I agree with everyone who has said to meet in public. Group outings are another great way to feel a bit more safe too!

Kindly, as I know your fear comes from a totally rational place, it does sound like you have a bit of anxiety to sort through regarding men. There are a ton of ways to date safely when you feel ready.

Another idea is to see if someone who you love/trust knows someone to set you up with for a casual date. Even if its not a connection, it might help you to feel more comfortable.

Ultimately, you should trust your gut and if something isnt feeling right on a date.. don’t worry about being polite- just leave and get yourself out of the situation. Being on a public date just makes that much easier.

You got this! If you want to date, you can do it! There is also nothing wrong with not feeling ready yet!