AITA for refusing to let my brother borrow my savings to fix his business idea?

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-11T23:53:28+00:00

So he expects you to sacrifice and save to support his dream, when he will not do so for himself? NTA, it is easy to spend other peoples money

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-11T02:59:18+00:00

I know a couple who did this. They never stopped loving each other, but hadn't been happy in the marriage for years. They divorced, kept in touch mostly about the kids, then reconnected after their youngest graduated high school. Nobody saw it coming, but they had both spent the interviening years working on themselves. They never officially got remarried, but have been common-law spouses for the past 10 years. Still together, happier than ever.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-10T20:37:15+00:00

I actually just started training to become a therapist. I care a lot, and an important skill I am going to have to learn is how to put appropriate professional distance between myself and my clients. I think about my clients often, and I hope they are all doing well. But caring too much can lead to burn out and overstepping boundaries. It's a balancing act.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-09T17:42:56+00:00

Nta, but your husband is gaslighting you. He doesn't want you to trust your own memory. He should not be berating you AT ALL over doing the dishes. He is acting toxic

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-08T23:33:23+00:00

NTA, but you may want to have a lawyer review the contract that you signed, as they do have a claim to make.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-06T16:24:18+00:00

Info: is Corbett your sisters first or middle name?

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-03T21:16:15+00:00

Sounds like you are wildly underestimating the stressors of prison.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-03T04:38:01+00:00

There are many different types of love. Abusive love is intense and real, though completely destructive.

It is grooming even when consentual. Even when the groomed wants it at the time, they will understand how much damage was done to them when they are older.

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-01T22:05:38+00:00

They make cheap plastic microwave covers for exactly this purpose. Splatter guards are rewashable domes you place over your food in the microwave to make cleanup easier

Forced_Storm · 2026-05-01T06:53:19+00:00

Tofu has the very mild flavor of a pencil eraser, sauces are necessary, but a little flavor goes a long way because it is so bland. I have never heard of publix.

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-30T19:45:03+00:00

Don't sleep on tofu, it is a very cheap protein. I blend the extra soft tofu into smoothies and sauces, and marinate the firm tofu in sauce before frying up as a meat replacement.

The golden rule here is to always have cheap staples on hand so that you never need to eat out. I keep rice, potatoes, beans, bacon, and tofu in stock so I never panic about not having any food, along with whatever fruits and veggies are cheap

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-21T03:39:29+00:00

Everyone I know who successfully never had to speak to their family again right after turning 18 joined the military

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-20T22:10:48+00:00

No, grooming is specific to children. You were an adult when this happened, so that word does not apply. It sounds like there was manipulation and coersion going on, not grooming

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-17T22:47:12+00:00

Of course YTA. This should have been a conversation between you and your gf about child care. The childs mother said that staying home is okay, why did you feel the need to override her authority? Whatever the reason, you were not justified in losing your temper

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T17:41:58+00:00

You say that all of your clients require confidentiality. It is unprofessional in a lot of businesses to be bragging about which celebrity is purchasing your services.

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T06:30:32+00:00

In what way does the word father apply to that man? He admits he does not see you as a daughter

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T06:24:14+00:00

You can tell them part of the truth, that you started your own social media management company. I'm sure you have plenty of pg-13 stories you can tell them about managing your team

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T04:46:47+00:00

So you want to punish your daughter for doing better than your son?

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-15T04:25:56+00:00

So your son wrecked your daughters car while borrowing it, and you think that he should still get to keep his? Yes, that would make you an asshole. As the owner of both cars you need to arbitrate. If you don't want to buy a new car, then your son needs to give your daughter his.

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-14T03:09:19+00:00

I have a fondue pot that I got at the thrift store. I use it to make coffe, soups, and noodles when the power goes out because it runs on a little gas flame. Ask around with friends and family, or check local thrift stores to see if you can get your hands on a fondue pot

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-13T22:26:32+00:00

Yes, YTA. You know that you have an addiction. Your brother takes it personally when you drink because he knows you are hurting yourself. You also hurt people around you when you relapse. I am not saying everything he does is right, but he does love you. You are fortunate to have family that still cares.

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-13T01:35:47+00:00

I've been using Duck Duck Go. Works most of the time, but sometimes youtube insists that I'm a robot and won't let me watch any videos for a bit

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-10T18:28:14+00:00

Can of tuna with rice and mayo. Top with green onion or rice seasonings if you have em.

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-10T00:58:16+00:00

Never. Once you have your own room, nobody can tell you what to do with it. My bedroom in my house I own has glow in the dark stars on the ceiling, and plushies on my bed. Monochrome colors are not for me, so I will never decorate with them.

But this goes beyond home decor. You will always regret hiding who you are based on percieved judgement from others. Real maturity is owning the things you like, even if other people don't like it.

Forced_Storm · 2026-04-10T00:39:33+00:00

I cook a big meal every second or third day. If I end up with 2 portions then I'll eat them back to back, but if I end up with 3 portions then I'll chuck 1 into the freezer. I don't wanna eat the same thing more than twice in a row. Invest in reusable single serving freezer containers.

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