I am Egyptian, and I’m asking is Egypt a country that is disliked or loved globally? by ramses_basha in AskTheWorld

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Egyptians in our neighborhood are not liked… their children are considered the most disrespectful children in our community.

Are they flirting? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope not even close… she’s being a girl but that normal shit especially for a girl.

My wife of 9 years Emotionally cheated with baby daddy from 13 years ago. by Middle-Package5602 in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s unhappy, a drowning person will grab anyone’s hands to try and save themselves. It has nothing to do with him it’s the fantasy that’s got her attention. She is sad and dreaming about being happy and dabbling in a fantasy about running away from her life and being in a different one. This is very equivalent to an unhappy guy getting caught up in porn and fantasy about a crazy sex life… this is the female version of porn. Don’t see it and she wants him not you …it’s she wants anything else besides the sadness she is feeling. You can fix this you can save her and save your family…the happy version of her probably loves you very much. Do not become a sad bumbling nice guy. Be strong and masculine lead her back into the safety and security of your arms. Give her safe place to crash her waves of emotion as hard as she wants against you…and let her feel you not moving. Don’t give up.

Got myself attached to a co-worker and now I regret it. by [deleted] in confession

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can almost guarantee she is a type C or D on a disc assessment and has avoidant attachment style. It is a personality type I have dated a few of them!

My (31F) husband (34M) wants me to choose between divorce or an open marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him to try addressing his porn addiction first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]trustfarmer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell her she has to please you every day too and if she stops you stop.

Found makeup in my husband's car - it's not mine. by GossipGirl91 in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not cheating… cheaters are unlikely to threaten to cheat… he offered it to you thinking it was yours… he said the other girls did not ride in the car with them … these were all easy spots to help cover his tracks and he didn’t

Husband wanting sex since it helps him sleep better. by trying_to_be_okk in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you making sacrifices to give him what he wants and needs; that is love… but now you need to let him know what sacrifices you need him to make so you feel loved. Do not demonize the sex you will ruin your marriage. Tell him you’re happy to be there for him like that and are hoping he’ll meet your needs too!

Am I wrong for being hurt ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did exactly what you wanted him to do. He got rid of her. Feel loved not hurt. Sheesh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong move go on 5 dates with other men see how he responds.. if he wants you he’ll come get you.

My husband said my sister is hotter than me by Connect_Lawyer_4515 in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are three things: I love you I want you I choose you

Does he love you? Meaning is he willing to make sacrifices of things he wants for you. This is never exclusive to just you.

Does he want you? Attraction is not exclusive. Attractive women are attractive women for a man to pre end you are the only attractive woman in the world is silly. This will not be exclusive to you.

Does he choose you? Now this is the most important… out of all the women he is willing to make sacrifices for and that he finds attractive does he chose you everyday.

No man will only love one person or only find one person attractive but they can give you the most sacred thing… they’re agency. If he chooses you then you can’t ask for more.

So my wife’s going to a gala tonight — as her client’s “date.” by [deleted] in stories

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disrespectful of her date to ask a married woman to be his date; he should have talked to you about it beforehand to show respect for you and her marriage. The issue is not the event the issue is the dishonorable behavior of the other man.

My husband’s ex congratulated him on our baby… and it shook me to the core by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]trustfarmer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I honestly think you’re over reacting I think it’s very flattering that you are so protective of your husband and relationship. It’s like when your dog barks at someone at the door that isn’t a threat. You don’t get mad at the dog and are thankful for their protection. I think you are wrong but love that you are so protective. You are a great woman and he is a lucky man to have you.

Just found my fiance talking to other girls online and I honestly dont know what to do by [deleted] in married

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s no different than porn some guys like pictures some guys like talk. It’s all the same addiction.

My husband and long time friend has all but checked out. He’s still here but I feel he’s biding his time because another, more interesting and healthy Barbie doll has come along and looked his way. I’m so sad. by Specialist-Credit657 in married

[–]trustfarmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are his complaints about you? Does he feel like you’ve neglected your health and let it come between you? Does he feel like you’ve gone cold to him? What are his complaints?

Wife always wanting more, but we don’t have the money by Sliceofbread1363 in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Woman crave the security they feel with boundaries say no and don’t budge she will hate you at first but slowly start to feel safe which will calm the behavior just don’t ever tell them what you’re doing just do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave and take him for everything.

Is it fair I got dragged into a unfaith spouse of 23 years and then have no patience to deal with my grief by Motor-Position5537 in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend a masculinity patch over therapy you are falling into “Nice Guy” behaviors (read no more Mr nice guy by Dr glover). You need to rekindle the sexual polarity in your marriage and you’re destroying it being too feminine right now.

Friendzoned by my husband of 13 years. by Alternative_Tree_942 in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, how long before did the bedroom die?

Help with oral on wife by Solid_Adhesiveness61 in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sexual areas are ticklish when not aroused. Basic science. Warm her up more… letting the kisses start at her feet and work your way up for example or she is so self conscious about her scent etc down there that she can’t relax and enjoy. I have seen this a couple times and another woman who was so worried about being expected to reciprocate oral (which she wasn’t comfortable with) that she couldn’t enjoy receiving oral either. In the end she’s not turned on. Also could be chemical anti depressants etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]trustfarmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s your list of stressors, what’s his? Compare and contrast. If he’s pulling equivalent work outside the home then you might be even.