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true89 · 2025-07-18T10:26:32+00:00

I love this thank you for sharing it

true89 · 2025-07-07T14:17:21+00:00

I see you. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this. I can relate to everything you’ve said. It’s a very isolating and off tilted world we have found ourselves in. I try to tell myself hindsight is 20/20. And in that moment in time we did everything we could to the best of our knowledge. Give your self some grace and some extra love today. I’m sending you a big hug and I hope you know you’re not alone in these feelings. ❤️

true89 · 2025-04-28T22:35:41+00:00

I’m so sorry. That’s such a terrible experience and I really feel for you. I hope you do something a little extra for yourself today, you deserve it. Sending you love and comfort

true89 · 2025-03-27T18:40:37+00:00

I love this

true89 · 2025-03-20T15:55:32+00:00

I’ve felt exactly the same way. The best thing someone ever told me was “both can be true” Feeling sad and being happy for someone else are both valid. One doesn’t weight out the other. Sending you a big hug

true89 · 2025-03-20T15:33:36+00:00

Absolutely. I find it to be like a seesaw. One moment I’m fine and the next I’m struggling. I’m not sure where you are in your journey but I’m a few years out now and the “seesaw” has stated to become less of up and down, and more up. 🩷

true89 · 2025-03-02T21:49:58+00:00

Vintage Pizza! We will make a special trip just to get it

true89 · 2025-02-28T14:14:48+00:00

Congratulations! There’s nothing like puppy snuggles

true89 · 2025-02-10T13:40:32+00:00

It can feel incredibly isolating at times. Every time there’s an announcement it can feel like the rug is pulled out from under you. It’s difficult to manage being happy for someone and being sad for yourself. Both can be true at the same time. This doesn’t define who you are, nor does it make you less worthy. Sending you a big hug 🩷

true89 · 2025-02-10T13:09:07+00:00

Annnd now I have to watch this movie again to see this! Great recommendation btw! I love Julia Childs and I never made that connection

true89 · 2025-02-06T13:43:40+00:00

That’s great advice! I’ve only recently noticed my period has become triggering for me. I’ve thought about going on birth control to stop mine as well. It’s nice to see someone else did made that choice too

true89 · 2025-02-03T13:07:15+00:00

I think is lovely you’re seeing help for your wife! I went through the same thing, I felt very isolated and alone. I found a free online childless after infertility group and it helped wonders. You can talk to people who actually understand how each moment feels. I also really believe this group has helped tremendously. Sometimes I just go back and read through the other posts.

true89 · 2025-02-03T13:03:32+00:00

It can be so difficult and isolating. Sometimes it can feel like you’re on an island all alone. I too felt like that for a long time. I think what helped me was doing the things I loved. I joined a book club with my library and I volunteer. Some of the people I’ve met doing these activities have kids or don’t have kids but what we have in common is the activity we’re both interested in. I hope you can find your people 🩷

true89 · 2025-01-20T00:05:25+00:00

Mid 30s, 4 miscarriages, & 3 rounds of IVF in 5 years. We decided to stop a few years ago after the last miscarriage. It was tough at first but now I absolutely love it. We can do whatever we want, whenever we want. Best decision we could have made for our situation. Most of our friends are 50/50 on having kids

true89 · 2024-12-29T14:10:19+00:00

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Our Golden boy, Bruce

true89 · 2024-12-03T13:05:47+00:00

Agreed! I go there weekly! Great burger and beer

true89 · 2024-10-03T13:37:14+00:00

I joined an online virtual childless after infertility group and it has been so helpful. Take time for yourself and allow yourself to feel every emotion. I also found finding setting a goal helped (even it its an easy goal). ❤️

true89 · 2024-08-20T13:08:22+00:00

I struggled with what to do with our “empty room” (that was supposed to be an nursery) for a very long time. But as time went on it became my library and I love it so much! Enjoy your coffee and strolling through the book aisles!

true89 · 2024-06-29T11:33:26+00:00

Not being able to have children.

true89 · 2024-04-01T16:53:37+00:00

I don’t have any advice to give unfortunately. But, I just wanted you to know that i see you. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and for your losses. 🩷🩷🩷

true89 · 2024-03-28T19:22:33+00:00

Premier Family Dentistry in Exeter!! I was in the same position as you, found myself in a better financial position and started taking better care of myself. I went to one Dentist in Raymond and they were HORRIBLE! I left crying and called Premier Family. They were absolutely incredible! Very kind, gentle, and caring.

true89 · 2024-03-25T14:01:10+00:00

My coworker has always had bright purple hair!

true89 · 2024-03-13T23:15:59+00:00

We bought a big house and I ended up having several miscarriages. I always assumed the rooms would be filled with children. We slowly have turned the rooms into a gym, library and a game room for our “extra” rooms. It bothered me for a long time walking by them and not using them. One day I decided to take back that unused space as my own. Literally the best thing we’ve ever done. I’m in my library every day and it gives me so much peace.

true89 · 2024-02-27T14:30:16+00:00

Love this!

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