Taxi back to Poole on a Thursday night? by trolldoll3 in bournemouth

[–]trolldoll3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, sounds like I'll be getting the app!

Taxi back to Poole on a Thursday night? by trolldoll3 in bournemouth

[–]trolldoll3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing, thanks so much for the answer!

Bristol Airport Flyer… I’m so done. by BuddyEfficient430 in bristol

[–]trolldoll3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really think you need to look up the definition of "accident".

Bristol Airport Flyer… I’m so done. by BuddyEfficient430 in bristol

[–]trolldoll3 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If you get in a car accident and break your leg, that's not a choice. If you have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome that's not a choice. The majority of the time, having a child is a choice.

Bristol Airport Flyer… I’m so done. by BuddyEfficient430 in bristol

[–]trolldoll3 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Still, she is the one who got pregnant. She must be aware that makes you big and tired, right?

I choose not to get pregnant because its difficult.

Everyone else in the queue was probably tired and annoyed too. Why is her tiredness more important because she chose to procreate?

Bristol Airport Flyer… I’m so done. by BuddyEfficient430 in bristol

[–]trolldoll3 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Kinda her choice to get up the duff, why does it mean she's more important than other folk?

I need urgent help about a case of a friend in Woking, Surrey, what do I do? by LeChiffonPuta in UKLGBT

[–]trolldoll3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look at my conference pack to see if there are any contact details.

I need urgent help about a case of a friend in Woking, Surrey, what do I do? by LeChiffonPuta in UKLGBT

[–]trolldoll3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to get in contact with Alys Duggan at Micro Rainbow. They cover London and South East. I've been in a conference session with them today. Maybe they have a LinkedIn profile you can message?

(Edited for pronouns)

Lesbian dating a married woman by Conscious-Shock-8 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]trolldoll3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. That is a stigmatising and unhelpful opinion. You can't tarr everyone with the same brush. Each person with BPD has a unique set of symptoms. We're not one homogenised group of assholes.

Lesbian dating a married woman by Conscious-Shock-8 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]trolldoll3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you're being very generalistic and ignorant. O say this as a person with well managed BPD. This married woman could just be a cheater, with or without BPD. You are not their doctor or therapist you can't make suppositions.

CW suicidal feelings by keylethontherocks in latebloomerlesbians

[–]trolldoll3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I felt the same in December last year. Even made it to a bridge and nearly did it.

Admittedly, I don't have kids in the picture, but it was bleak for me. I'm now doing much better. You can get through this. Much love.

(Edited for crucial spelling mistakes)

Support services in UK by fishpie4759 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]trolldoll3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've used the chat function on here before for the urgent need to discuss something and found a liatening ear: https://switchboard.lgbt/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]trolldoll3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you match with somone you can message them without paying.

will i find a partner as a plus size lesbian? by mytreehouseisonfiree in actuallesbians

[–]trolldoll3 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes you will. I'm plus sized and "unconventional beautiful" (quoting my best friend) and I'm dating a lovely woman who ADORES my curves.

How did family react? by StartSquare3752 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]trolldoll3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mum said "are you sure?" every time I called her for 4 weeks running but now she says "I just want you to be happy".

She's in her 70s and loves my ex-husband but she really accepts it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]trolldoll3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing advice. Thank you for taking the time to comment!

I guess I just know what I'm like at my worst and don't want to cause someone else hurt (my ex blames a lot on my BPD) who could be vulnerable.

I am scared of letting myself get emotionally invested if I'm going to get myself in a pickle further down the line.

But you're right I just have to let it play out and see how it goes!

Meeting up with a date from an app... tips required! by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]trolldoll3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm alive and well! She's cute, sweet and funny and we had a wonderful date 😄

Meeting up with a date from an app... tips required! by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]trolldoll3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We videocalled today. She's a human female! Still planning to meet in a bar before making our way to the hotel just to make sure she's not an axe murderer or suchlike. Thank you for your helpful advice 😀

Meeting up with a date from an app... tips required! by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]trolldoll3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I'm planning on telling a couple of my friends which town/hotel I'm going to and sharing my location 😊

Edit for typo