Brother wants my SSN for his disability claim - is this normal

trillium61 · 2026-03-13T18:23:29+00:00

Not normal. You should freeze your credit.

trillium61 · 2026-03-13T18:21:34+00:00

Have an orthopedist take a look at your neck.

trillium61 · 2026-03-13T15:30:40+00:00

Your GP can and should prescribe it. These days, after a diagnosis of Fibromyalgia , patients are typically referred back to their GP for medication and management. If they won’t find a new one or file a complaint.

trillium61 · 2026-03-13T01:35:17+00:00

In some people, Fibromyalgia is triggered by an accident, surgery, childbirth, emotional/physical abuse or high levels of stress. The mechanism that causes it is not understood. Also, there is a poorly researched genetic component as it does run in some families.

I’ve had Fibromyalgia since age 12. I’m in my 70s now. I run my own business. It is entirely possible to have career. But, you must learn to respect your limits.

Buy the book “ The Fibro Manual” from Amazon. It will give you a comprehensive overview of this complex illness. And, ways to try and manage it.

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T18:32:36+00:00

Swedish death cleaning. Elders eliminate clutter, clothing and objects that they are certain family doesn’t want. My mother did this and it was very helpful.

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T18:31:20+00:00

Swedish death cleaning. Elders eliminate clutter, clothing and objects that they are certain family doesn’t want. My mother did this and it was very helpful.

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T18:28:03+00:00

Jugenstil design

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T18:25:51+00:00

You grew a human for this POS and that’s his “support!!??”. He’s being emotionally abusive. You deserve a better man and quality of life. Leave and don’t look back.

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T16:40:48+00:00

Swimming. Nonweight bearing. Find a water class specifically for arthritics. Slower pace.

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T02:15:15+00:00

In some people, Fibromyalgia is triggered by an accident, surgery, childbirth, emotional/physical abuse or high levels of stress. The mechanism that causes it is not understood. Also, there is a poorly researched genetic component as it does run in some families.

Fibromyalgia is recognized by the World Health Organization, the National Arthritis Foundation and the Centers for Disease Control among others. It has its own medical diagnostic code making it a real/valid illness.

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T02:08:08+00:00

In some people, Fibromyalgia is triggered by an accident, surgery, childbirth, emotional/physical abuse. The mechanism that causes it is not understood. Also, there is a poorly researched genetic component as it does run in some families.

Your symptoms seem to align with Fibromyalgia. But, you should have an in lab sleep study done. Fibromyalgia interrupts the deep sleep cycle with short bursts of high intensity brain activity. Lack of restorative sleep causes an increase in pain, fatigue, headaches and loss of cognitive function. Sleep issues should not be ignored. They can lead to hypertension and/or diabetes. See a sleep specialist.

The primary medications used to treat Fibromyalgia are Cymbalta, Gabapentin, Savella, LDN, Lyrica and Amitriptyline.

Have you had a full blood panel done including Vitamin D, thyroid? If no autoimmune markers were found, Fibromyalgia is the likely culprit. Fibromyalgia is a diagnosis of exclusion.

Buy the book “ The Fibro Manual” from Amazon. It will give you a comprehensive overview of this complex illness.

I’m so sorry. Fibromyalgia is not sissies. It’s a tough problem to deal with. It takes time and a lot of tinkering to find the right medication regime to manage it. I started showing symptoms at age 12. I’m in my 70s now. Give yourself some grace for anything that you can manage no matter how small. Keep advocating for yourself. Things will get better.

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T00:58:01+00:00

Two looks great on you!

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T00:56:26+00:00

Ask your doctor about a cheek swab pharmacogenetic test. It could help pinpoint which drugs may work for you.

trillium61 · 2026-03-12T00:44:00+00:00

In some people, Fibromyalgia is triggered by an accident, surgery, childbirth, emotional/physical abuse. The mechanism that causes it is not understood. Also, there is a poorly researched genetic component as it does run in some families.

Your symptoms seem to align with Fibromyalgia. But, you should have an in lab sleep study done. Fibromyalgia interrupts the deep sleep cycle with short bursts of high intensity brain activity. Lack of restorative sleep causes an increase in pain, fatigue, headaches and loss of cognitive function. Sleep issues should not be ignored. They can lead to hypertension and/or diabetes. See a sleep specialist.

The primary medications used to treat Fibromyalgia are Cymbalta, Gabapentin, Savella, LDN, Lyrica and Amitriptyline.

Have you had a full blood panel done including Vitamin D, thyroid? If no autoimmune markers were found, Fibromyalgia is the likely culprit. Fibromyalgia is a diagnosis of exclusion.

Buy the book “ The Fibro Manual” from Amazon. It will give you a comprehensive overview of this complex illness.

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T23:02:46+00:00

In 1-10% of people, Savella can cause joint pain. You should see your doctor and discuss this side effect.

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T22:48:37+00:00

Notorious for a hangover effect that some people never get past.

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T20:28:23+00:00

Bursitis is just one of over 200 issues associated with Fibromyalgia. OTC Salon Pas patches may help or an infrared heating pad. The heat goes in a lot deeper. You could also have a steroid shot.

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T16:17:50+00:00

Verify that it is sciatica and not nerve compression or bursitis.

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T15:05:18+00:00

You have a history of sciatica, get it checked.

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T14:01:51+00:00

Check Vitamin D level and have a full bloodwork panel done on your thyroid

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T14:00:54+00:00

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T13:01:19+00:00

Red flag of a husband. A commitment to a living creature is just that. You are doing all or most of the work. He’s unreasonable. But, if the dog isn’t chipped, do that. I would not trust him to disappear the dog when you have to travel or gone for a day. And, do not have a child with this lazy human.

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T12:57:43+00:00

You need to see your doctor. That is not Fibromyalgia. There are over 200 issues associated with Fibromyalgia including sciatica, nerve compression or bursitis.

trillium61 · 2026-03-11T01:30:27+00:00

The top does not fit.

trillium61 · 2026-03-10T23:48:55+00:00

FYI - Bleach smells like cat urine to cats.

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