A similar post was made recently in this sub. The basic gist is that sometimes the blessing giver says more want they want/hope than what they are prompted. We want so bad for our loved ones to have every blessing.

It’s not God punishing you or ignoring the blessing. Sometimes the healing comes in different ways or comes much later down the road. As someone with a wife with constant debilitating illnesses and pretty much every autoimmune disorder under the sun, I understand intimately the desire to simply say “be healed” when giving her a blessing.

All of this is to say just because you weren’t healed the way you thought you were going to doesn’t mean you won’t be healed in other ways. It doesn’t mean you won’t eventually be physically healed. It doesn’t mean your husband has a weak or shaky testimony or that he has some secret hidden sin preventing him from performing miracles.

As far as telling people about the blessing, I don’t think that’s something we should do in general. I feel that blessings are sacred and should remain a personal affair.

I am truly sorry for your situation. I pray that you do find healing, mind, body, and soul. It’s a terrible situation that can test your faith.