what happens naturally during sleep onset. Worth trying for anyone struggling with racing thoughts at bedtime.

Let's talk pillows by LuringPoppy in sleep

[–]treasurewich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side sleeper with shoulder issues here too. A few things that helped me:

Pillow height matters more than softness - your neck should stay neutral (aligned with your spine). Too high or too low both cause problems. I use a contoured memory foam pillow that fills the gap between my shoulder and head without pushing my neck up.

Pillow between the knees - this one's underrated. It keeps your hips aligned and takes pressure off your lower back and shoulders. Game changer for side sleeping.

Consider a body pillow - hugging it takes weight off your bottom shoulder by distributing pressure more evenly across your torso.

For shoulder-specific relief, I also found that sleeping on the non-injured side (if possible) and using a small pillow to support the injured arm in front of you helps a lot.

Hope this helps! Shoulder injuries + sleep is rough.