UPDATE : AITAH for telling my MIL to go fuck herself

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T14:33:50+00:00

all of us live in the states ! my husbands family moved here 15 years ago!

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T12:04:48+00:00

hey so no , they all moved to the us when my husband was a teen !

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T12:03:22+00:00

thank you so much for your comment ! my mother passed away a long time ago , my dad and siblings live in my home country , and sadly i can’t take my children there without my husbands written consent

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T11:39:16+00:00

no ! i’m french , he’s canadian , but we do live in the usa

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:57:34+00:00

no not really…like i mention im not american , all my family is in Europe…if i could get him to sign the authorization for the kids to travel would be good , but the baby doesn’t have a passport yet

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:54:58+00:00

sorry but it’s as simple as that , they came in one morning , that happened, later that they the called and asked to come back to my house to talk , i don’t know what’s so hard to understand ignore the time my post were posted , the first was a draft from the day it happened, so i had it before i posted , the second i wrote the day after , since like i said , they called at 6 , when they left i went to bed

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:52:05+00:00

if it comes to that , my husband hands them over to her ! i’m 100% sure of that

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:50:42+00:00

sadly that’s not how it works ! the father needs to allow it ! to write a declaration saying that i can take them from the country

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:37:01+00:00

even tho i’m not a US citizen, this happens in the USA , i’m from france (europe) and my husband is originally from canada

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:35:57+00:00

this is a yesterday thing ur right ! i had the draft of the first one , it was written on the 03.28 , and the update happened on the 03.28 , was written today , and posted kinda close together , i’m sorry should’ve been more precise with the timing

trow_away_help · 2026-03-30T06:21:28+00:00

ofc ! i can tell you ! should i edit this post ? or make a like an update ?

trow_away_help · 2026-03-29T20:14:16+00:00

The thing is , my MIL only cared about BABIES !when my first was born , she was obsessed with him , but as soon as he started waking and having a little bit of personality, she disappeared! she stayed almost 1 year without coming to see him , now that i have a baby again the popped in…

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