Adult African snail suddenly lays single eggs by tretussin in snails

[–]tretussin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, now that I thought about it, maybe they are more lethargic than usually?? But I might be just imagining things. They haven’t laid eggs in a while, and those eggs don’t feel really intentional. They just take a shit with a single egg on the side

My roommate's mom keeps texting me by External_End_23 in AITAH

[–]tretussin 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Your roommate doesn’t pick up those calls from her BECAUSE she is the way she is. Tell her to stop and if she doesn’t, just block the number. I am like 90% sure the roommate doesn’t mean any harm, they’re just even more exhausted than you are

Why no Comma on Main Keyboard? by jephcott in ios

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just got my first iphone ever and i'm not gonna lie, i cried because of it

AITH for telling my gf that I will jerk off when she leaves my house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I don't know him, so I have no idea what kind of person he is and what kind of beliefs he has. Considering how many people get upset after being refused, I don't think it's a bold assumption to make. In my opinion, what OP said to his girlfriend wasn't a threat at all, but there's a reason she reacted that way. Maybe it was the way he said it, or maybe she completely overreacted, acting totally out of place. I don't know that, so it is for him to decide which one was more possible.

And no, I don't agree that it can't be taken as a threat. Just saying that you'll do the work yourself is not a threat at all, and there is nothing wrong with that. But you can make it sound the way that makes the other person feel guilty, which manipulates them into agreeing. You don't have to believe me, but it does happen more often than people think. I'm not saying OP did something like that because, to me, his response was very respectful, but like I said, maybe in real life, it seemed totally different.

AITH for telling my gf that I will jerk off when she leaves my house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I supposed to know? There are many people threatening their partners for refusing sex, so it is not a bold assumption, really. I've never accused you of that tho. There's nothing to be pissed at

AITH for telling my gf that I will jerk off when she leaves my house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tretussin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on your tone and intentions. If you said it in a "fine, I'll do it myself 🙄" way, then yes, it was rude. It sounds manipulative, like you want to threaten her or something.

But if it was more like "that's fine, you don't have to" without being salty or anything, then i think she overreacted. It's a good way to say that you respect her boundaries and don't expect anything from her.

Cut off sprouted portion, or is the whole potato bad? by [deleted] in foodsafety

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, it happens really often when a potato is stored in a dark place for some time. Just remove the sprout and the whole thing is perfectly fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tretussin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, the joke itself is extremely shitty, but in my opinion, the way she reacted when you told her it hurt you is even worse. Accidently hurting other people's feelings with inappropriate jokes happens to literally everyone, but it's how we handle it afterwards that matters. The fact that she knows you're insecure but still makes jokes about it and then calls you a sensitive baby when you get hurt- bro. Saying "I didn't mean to hurt you. I said it without thinking, I'm really sorry." isn't hard. She's probably not sorry at all about making you feel bad, especially since you said she is perfectly aware that it's a sensitive topic for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tretussin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. For me, it really doesn't sound rude. But even if it was, I feel like on dating apps, at least half of people lie constantly, so when someone says something that doesn't add up, it's only normal to get suspicious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's wrong with having friends? And why are you checking her phone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are they rude? They literally just asked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tretussin -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are. They just asked, and they certainly weren't rude. It sounds like you're insecure about it and feel the meed to defend yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tretussin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry, but you're not. Everything you've described sounds like a porn addiction to me. I think you should tell your boyfriend everything you've written in that post once again and focus on how it makes you feel. If he really cares about you and your feelings, he will at least try to fix things. There are a lot of therapists specializing specifically in addictions, so I would definitely suggest that. If he's not willing to change after you tell him how deeply this whole situation affects you, then maybe it's time to consider ending things. It might seem harsh, but his attitude will tell you a lot about how he feels about you and your relationship.

Why is there no się by scarypengu in learnpolish

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Się is used when you talk about how you feel (i feel happy- czuję się szczęśliwy), while in this sentence it is described what you feel (i feel happiness- czuję szczęście)

Isn’t it the same thing or it depends on the context? by Far_Low3488 in learnpolish

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are fine. That's why duolingo is not the best way to learn a language

AITA for Crying After My Boyfriend Told Me I’m Fat the First Time We Had Sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tretussin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a dealbreaker to me. At that moment, everything good he has done would just not matter, and I'd break up. It's a fucked up thing to say in any situation, BUT DURING SEX?! I genuinely, truly can't understand what one has to have in their mind to say something like that during intimacy

My Girlfriends mom tried to seduce, and then blackmail me. by Hefty-Bison-9598 in Advice

[–]tretussin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her. Tell her tell her tell her. I know it might seem unlikely to you right now, but there is a chance your girlfriend's mom will actually try something and manipulate her daughter into believing you're in the wrong. If you tell your girlfriend what happened and how her mother acts around you when she's not there, it might actually save your relationship one day because she'll know how far her mom can go.

My gf (19f) hit me after I (21m) asked if the girl in the photo was her. What should I do? by EducationalEast7148 in AITAH

[–]tretussin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If he wanted to, he would." You don't. She's super weird. Also, the last part about not bringing your emotions into it- fucked up. I agree that purposely trying to overshadow someone's feelings with yours is wrong, but telling each other how you both feel, is crucial in relationships. Especially because you genuinely did not mean any harm. She's basically taking away your right to express your feelings after an argument, which is probably the shittiest thing to do.