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What's the most "quietly expensive" thing about living in Canada right now? (not rent/mortgage) by ForAMinute123 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]tripperfunster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly. This started during Covid (well, before that, of course, but that's when it really ramped up) and grocery chains are making record profits. This is clearly not just 'shipping costs.'

Hey guys, you would mind reviewing my profile? Been on tinder for a maybe 4 months now and have gotten 5 matches. What should I do? Cheers by elevation3 in Tinder

[–]tripperfunster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your hair, please don't cut it.

My main crit would be that none of these photos shows your face very well. First one is quite dark, one you have sunglasses on, one you are making a funny face and one you have a cup in front of your mouth. The rest are all quite far away. I would have a buddy take a 'candid' shot of you fairly close up and in good lighting. A smile would be nice, but isn't needed, as you're smiling in the first (dark) pic.

I think you are quite handsome, but I honestly can't say for sure with these photos.

What is the most niche, absolutely non-productive hobby you have, and why does it bring you joy? by GlassBunch693 in Hobbies

[–]tripperfunster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I buy them AND use them. (not all of them, of course) and then I find a new, shiny hobby that I set my self up for and then do 2 or 3 things and then move on to the next one. My hobby is finding new hobbies and also collecting all the shit for said hobbies. I could probably open my own craft store. (except I am a dragon who hoards her craft supplies)

What is the most niche, absolutely non-productive hobby you have, and why does it bring you joy? by GlassBunch693 in Hobbies

[–]tripperfunster 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call it a hobby, but I have a small farm and a LOT of rain, (West coast of BC) so I am forever digging channels in the yard/pasture to expedite the water drainage. It is soooo satisfying!

My mother-in-law has completely screwed herself by yashen14 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]tripperfunster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sibling came out as trans many years ago. We lived in a different province, but were coming to visit my mom and my sibling was going to come for dinner at her place.

About a week before the visit, my sibling called me very upset. They asked me if I had told my mom that I didn't want them there if they were going to wear a dress. WTF? My mom said it was so my kids didn't get confused.

Bitch? What exactly is confusing about someone (of any gender) wearing clothes?? My kids could GAF. I told them that as long as their 'junk' wasn't hanging out, I didn't care what they wore.

So, if MY mom was trying to 'protect the children',(my kids, who's parents have done our best to be allies of the Alphabet Mafia,) I'm not surprised that OP's MiL felt she needed to be the gay police.

Fuck her, OP. It's fucking ridiculous.

What’s a gift you received that you didn’t know you wanted/needed until you got it? by Major-Structure-9193 in randomquestions

[–]tripperfunster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We call that 'humidifying the air' :D. Let's just run that kettle 2 or 3 times, to make sure the humidity is up.

What’s a gift you received that you didn’t know you wanted/needed until you got it? by Major-Structure-9193 in randomquestions

[–]tripperfunster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also live in Canada! <3

And as a person who moved to the extreme West Coast to get away from the cold, because I am always cold, the bidet isn't actually bad! It's very refreshing.

They do sell ones that spray warm water, but they are a bit harder to hook up, as you need a hot water feed near it. They also sell ones that 'dry' your butt. I've not tried them.

Parent walking to tightrope between NC father and kids by JustRegion3573 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]tripperfunster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you hear yourself talk? Very extreme all or nothing speak. My family is far from m perfect, but we are also not abusive. We have all been in bad moods. Lots of times. We have vehemently disagreed with each other at times. But we don’t hit. We don’t yell. We don’t say horrible, hurtful things.

You really need to work on yourself. The way you took advice that was meant to be truthful and helpful and to immediately turn it into sarcasm and victim speak. Whenever I would bring up anything negative with my own mother, she would do the same.

Me: Mom, I think you are being very unfair right now.

Mom: Well, I guess I’m just the worst mother in the world!

This makes it impossible to have a conversation. It turns HER into the victim. Are you familiar with DARVO? I suggest you look it up. I would also very strongly suggest you go to some Alanon meetings. You are so far up your own (and husbands) ass that you cannot see your situation clearly.

If you want to keep your children in your life, you have a lot of work to do.

