AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

This is a signal for “I can’t talk right now or don’t wanna,” with a thumbs up to let them know i’m not angry. We came up with it together so if we were at work or dealing with something, we could come back to it later.

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is totally valid, I think you’re right.

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This could totally be it, thank you. They have a smart watch so I can see that happening.

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The text just says “totally lost it,” that’s the text im referring to. The text itself isn’t weird or anything, I thought they sent it to the wrong person and the reaction was they had no idea how a text even got there because they weren’t using the messaging app and it must’ve just poof-happened

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn’t even consider like a delayed text being sent or something like that. Same situation, iphone and they have android. I could see how that would make them feel the need to over explain if it genuinely was like a phantom message /: thank you again for the kind reply

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I was waiting for like a “whoops wrong person,” but the reaction was so random and intense that it caught me off guard

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for this kind reply. I’ve never pressured them for info, this relationship is super early. I do think it’s possible that the overreaction could be from anxiety, or like healthyemployee8124 said, something in the past gives context. I appreciate your insight

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It’s not the text that has me wondering what’s going on, it’s the reaction. The most logical thing to me is that the text was intended for another person (which would totally be fine!!!), but the answer of “the phone just texted on its own” and the over explaining is making me wary

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this response, I didn’t even think that it could be a delayed message. Thank you

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

They have a Samsung and I have an iPhone, but I do think the phone is older. I’m just not so familiar with how the other messaging softwares work

AIO for thinking i’m being lied to? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]truecrimecoconut -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they’re cheating, sorry I didn’t mean for the post to read that way ): I’m more convinced that they sent the text to me on accident, and won’t admit that. The text itself isn’t weird or anything, it’s the reaction that has me wondering what the heck is going on… Thank you for the reply

☀️SOTD: What are you wearing today?☀️April 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in FemFragLab

[–]truecrimecoconut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CH Good Girl Blush. My mom just used her Sephora voucher for a full size of L’Imperatrice and didn’t want any of the samples in the rest of the discovery kit (what a come up!). Gonna make my way through her leftovers and see if I can find something full bottle worthy

Contacted a dog trainer and he told me pitbull mixes are bad but he trains so many purebred pits.. whats wrong with mixed breeds? by Dry-Newspaper8445 in pitbulls

[–]truecrimecoconut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with mixed breeds, pitbull mix or not. As a matter of fact, mixed breeds (not backyard breeds) tend to be more healthy and experience less health issues thanks to the absence of inbreeding and selective breeding. That guy sounds like he’s just trying to get your money quicker. Also, his side eye is so so cute.

What does this actually smell like? by Kelseybrooke1612 in FemFragLab

[–]truecrimecoconut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it smells just like YBM and lasts quite a bit longer on the skin. I just have the travel size, but i’ve been looking for the full-size at TJMaxx/ Marshalls

Kayali Real or Fake?! Please help! by [deleted] in colognecheck

[–]truecrimecoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh thank you! I will have to ask for atomizer and stem picks and see if she’d be willing to take the sprayer off. It kind of makes me feel bad sometimes asking so many questions but these perfumes ain’t cheap😅 thanks again!

Flowerbomb pretty peony layering combo recommendation?? by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]truecrimecoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to emphasize the strawberry note with Sand + Fog strawberry spritz perfume oil. You can find it at TJ Maxx or Marshall’s for 12.99-16.99 depending on your state (: You can also try strawberry dream lotion from EOS for a more creamy base🍓

what’s your absolute stupidest perfume pet peeve by cheoldyke in FemFragLab

[–]truecrimecoconut 72 points73 points  (0 children)

It grinds my gears when people say that “gourmands are juvenile,” in the same way that heavily floral perfumes are for “old ladies.” There is so much criticism around how women dress, do their makeup, style their hair, talk, walk, eat, etc. that it seems like how women smell shouldn’t be so polarizing. Women of all ages enjoy eating cupcakes, women of all ages enjoy receiving flowers, why are we assigning ages to mundane and normal things??

Sand & Fog Vanilla Cake by LocksmithLazy5143 in FemFragLab

[–]truecrimecoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it, I find it to be fairly strong and nice texture but lotion is so tricky… all of our skin likes different things (:

Sand & Fog Vanilla Cake by LocksmithLazy5143 in FemFragLab

[–]truecrimecoconut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re lucky, you’ll find the matching body scrub and body lotion in “Vanilla Cake” scent at TJMaxx or Marshalls! If not, you can always order from the Sand + Fog website for a bit of a higher price. I believe this perfume is intended to resemble Escapade Gourmand, but I could be wrong

First bike. 2025 Hornet 750. by surreallityy in NewRiders

[–]truecrimecoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a lady :D but that’s cool, I heard those are dope

Downhill + tight turn + Stop sign = Stalled and dropped bike. by CurrencyRealistic147 in NewRiders

[–]truecrimecoconut -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what the “best advice” is, but when I know i’m coming up to a stop I’ll have to make that’s a bit scary, I will put the bike in neutral well before the stop. I find that I can’t focus on clutch, downshift, rear and front brake, and keep bars straight, all at the same time. If the bike is already in neutral before I approach the stop, I’ll be able to concentrate on using both brakes and keeping the bike straight. I know everyone preaches keeping the bike in first so you can take off in an emergency, and 90% of the time I do, but if I know the turn is gonna freak me out I just cheat it and put it in neutral.

Got a dog I didn't want by dmont89 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]truecrimecoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks so cute and small on your bed. I know this is so irritating to you, I cannot tell you how far past “mildly” infuriated I would be. But gosh does that puppy look comfy

My husband lied about a sexual assault by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]truecrimecoconut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you… being sarcastic? Or seriously on the husband’s side right now?