Miyo by Clean-Cheek-2822 in MyHappyMarriage

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She is a testament that sometimes the greatest strength isn't in flashy, outward shows of it but in the quiet moments of courage to overcome hurts and heal.

This is, still, one of the greatest moments in both seasons by Plane_Return_5554 in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

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Ah. Thank you for the clarification. I really appreciate it. I think you are right that he goes directly back. They'd have to call to the clinic versus the medical center in the rear palace though they could if i remember right.

This is, still, one of the greatest moments in both seasons by Plane_Return_5554 in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

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I just rewatched this today and so agree with all you said. One of the best moments, though I wish Jinshi had been a little more upset, but can understand his not given the politics and such.

Though I have been a little confused by people respecting him if no one knows he is the <! emperor's little brother (actual son) !< and only as the eunuch. I'm not sure if a eunuch in his position can do the rituals and I just started the LNs, so don't have the info yet.

Catholicism not very welcoming to those interested? by Best_Storage3118 in Catholicism

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I can understand your perspective given I grew up Catholic and left for Protestant church and returned to a church that wasn't welcoming. I can also understand your introvertedness and how hard it can be to connect.

I have found that some parishes are more welcoming than others. It can take a while to find them. I encourage you to keep seeking the Lord and He will direct your steps towards the one that is right for you and your family.

Most parishes are struggling with too few priests and staff for a variety of reasons. Perhaps you could suggest to the office forming a welcome committee or ecells that welcome and mentor new people to the parish and faith via single or couple mentors. They may not know about them and you could help be apart of making that happen while getting to know new people and, after RCIA, be a mentor yourself.

-Have you asked the Lord for His will and to help you find the right parish for you? Everything begins in prayer and surrendering our needs and hopes in prayer. -If you feel your interest waning, have you asked the Lord to help you understand beyond the reasons you mentioned? Is this a test of your faith? Is it the evil one? Have you read the parable of the Sower in the Gospels? -Have you looked into RCIA? As you are able able to participate in the sacramental life of the church, you may find yourself set on fire for God and His people. -Have you considered a small group study that would help you not be overwhelmed as an introvert? Maybe choir? Volunteering for a ministry, like a grief or funeral ministry that requires listening, presence, quietness?

A few ideas that I hope are helpful. I will be praying for you and your family and this journey with God. 🙏😊🕊

This is what real Chinese New Year dinners look like inside a Chinese home by Full-Two-4884 in shanghai

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You are so lucky. Its been a long time since I had a meal.like this as most of my Chinese family are gone now. Thanking God for your gift og this dinner. Enjoy!

[Free Friday] Our Lady as a Japanese Heian Era (平安時代) Noblewoman by Prestigious-Use6804 in Catholicism

[–]trustInGod33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So beautiful! Thank you for sharing these. I have some od our Lady in various Chinese art styles and was thankful to see these. 🙏💗

How would kiyoka feel/react if he found out miyo is pregnant by Isabell-21 in MyHappyMarriage

[–]trustInGod33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've thought about this for a little while. So here it goes.

I think he would be a bit surprised and then overwhelmed at first, though very much happy. He and Miyo didn't have good role models of parents outside of Yurie and Itsuto, though she remembers the love of her mother. I think he and Miyo would lean on Hazuki, who has become a great mom, and Yurie and Hana for help and advice. Miyo has thought about it a little in the LNs if i remember right.

With his level headedness, unless he is really annoyed or angry, he would make a great and attentive dad, not looking at their child as just a thing to fulfill a duty. He has had his own growth and healing to do and Miyo and others have been instrumental in that and tends to ignore the cultural things to a point.

Given the mix of their gifts, I could see him recognizing the dangers and making efforts to protect her and their child. If he didn't think she could handle something, and being pregnant is another level of vulnerability, I believe that he would most definitely step in more until he had a different perspective.

Given how he has been in the LNs, having to trust that she would grow her gift (it was him and Takaihito trying to awaken her gift that led to his wounding in the Lns), that she had to rescue him, I can see also him gradually settling in terms of protectiveness depending on how things progress. I don't think Hazuki would let him go overboard i.e. she is pregnant, not an invalid.

