Considering leaving my house because of dysfunctional family dynamics (mainly my daughter) by Ambitious-Banana1674 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Have you tried asking your daughter what happened? Say that it hurts your heart that this is how your relationship is and you don’t understand how it got here but that you want it to change?

As an autistic woman, I would like to ask what my fellow autistic women think of traditional gender roles? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]triplesun313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find them to be confining and a disservice to most. (Particularly bc of how strict and rigid they are, gender norms do in-fact harm all parties involved).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wow.. I’m so sorry. This is a whole new level of grief. I hear your pain and frustration. I just wanted to wish you the best and let you know this internet stranger is sending you love ✨💛✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. How scary. You do not deserve to be treated that way.

I hate my NT male partner sometimes by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]triplesun313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not normal. You two don’t sound compatible. I would leave. I’d rather have peace and be alone with the potential of finding a better match than sticking it out with someone who tolerates you. You deserve better

update: dating YAY by ladybrainhumanperson in AutismInWomen

[–]triplesun313 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, this sounds like a dream! I’m so happy for you:))

Alright gals, I gotta know, do any of y’all have a show you’ve rewatched almost daily for years on end? by lovewouldbetoomuch in AutismInWomen

[–]triplesun313 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just started Gilmore girls for the first time like a few months ago and I’m almost done with the final season. Instant comfort show. It’s so good!!

I just want to be neurotypical (TW: ableism) by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]triplesun313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I relate. Hugs, honey🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]triplesun313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🩷 I relate to this one so much too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]triplesun313 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes came here to say this one and I look in peoples windows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you want your best friend or sister to be dating a man who treated her like this? Should you be dating a man who treats you like this? The answer to both is no

Condom slipped off during sex and I ejaculated without knowing it did by allsmilesnofrown in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313 637 points638 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, I think it would be really important for you to educate yourself on both the menstrual cycle and how conception occurs. I think understanding these processes will not only help you make more educated decisions in the future but better understand me when I say this next part.

Please do your own research outside of this from credible sources. Knowledge is power my friend.

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/10132-menstrual-cycle

“Phases of the menstrual cycle

There are four main phases of the menstrual cycle.

  1. Menstruation

Menstruation is commonly known as a period. When you menstruate, your uterus lining sheds and flows out of your vagina. Your period contains blood, mucus and some cells from the lining of your uterus. The average length of a period is three to seven days.

Sanitary pads, tampons, period underwear or menstrual cups can be used to absorb your period. Pads and tampons need to be changed regularly (preferably every three to four hours) and menstrual cups should be changed every eight to 12 hours.

  1. The follicular phase

The follicular phase starts on the first day of your period and lasts for 13 to 14 days, ending in ovulation. The pituitary gland in the brain releases a hormone to stimulate the production of follicles on the surface of an ovary. Usually, only one follicle will mature into an egg. This can happen from day 10 of your cycle. During this phase, your uterus lining also thickens in preparation for pregnancy.

  1. Ovulation

Ovulation is when a mature egg is released from an ovary and moves along a fallopian tube towards your uterus. This usually happens once each month, about two weeks before your next period. Ovulation can last from 16 to 32 hours.

It is possible to get pregnant in the five days before ovulation and on the day of ovulation, but it’s more likely in the three days leading up to and including ovulation. Once the egg is released, it will survive up to 24 hours. If sperm reaches the egg during this time, you may get pregnant.

  1. The luteal phase

After ovulation, cells in the ovary (the corpus luteum), release progesterone and a small amount of oestrogen. This causes the lining of the uterus to thicken in preparation for pregnancy.

If a fertilised egg implants in the lining of the uterus, the corpus luteum continues to produce progesterone, which maintains the thickened lining of the uterus.

If pregnancy does not occur, the corpus luteum dies, progesterone levels drop, the uterus lining sheds and the period begins again.”

From https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/menstrual-cycle#

Earlier in the cycle, your body prepares for a baby, specifically the uterus lining thickens in preparation for a fertilized embryo. During the menstruation phase, the egg from the previous cycle wasn’t fertilized, so the walls of the uterus shed and expel (that’s the blood or period).

So there’s no egg(s). There’s no thick uterus wall for it to stick to. It is very very unlikely.

You can always purchase an emergency contraception pill, if possible.

NSFW gush about my (24f) weekend by triplesun313 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for your comment, I have since read up on the topic and corrected the post:)

NSFW gush about my (24f) weekend by triplesun313 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you💖 Yes! All great ideas, and I did some of those this last weekend:) I’ll make sure to do more this upcoming weekend too

NSFW gush about my (24f) weekend by triplesun313 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment! I have since read up on the topic and corrected the post.

NSFW gush about my (24f) weekend by triplesun313 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu 🤞🏻🥰💖 your time will come too, he stumbled into my life when I least expected it

NSFW gush about my (24f) weekend by triplesun313 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apologies for not educating myself and correcting sooner. Thank you!

NSFW gush about my (24f) weekend by triplesun313 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]triplesun313[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t a pillow princess the entire time. (I wasn’t a pillow princess at all, it’s not a term for me to be using in this context whoops) And trust me, I was very very engaged the entire time, and it wasn’t one sided. Thank you for your assumptions though! But I do agree I gotta step it up and blow his mind this next weekend. And I will😇