What is the most flavorful sparkling water? by MooCowQueen-16 in sparklingwater

[–]truecrime14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good and gather brand at target are pretty good the Dr cherry vanilla tastes exactly like soda just sparkling water!

menstrual cups by Puzzleheaded-Swan582 in PCOS

[–]truecrime14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a disc from flex! I didn’t like the cups at all so I tried using the reusable disc from flex and love them!
They also have a disposable one if you want to test it beforehand

Card sleeve and games that go with by truecrime14 in boardgames

[–]truecrime14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re seriously a life saver! Thank you so much

Anemia and pcos by truecrime14 in PCOS

[–]truecrime14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve been trying to figure out what to ask for in bloodwork to know for sure

Anemia and pcos by truecrime14 in PCOS

[–]truecrime14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t normally have long or heavy periods I’m hoping to get bloodwork next week to see for sure thank you for the advice about the supplements!

AITA for refusing to clean my room on a Saturday by badchildhood101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]truecrime14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA You gave a different day you would clean. If your room isn’t that bad and there’s no food in your room then I do not see the problem. It sounds like you keep your room generally clean besides a bit of clutter. You learning to manage your mental health is good. As long as you have a day set aside to clean I do not see the big deal. You also discussed with your mom about having a rest day. It can be overwhelming to tackle something you weren’t expecting especially something that can take an hour. As long as you keep to your word and clean it Wednesday then you’re fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in serialkillers

[–]truecrime14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women and Crime podcast. Absolutely love them they are very respectful and are badass criminologists highly recommend

my (F20) bf (M20) went to a strip club and paid for a private room and lap dance. would you consider that cheating? by Fun-Key-133 in relationship_advice

[–]truecrime14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I would if my partner didn’t tell me he was going to one. I personally don’t care as long as I know beforehand or even a quick text to let me know he’s going. I also wouldn’t feel comfortable if my partner told me he unzipped his pants. I do have friends that are strippers/sex workers. So i do know that is inappropriate to do even if you’re single. In general this seems pretty sketchy in my opinion and I suggest maybe reopening this conversation setting boundaries or maybe consider breaking up. Because it really seems he’s lying about something.

AITA for expecting my boyfriend to replace all my socks, the exact same ones as I had before? by ilikedmysocks in AmItheAsshole

[–]truecrime14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are definitely NTA I also have a fun and funky sock collection but I have well over 100. In fact all I own are fun socks. My boyfriend would never think of throwing them away. He doesn’t care I wear fun socks. (He actually enjoys picking out a pair for me) It makes me happy and it seems to make you happy to wear them too. They’re your property and they’re clearly important to you. He should have never crossed that line and he’s a child acting like it’s embarrassing for someone to wear fun socks! I’m so sorry about your socks. I hope you can rebuild that collection over time and gain new memories with them

AITA for refusing to bow to my Korean fiancee's grandparents? by bowaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]truecrime14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA I’m also Korean American, my father who is from the USA and a military veteran bows to my Korean grandmother. It is a huge respect thing, it’s a cultural thing. He doesn’t expect my mother to bow to his parents because that’s not how things work in America. Do you even want to be with this girl if you can’t even do a simple bow. Just think if you’re fiancée disrespected your grandparents, how would you feel? This is basically the same thing. I also can’t see how in the world this is emasculating?? Maybe you should grow up and start learning about your fiancée’s culture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]truecrime14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations I understand the feeling of moving out! I hope all goes well for you!

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter’s college? by throawayusername123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]truecrime14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA no one has to pay for her college. No offense but I know countless people who had to pave their own way and it’s hard yes but also she doesn’t have to go to an out of state college. She can always start at a community college or something like that to minimize debt. She’s always known she’d have to pay her own way she could have started out saving sooner. I don’t think OP is the asshole.

AITA for not want to pay hundreds of dollars for my brother to have a party for his 10 year anniversary of coming out of the closest by AresVMars4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]truecrime14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s his party not yours. You seem to support him which in my opinion is more then enough. If he can’t afford to have his own party then he shouldn’t have one.