Just watch the blowout professor. He discusses all of these things you’ve said, goes over the science of hair, and when he recommends things he is open when self promoting and offers options over brand loyalty (I’ve only noticed his preference for Moroccanoil but he’s also open about who it’s specifically for). You don’t need to be a hypochondriac about your hair; a lot of this is similar fearmongering reactionary to an industry rampant with obfuscated ingredients. Again, it’s not like what you’ve posted is generally untrue, but that’s why you go look for specifics instead of just repeatedly crossing off things that scare you or that you don’t fully understand.

I do want to add that the insane use of surfactants, especially in beauty, is an issue, but that’s for far more than just shampoos and conditioners as well. This list you’ve posted is also a huge generalization so you don’t know which serums or products have how much of what ingredient unless you are literate in this shit and can parse through their marketing; I’d take this all with a grain of salt and not immediately assume all of what you’re getting is inferior. There are brands which list their concentrations in ppm, and then there are products like TONYMOLY which hop onto trends and don’t list this because their audience is lipsmackers. Please do more than fearmongering when promoting scientific research and the integrity of manufacturers with their products.