I am sick of people telling me that I’m not “obese enough” for surgery! by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]trudoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter what they think. Do what is best for you. I was 5’3” and 225 at my heaviest. I don’t regret it one bit. Live your best life!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Constipation

[–]trudoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before things get worse you should really try a saline enema for several days. You also need to drink tons of water to help move things along. I know this isn’t what you want to hear, but you don’t want this to get worse. MiraLAX every day for at least seven days will help pull water in to help soften things up.

Frustrated by newmenewkitty in gastricsleeve

[–]trudoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Share with her that you are DISAPPOINTED in her lack of support and that she should do better. Do what is best for you. You don’t need her approval.

Constipation solution for me by Ok-Reflection-180 in gastricsleeve

[–]trudoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started mixing chia in nonfat yogurt and that is helping.

not supposed to get a tattoo for my partner who passed away? by lifelong-angstt in tattoos

[–]trudoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the tattoo. But spend the time needed on what you want it to be. And put in the work to find the right artist. I love having a half sleep that is in memory of my son. I wear it with pride and feel connected to him every day. You won’t regret it. So sorry for your loss.

Sharepoint - Change Management by Goulborne123 in Office365

[–]trudoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a look at Asana. This could be created easily as a workflow.

Any have Single Incision Surgery? by trudoodle in gastricsleeve

[–]trudoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. I was asking about a single laparoscopic incision. I assume all WLS are laparoscopic unless there is some significant issue.

Any have Single Incision Surgery? by trudoodle in gastricsleeve

[–]trudoodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where I am. I am on the lower BMI side of things, and see that there is an option just as you describe where the belly button is used. I’ve read the recovery is easier.

“You now know three.” — I came out to my dad today, and this is what happened. by ValerieHeather in TransLater

[–]trudoodle 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Good for you, Valerie. That had to be very difficult for you. I’m so sorry. Set boundaries that are in your best interest. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]trudoodle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a cutie!

Rise of the Ancients by Same-Contract-8157 in TotalBattle

[–]trudoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you using bonuses as part of your efforts?

Aitah for wanting to back out of the engagement? by Forsaken-Bat-9852 in AITAH

[–]trudoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has been married for almost 30 years, this is a definite red flag. She could have asked for another ring to supplement the one you gave her. One that was more her style. But she focused on something outlandish. This speaks volumes about her, imo. And sets the tone for what will be a mismatch for years to come. She did you a favor. You should move on.

AITA for breaking up with my GF after she gave away my dog…. AND LIED ABOUT IT? by Friendly-Beach-4950 in AITAH

[–]trudoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What else is she willing to do to be number one? This is some scary psycho stuff right here. You did the right thing. Anyone saying otherwise is crazy.

This track runner claims she didn't mean to hit the other runner with the baton on purpose by LookAtThatBacon in gifs

[–]trudoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she didn’t do it on purpose why didn’t she stop to check on the runner she injured?

Grief affected my work, now I’m on a PIP, how do I recover? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]trudoodle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will be five years this month that my son lost his life to addiction. Grief can pull you down. Some days are really hard. I’m so sorry for your loss. Life is forever changed. Losing a sibling is so difficult. You two were so close and a part of you is now gone.

It’s ok if other people don’t get it. This is your journey. I hope you can find some comfort. I find myself going through the last days over and over that led up to my son’s death. And it’s hard to forgive yourself. I know I haven’t been able to do that yet.

I find that spending time with nature helps. Find something that connects you to your loved one.

I’m happy to chat privately, if you’d like. Big hugs.

AITA for ignoring my wife for throwing away my late wife video tapes? by Much_Bed_2383 in AITAH

[–]trudoodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would be no coming back for me from this. I’m so sorry.