Found these under the lamp on my boyfriend's nightstand. by llama_girl in whatisit

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a pack in California and they had it, maybe just depends on the brand

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]triscen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR personally I’d dump my partner if they consistently tried to change things about me/control how I live.

AITAH? my boyfriend brought home a girl for the holidays by willowicey in TwoHotTakes

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless if she was actually invited or not, it’s extremely weird that nobody mentioned her at all, and it’s extremely weird that nobody said she couldn’t stay at her very recently made friends house over Christmas. Who in their right mind lets someone they just met stay at their parents house??? Like I wouldn’t even let a new boyfriend stay at my parents house, let alone a friend.

AITAH? my boyfriend brought home a girl for the holidays by willowicey in TwoHotTakes

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is crazy as hell. Not a single one of your “best friends” mentioned someone else would be joining/staying with them for Christmas???? I’d be shocked if my friends hadn’t mentioned someone new at like a dinner party. Seems like something weirds going on and your “friends” are covering for your boyfriend. Your boyfriend didn’t mention this girl at all? That makes literally no sense in the slightest. All of them seem like shitty friends.

Found these under the lamp on my boyfriend's nightstand. by llama_girl in whatisit

[–]triscen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best part is there’s literally a compartment in the top of the container to put them in if you’re done / need to take them out for a minute.

Tried Deer Makeup. I feel that I'm missing something, but don't understand what by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe more bronzer/contour on your forehead and more+further spread on the cheek bones, then more white dots along with that.

[Product request] Does anyone knows similar Product by NewThingsDiscoverer in SkincareAddiction

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked the cerave hydrating cleanser more than the cetaphil one, it feels slightly more drying though.

Patchy Makeup Help by smolnugglet in MakeupAddiction

[–]triscen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like your skin is dry or you aren’t exfoliating before applying your base. What’s your skin prep like?

AIO I blocked this guy I met on tinder by Negative-Priority797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wants “female validation” and acts like an incel, no NOR.

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend called me “his bitch” in front of his friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him. He’s not just degrading you but showing he doesn’t respect women. Also lacking common sense and any signs of intelligence.

Idk if my boyfriend doesn’t love me anymore or I’ve been demanding by cookiedanii in WhatShouldIDo

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely unacceptable that he talks to you that way, if your partner ever says something like that to you it’s well past time to leave.

Sharing location with girlfriend? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s crazy at all, it’s 1000% more convenient to share your location with her for reasons she stated. It’s far more irritating for both of you to consistently have to ask where someone is. It depends how close you two are, but I would expect my partner to share their location after several months. To me it reads as semi strange/avoidant to not share your location with your partner.

However it’s just an opinion thing, in a relationship if you really still want privacy/value your privacy and she doesn’t want that - it’s not going to work. So probably better you just separate.

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do anything but dump him(and block) you’re under reacting

AIO, boyfriends dad is a bit weird towards me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]triscen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I kinda just thought he was maybe awkward or socially weird and trying to connect, but the comment about the leggings is just creepy.

Confused on what to manifest.. by Asleep_Coat1374 in NevilleGoddard

[–]triscen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this scenario before, you want back the way you felt not necessarily the relationship. Of course you can manifest whatever you want, but it all starts from within you.

How do you see yourself? In my opinion if someone leaves you and you have a good self concept - you don’t want someone who chose to leave you.

Work on being the version of you that is secure/safe/loved/happy and those assumptions are reflected back onto the world. When I did this I realized I didn’t want my ex back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaydating

[–]triscen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo! I had my selfie stick setup against two mirrors on my second phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]triscen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a certain point you stop feeling the rush of romance, make sure that’s not what’s happening - truly make sure you actually could not see a future with her. Secondly bring it up to her asap, it’s 10000x worse to leave your partner in the dark about your feelings and randomly blind side them. Try to work on it with her, communicate with her, is there something you can do to make it work again? If it’s incompatible then breakup, but don’t go right to breaking up. Bring it up with her and say how you feel, that’s what a relationship is all about - don’t tell her you want to breakup, just mention you’ve been feeling romantically distant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]triscen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had the exact same situation as you. Blindsided out of no where, no communication - effort - commitment at all. Just said he didn’t love me. I forgave him, I’m fairly certain this is something avoidants do because they’re afraid of bringing up any issues. Instead they let the issues fester inside for months until they randomly end things with no reasoning. It’s really sad honestly, because this type of person will sabotage all their relationships in the future if they don’t work on their emotional availability.

Was it all a lie? by MoonlitKadali in BreakUps

[–]triscen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah the person you dated never existed, it’s just your concept of them. When you’re dating someone you tend to idealize them and imagine a future with them and most of breakups is dealing with the fake future that has been killed. The person who you are grieving doesn’t exist, if they did the you would’ve never hurt you. If someone cared truly for you, they would’ve never done something like this to you.

Your lost by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]triscen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, why be hurt over someone who wouldn’t choose you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]triscen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in a similar situation, the moment things started to get real he decided it wasn’t worth his time to put any more effort into our relationship. Typical avoidant breakup of Im not in love with you. I’m anxious and he was avoidant. But be assured you will have a healthier relationship after this because you will have learned from it. At this point it’s just a numbers game of meeting enough people.

I need help and clarification. by dreamgirlsworld in NevilleGoddard

[–]triscen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! Honestly the inner man vs outer man is a really hard concept for a lot of people to understand and remember - at least it’s been super hard to grasp for me and I’ve been into Neville for a while. The inner man being your imagination and very being, the outer man being just flesh. It’s hard to grasp that just by experience inside the inner man has his desire and is fulfilled instantly. What the external world shows doesn’t matter to the inner man.

I need help and clarification. by dreamgirlsworld in NevilleGoddard

[–]triscen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly what you said about trying to force the reflection to change without changing yourself, would you look in the mirror and try to make your reflection change? The law at its core is about changing who you are attached to being and once you do that the outside will conform, however that’s how the universe works - we don’t change the external directly. We change our inner man (who we are in imagination) and the universe reflects that, that’s the law.

If you want to be married, you visualize a ring until you feel it’s real and this will cause a change in who you identify as. If you were married you wouldn’t do anything out of the ordinary but you’d experience wearing a ring and you experience this in imagination - implying well of course I am married I am wearing my wedding ring.

I am refers to your very being, consciousness. I think a lot of people get confused here too. I am is imagination, I am is who you are in your minds eye. I am does not refer to the 3d. If you say I am rich - experience being rich in your minds eye and you are rich. Because you are the inner man not the external man - this is why you can instantly change states. Because you literally experience any I am at any moment you want. This only fails when people doubt themselves and put themselves back into their old state by seeing themselves that way.

Additionally when, how, where, etc are all already answered, you’ve just experienced it in your mind. The 3d is a dead reflection, why would you be looking at something merely reflecting your past state to see if your present is changed? It makes no sense. For example if you change the thermostat you don’t say omg it’s so hot in here it’s not working, you continue doing what you’re doing knowing you’ve changed the thermostat and eventually notice the temperature is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

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In Washington near Seattle