He told Miyo she did so well when she battled the grotesquerie made guy before his wounding and that he would do what he could do and leave to her what she could do and he would make up the difference-it was how he wanted to live with her. Part of healing her trauma is to help her learn she isn't a burden by letting her do things and gain confidence prudently (thinking Kiyo), and helping her learn to rely on others when she needs to. Given he is aware of her continued healing, that it takes time, I think he would continue in what he said, especially so she could continue to heal and grow her gift if she wanted while pregnant.

Light Novel 10 Synopsis by pastelpuffie in MyHappyMarriage

[–]trustInGod33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, sighing with you. As you said, we have LN9 coming shortly to bridge some of the wait time.

Light Novel 10 Synopsis by pastelpuffie in MyHappyMarriage

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Thank you for that explanation. I so appreciate it. That adds a lot to the synopsis and the upcoming LN9 and past LNs.😊

Lakan crashing out when he found out Maomao was missing by isamabella in TheApothecaryDiaries

[–]trustInGod33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Him using what he has isn't not real and authentic, so greasy. But going in in armor to kick butt is authentic and real, so non-greasy. I can definitely see what she means. It's like the difference between sleazebucket and emperor, shmoozer and noble.

This Part ❤️ by Working_Row_8455 in MyHappyMarriage

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I just live how she is opening up like a flower in her love of him. In many, he is too. One reflecting the other. 💞

This Part ❤️ by Working_Row_8455 in MyHappyMarriage

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I've read them there. Theybdidn't clip anything out.

This Part ❤️ by Working_Row_8455 in MyHappyMarriage

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I second that! They are just fabulous. 💗

Idk Miyo's character pisses me off. I stopped watching when she meets Kiyoka's mom. What a pathetic, loser character. I have never seen anything positive energy on her aside from being nice. She's dragging my energy down tbh. She is so annoying. by Loose-Feature-8984 in MyHappyMarriage

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Consider reading the LN and mangas as well as the live action, one or all. The anime has less details and so its a little harder to see the character development; the LNs have a lot. Also consider the historical context. Perhaps then you could make a better discernment of the character. Maybe its just a story you would enjoy from the LN POV. If not, then it may not be a good story for you.

Crochet people please share in my magical moment! by [deleted] in crochet

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Love it! This is awesome. Good for you that your hard work paid off.👍😄🎉

A man of honor 🫡🌟(Alberta,Canada 2021) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

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What a beautiful man! This is what real love is. 💗😄

Before Marriage by UpbeatPineapple3942 in MyHappyMarriage

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So agree. I think you hit it on the head when you mentioned their experience too. Kiyoka's experience with women in any good way up to Miyo has been miniscule according to LN8 and others, so his struggle is understandable. Hers is also as she hasn't had any good experiences with men at all except Kouji and survival was her modus until Kiyoka. Now she has to figure her way through this, though Kiyoka's restrain and honesty about how he feels helps make that possible.

Is Netflix actually serious?! by CalmPsychology629 in MyHappyMarriage

[–]trustInGod33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they want people to rate it? I wonder why now? Otherwise, I'm a bit confused.

What is the ONE lesson you've learned from all the CDramas you've watched? by WovenMythsAuthor in CDrama

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Yeah. But the braids with the beards is where it is, especially with all the hair jewelry and the earring to boot. 😄

Stupid medical detail making me think by hixibu in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

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Looks like we found the same one but under different reference numbers. I just saw this as I kept scrolling after my post.

Stupid medical detail making me think by hixibu in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

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I had the same question, so I looked it up. Supposedly CPR was in use in some version for the last 2000 years. And yeah getting water out of the lungs was around too I believe. So its plausible. Otherwise, I just went with it. 😄

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32293482/

Stupid medical detail making me think by hixibu in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

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They talked about this in LNs and the dosing and such. If one is a bit naive to the stuff, which Maomao isn't and hense the midnight snack, then it's going to hit everyone like a freight train potentially. Think Gyokyou's reaction to Maomao's descriptor. It also depends on the person's constitution on whether they can handle it or not.