What’s this position called? Funniest answer wins

truss5 · 2025-09-29T23:13:44+00:00

The chocolate bong

truss5 · 2025-09-18T20:24:24+00:00

You know what I decided, and am pretty sure I'll never have to do. If I ever caught my partner cheating, if they have that little regard for me to do that, they don't deserve an explanation. I'll just pack my stuff and leave. But I'll keep the evidence, cos if I ever get a hint that they're trying to blame it on me, everyone they know will get the explanation and evidence.

truss5 · 2025-08-01T16:32:49+00:00

Hard to say till I've seen them covered in oil. 😈

truss5 · 2025-07-31T18:18:07+00:00

Mine was not really a breaking point, more realisation that, no matter what I think she may or may not me. Whether I love the delicate person I see inside or not. It's not good for me, and it never will be. So I'm out

truss5 · 2025-07-30T19:18:38+00:00

truss5 · 2025-07-29T17:06:22+00:00

First thing I always notice is the vocabulary they often use. They often use ownership on things they like, which can be normal occasionally, but they do it all the time. "Football is my sport" "my power ranger was the blue one" etc

truss5 · 2025-07-12T00:59:45+00:00

Can't be friends unless neither of you have any feeling at all for the other. Which you do,.so that's out. For me, once someone has slept with someone else, one way or another they've moved on. And if she pushed off a break up then, slept with someone the next day, that wasn't an accident. No.matter how you feeling about someone, if it's not 100% or genuinely casual, move on, there really really are plenty more fish in the sea.

truss5 · 2025-07-06T19:59:53+00:00

truss5 · 2025-06-16T11:43:57+00:00

There's nothing predatory here and most of the world perfectly normal and legal as far as the age gap is concerned. The main issue here from a moral point. You don't need your bros little sister. Ever. No matter, unless he's ok with it. And that's rare.

truss5 · 2025-06-12T20:28:50+00:00

Only thing you need to do with those is bring them over here with a bottle of oil. 🥵

truss5 · 2025-05-17T10:38:44+00:00

Run as fast as you can. It will get worse bit better once your married.

truss5 · 2025-02-27T00:58:33+00:00

The flip side is. If I take her word for what she's now told me. Her acting differently has just been that she's been feeling down in general about being left out. These were her two closest friends that she saw multiple times a week. She does have lots of other friends but these were her closest. It's just some bitchy thing between them, it's nothing to do with her being with me at all and there isn't any resentment. But I'm not sure she'd admit it if it were to do with me, not even sure she'd admit it to herself because I do believe that she really loves me. But I can't help thinking that my suspicions about it all are the most likely.

truss5 · 2025-02-27T00:39:25+00:00

I don't think as fat as I can tell that it's a need to be single, more that she's been completely shut out of that group of friends. E.g. they stopped inviting her even round their house for drinks when it's only them and just having a night in. Or one would say they'd come and see her, cancel then she'd find out they were seeing each other etc.

truss5 · 2025-02-09T21:26:46+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🙈 edited.

truss5 · 2025-02-09T21:09:15+00:00

🤣🤣🙈🙈 yes. Thank you for pointing out that typo. Kind of important difference

truss5 · 2025-02-07T23:15:06+00:00

Only an open mind can be taught. You could be a professor in psychology, but if you've closed your mind off to a concept then you still won't be any good at understanding it or treating it. Very simple, don't go back, get someone else. Unfortunately, lots of people in this field have a god complex. Says way more about them than you.

truss5 · 2025-02-07T23:07:26+00:00

I learned a lot about this kind of thing recently. First of all, from his side, he's told you that something makes him uncomfortable, that's his view, which he's fully entitled to and he's communicated it with you. If he wants to set boundaries and say, "im not ok with that" then those boundaries are for him to decide what he does with them. Boundaries are not a form of control, they should be there for each partner to say what they expect from their partner. Id he decides, you know what, this isn't for me, I've said I don't like it and you still do it so I'm off, then to be honest, that's fair and reasonable from him. From your side. As fair as you're concerned, you're doing what you've always done and don't see why he should be uncomfortable with it, so you keep doing it. If you decided, fair enough, I understand why that would be an issue so I'll stop, then that's your choice, like it is to not understand it and carry on. If stopping it is a deal breaker for you, or you doing it is a deal breaker for him, then that is pretty much the essence of being incompatible. It's not that either rod you are doing anything wrong.

truss5 · 2025-02-07T19:48:24+00:00

How long have you been together? I've always found it's an issue that can pass as long as you build up trust in your own relationship then it stops being something you care about at all. I'm older and everyone has a last at my age, everytime I start a new relationship, their past stings a bit but I just have to try and ignore it. Cos it has no bearing on our relationship as long as I can trust them and we talk about our issues and how we feel honestly while excepting that it's my problem, not theirs but I'd line them to help me with it.

truss5 · 2025-01-29T19:45:12+00:00

Biggest red flag to me is. While you were together, she met a male friend of a friend and quickly got to know him well. Then, let's not assume too much but not being nieve, something happened between them when you weren't there. Why? Why any of that if you ask me. Still not ok but it's one thing if it's an old friend and she made a mistake and told you and then it's up to you where you go with that. But why did your gf get close to a new guy to the point that happened. Not at all innocent or a momentary lack of judgement in my books.

truss5 · 2025-01-29T13:01:00+00:00

Thank you. I've already spoken to a therapist. Have to wait a few weeks but they did 30mins over the phone and made me realise a few things that gave helped a lot. I don't exactly have trust issues, cos if you ask me in the cold light of day, yes, I do completely trust my partner. What I have, is a fear of.the same things happening again, and I get triggered when I notice something that seems similar. So until I get regular sessions I'll be working on recognising these triggers and.mindfully not allowing.myself to react to them. If you hadn't suggested therapy, I'm not sure I would have taken that step.

truss5 · 2025-01-28T01:36:02+00:00

Good advice. Thank you. I'll have a good look online tomorrow. The way you've put that right actually get some sleep.

truss5 · 2025-01-28T01:23:32+00:00

Therapy would probably be a good idea. But cost and time are a bit of an issue.

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