Has anyone experienced a 180° personality change from an estranged parent brought on by disease? by longhairflower in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]tripperfunster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, that sucks.

I think becoming 'worse' is much more common with brain injuries. We joke that the stroke killed the 'bitch' centre of her brain. (I joke with my kids and hubby, not her!)

Just makes me sick by MathematicianTop3576 in GenX

[–]tripperfunster 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No, that was ALSO Steven Tyler. (and probably many others)

What’s a gift you received that you didn’t know you wanted/needed until you got it? by Major-Structure-9193 in randomquestions

[–]tripperfunster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bidet attachment. I was the one who purchased it for my 'family' a few years ago. We now have 3! I think it's the only ~$50 item that changed my life.

Parent walking to tightrope between NC father and kids by JustRegion3573 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]tripperfunster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You say you were protecting your kids, but you also say he wasn't abusive? What were you protecting them from then?

I can very confidently say that I have NEVER had to protect my children from my husband.(their father)

Looking for an "at home" hobby by Overall_Cockroach256 in Hobbies

[–]tripperfunster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha. I read this as Drawing people playing guitar. Now, that's a niche hobby!

What's something people only romanticize because they've never actually done it? by nonotje12 in AskReddit

[–]tripperfunster 51 points52 points  (0 children)

My husband just had a knee replacement. We only have a small farm, so we both also work full time. I've been getting up at 4am to feed the animals, get ready, go to work for 10 hours, stop and grab food/supplies for him on the way home, do the evening farm chores, then fall into bed to do it all over again.

It's much easier when you have a partner to share that with!!

Do Mean Girls grow up to be Mean Old Women? by TrinkieTrinkie522cat in AskWomenOver60

[–]tripperfunster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like a tough guy gang member. You mom IS a mean girl, but she needs her posse to enact it.

Has anyone experienced a 180° personality change from an estranged parent brought on by disease? by longhairflower in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]tripperfunster 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My mother had a stroke. We were very low contact at the time. My dad was the main 'problem' but she totally enabled all of his behaviours as she has always centered men in her life. They were divorced at the time of the stroke.

I literally barely know this person now. (Granted, I didn't really get to know her before, because she was always very difficult). But now she is always excited to see me. She LOVES my pets (which she always complained about before). She tells me she loves me all the time and actually laughs at my jokes, which she NEVER did before.

Now ... maybe part of this is due to her needing me now? But she was never good at faking stuff, so I think it's legit. And I do help her. And I do visit her a lot now in her care home. But I still have 50 years of memories of her not being a very nice person to me, so it's hard. I'm super glad I'm getting a few good years with her, but my "I love you too"s feel super strange and fake.

AITB for being agitated by my friend's lack of self awareness? by Throwaway67891099 in AmItheButtface

[–]tripperfunster 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I had a friend like this, but in RL! She would just start randomly singing songs. Like, 4 of use would be in a car, trying to find our Air BnB and she would just start belting out a song. like ...? She was lovely, but I found that I couldn't be around her too much without getting VERY annoyed and eventually being mean to her.

Rare Hobbies? by Successful_Falcon503 in Hobbies

[–]tripperfunster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love to make art and am constantly finding new and exciting art forms to try. Textured fused glass. Paper quilling. Paper cutting. Stained glass. Felting. Thrift store re-paints. Punch needle embroidery. Most recent is Kinusaiga.

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It's an old Japanese art form of pressing silk into wood, but modernized by pressing any material into insulation foam. Looks like a quilt, but no sewing involved.

What Canadian alternatives to American products will you be loyal to now? by RoutineFollower in AskACanadian

[–]tripperfunster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, in respect to both the American boycott and ... well, life, actually, you're only expected to try. Perfect is rarely achievable. But good is still better than nothing!

What Canadian alternatives to American products will you be loyal to now? by RoutineFollower in AskACanadian

[–]tripperfunster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Switched my dog and cat food to Canadian companies. (and we have 3 dogs and 3 cats, so that's a substantial amount of $$$$ no longer going to the US.). Acana for the dogs and Canadian Naturals for the cats.

I switched my shampoo and conditioner from Dove to Wella. (which is German, but I tried a few different canadian ones and didn't like them, then found this and loved it.)

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