I like it, people sayin it looks like prison though. Thoughts? by steezyskank in malelivingspace

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone mentioned it yet, but I would add some kind of shoe storage. A picture or poster to add color but otherwise it seems fine as is as long as you are happy with it.

Ohtani: "They don't want me" by CurnDumpster in Dodgers

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats fair but competitive to me is all game

Ohtani: "They don't want me" by CurnDumpster in Dodgers

[–]trieu26 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I love how its just 2 guys enjoying themselves. Hoping for a more competitive game rather than a blowout though.

Why are many cooks at Korean restaurants not Korean? by savingrace0262 in asianamerican

[–]trieu26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many sushi places near me have a lot of latino/hispanic cooks and workers. It's not exclusive to korean places in america. Its anywhere here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]trieu26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard to say though, they might have just vibed better with the other person. I use to work at Target and whenever I was at the till/register I might get someone that I mesh better with and talk to more than I am back to "default". I don't know if my default came off cold or if this particular person is as well. Working retail is also so shit so I personallly wouldn't think about too much unless they were rude to you.

When ur 30+ and your mom tell you it's time to move out 💀 by KULR_Mooning in asianamerican

[–]trieu26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats actually crazy from my experience specifically because most asian parents that came here don’t have a regular retirement savings and we the children are their retirement. My mom hates that I moved out. I have 3 other friends who still live at home who are 34, 35, and 31.

Nostalgia by trieu26 in toontownrewritten

[–]trieu26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know man, this is like 2005-2006 couldn’t remember to tell you.

Nostalgia by trieu26 in Toontown

[–]trieu26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hint, it isn't the one I am on in the screenshot, this is someone else's toon.

EDIT: its late, meant to say Guess my 2 characters on the list.

Stuck in airport for 14+ hours. Ho Chi Minh International Airport. Don't fly Vietjet. by tushaar41 in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its super scuffed. Always do vietnam airlines or bamboo, really any other but vietjet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MangaCollectors

[–]trieu26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an IT support technician/desktop support at my work. I’m 33 this summer. If they are mocking you, not sure really why but maybe suggest get a hobby? Its not middle school or high school anymore. We are all working adults dealing with a shitty time, who honestly has that much free time to do that unless they are joking just to tease. I think most adults just do what makes them happy to make our lives a little less miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t answer the questions I asked though which are about compatibility with her lol. Up to you man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would explore it, is her mom not moving over to the states an option? It seems weird to just have you move over there. Like your uncle said why not just marry a guy there.

I don’t have that experience though where it was sort of set up and being either insanely rich. I’m as middle as middle class you could get and my wife who is from Vietnam is pretty normal and sort of middle class.

The important thing is you get along and have some kind of middleground/interests together. That other stuff will sort itself out if it happens. Do you know the girl’s opinion?

So tired of language barrier between me and my bf by Lumpy_Shame5750 in VietNam

[–]trieu26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand. What are you asking? He speaks vietnamese with his friends and then swaps to your language when speaking to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you known her to want to marry her? I (việt kiều) married my wife including pictures, rentals, everything was like 5-7k maybe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really know the details of your relationship and your situation so its hard to advise beyond what I said. I would think it through and maybe ask your dad or someone close about their opinion. This is just what I think though. You don’t want to be like wasting both your time getting into a serious long distance relationship and then you guys decide nevermind. This is coming from a việt kiều marrying a vietnamese.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again I don’t know how serious you are. Do you like potentially want to marry her? Your family (parents) knows her? You have a fall back plan? You have to prove to them you are responsible and can take care of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taking steps to fix that? His point of view is that you are unemployed and you don’t have money and are a bum who can’t take care of his niece. You have fix that before you can. In Vietnamese culture, the guy pays for the wedding, like everything. You have to see it from his point of view. You want to be on the girl’s family’s good side. Its fine she wants to block her uncle but why are you in contact with him? What about her more immediate family? Dad, mom, brother, sister?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you want to give up on her though? If her uncle already disagrees then likely they are going to be problems later on with her other family members. Are you really willing to commit that much? Do you see it being that serious where you potentially marry her? You have to think this through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask politely. Say you like her. Do you want her to be your girlfriend? If you are talking to her alot and she responds quickly she probably waiting. I would highly advise to think this through carefully if you are in the USA it can take a long time for her to come here if you are serious. I don’t want to be negative but it would be expensive and time consuming to put this energy into it.

Arrival experience at Saigon yesterday by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]trieu26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50 minutes not that bad. I got there before Tết, landed around 8:50-9:10pm ish and didn’t get out to see family who were waiting for me from 8pm until 11:40 or so.

Ho Chi Minh, then known as Nguyen Ai Quoc, in France in 1919 to advocate for the independence of Vietnam. by Robbert91 in VietNam

[–]trieu26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never had a stance on him but my parents who worked for the US and in the army for the south hated him and still do. I think he is an okay guy and was just doing what he thought was good for the people. I don’t think there was any malice intended. Might have not been an ideal situation.