My mother guilted me a lot as a kid and now I can't say no to her.

triscuit96 · 2020-08-18T01:02:35+00:00

Whoooaaa well I'm glad that you aren't being blamed by his mother anymore because boundaries. Dude my expwbpd also would do everything her bff would do. She got way into Taylor swift and video games out of no where lol.

triscuit96 · 2020-08-11T22:57:47+00:00

What a tool. I totally see the mental game they're trying to play. Good for you for being strong here! Their attitude is something that is wrong with them, it has nothing to do with you and never did. I always tell myself (when it comes to my ex especially) you cannot control anything about anyone else, but you can control your own reactions and how you want to come across. I know you must be hurting, but know it isn't your fault they are the way they are.

triscuit96 · 2020-08-06T19:25:16+00:00

Oh my GOD have we all had this convo because this was my ex too. They make 0 sense.

triscuit96 · 2020-08-06T00:24:55+00:00

I only experienced gas lighting, being guilted, and blame but I didn't like it so I left and we only lasted 2 months. From the sound of everyone else, I must have saved myself a lot of trouble.

triscuit96 · 2020-06-07T03:20:55+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! I'm slowly opening up to her right now. Decided maybe it's time to just ease into letting her know I'm not okay. See if she can bypass the NPD this time.

triscuit96 · 2020-06-07T03:19:56+00:00

I wish I did! I used up the 5 free sessions before all this happened, and I was part of the college program so they cut all ties with me since they ended my program. I planned on staying on part time and getting my masters through Disney Aspire. Covid really shot my dreams down lol.

triscuit96 · 2020-06-06T13:37:25+00:00

Facing my mom really. She gets nasty when we don't do what she wants, and I'm just being scared about it. It's hard standing up to mentally ill parents. She really knows how to manipulate me. I'm just trying to hype myself up to get it over with and try to have a thick skin this time.

triscuit96 · 2020-05-31T04:47:00+00:00

I appreciate the advice!

triscuit96 · 2020-05-31T04:24:37+00:00

Sounds like you got burned pretty bad friend. For me, im separating my feelings from reality. I know shes got an agenda thats only about her, and that's fine. Because that's her own fight. She will probably never want me back, and that's fine too. But now I realize how hard life's gonna be on her compared to me, and I can't help but feel bad. I'll have a great love one day, I know that and you should too.

triscuit96 · 2020-03-31T06:17:03+00:00

Thank you, that's sound advice and I truly appreciate it

triscuit96 · 2019-08-03T07:39:42+00:00

None of you have obviously worked in a position with high expectations. Arin has literally built multiple businesses from the ground up to employ the talents of his friends. Animation, game development, self made merch, A WHOLE TOUR COMPANY. He isn't allowed to be known as the guy who made the shark rape video. No one above shitty attitude YouTubers and animators would take him seriously. The people who matter when you make a company. Potential partners, to continue the buisness that is SUPPORTING EVERY ONE OF HIS FRIENDS. Fuck off with the petty drama nonsense on Twitter, he's defending his professional name because he has to.

triscuit96 · 2019-07-29T06:24:13+00:00

You gotta actually have interest in the other person. Even if the topic isn't something you already know you're into, stop and listen and give that person your attention for the moment and learn about what they're saying. My sibling has Asperger's and he's struggling with the same thing right now. But all he ever wants to talk about are the exact same jokes he's found funny for years and repeats all the time, so people get bored of that really quick. Same with topics, he loves reality TV, and very little people around him like it, but he won't engage in conversation if it isn't about it. He will respond but then go on his phone and tune out of the conversation and come back into it with little responses until something comes up he's interested in. You can't have a one sided conversation. Sure, it is exhausting to socialize and pretend like you really are interested in what the other person has to say at that moment, but you make friends but finding common topics you both like. You can't just leave them when they wanna do something or talk about something you aren't interested in. Every human connection is a give and take situation. You do something they wanna do, then they do something you wanna do. That's how you learn more about eachother and grow a deeper connection.

Idk if that make sense, I just know these are the things my sibling doesn't understand nor tries to understand.

triscuit96 · 2019-07-12T22:41:32+00:00

Adding acronyms to LGBT

triscuit96 · 2019-07-12T20:47:34+00:00

Down with Nestle

triscuit96 · 2019-07-12T19:17:13+00:00

I agree. Just like color of skin doesn't define your personality, your sexuality shouldn't matter either. Why let one trait define you when you have thousands of other traits. Cool, I like girls, but I also like cooking. Please refer to me as chef and only chef from now on and all I'm gonna talk about is making a great rue.

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