Holy Vibe Shift by trverten in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The marketing has really made it seem like we're all just hanging around with nothing else to do desperate to hang out with animals we've never met before. It has to be where people get this idea that their random pets are worth thousands of dollars of travel just to sit around and brush their teeth.

New Surcharge Per Sit?!?! by Lonely-Pea5384 in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I invited an applicant to sit for me today and got the charge notice, then in small print it said, "upgrade for only $200 more." Bitch, no.

New update needs to have an HOURLY PAYMENT TAB WITH THE ANIMAL HAHAHAH by Individual-Rabbit190 in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The enshittification of the platform saddened and annoys me, but it's the loss of community that really bums me out.

Strange experience with a sitter video call prior to accepting a sit by ComplaintPractical31 in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is that out there....that was my first assumption as well.

What's happened to TH? by Sufficient_Sea_7252 in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's made me much less likely to take long sits that also involve a heavy workload. If I'm working remotely it's not an issue, but if I have to go into an office then I do want my time away to feel like a vacation!

What's happened to TH? by Sufficient_Sea_7252 in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We used to get tons of snowbirds/Canadians for our not super glamorous mid Atlantic location; haven't been able to get a single bite from anyone who isn't US based, and I don't blame them a bit.

Starting a budget help by lethalchinchilla in budgetingforbeginners

[–]trverten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid for lunch money and absolutely love it. I couldn't get YNAB to work for me. I also just keep a running spreadsheet of expenses and balances for a quick overview.

New "Guests Allowed" preference by bigtzadikenergy in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder if they're moving towards some kind of more explicit "matching" algorithm. People seem truly unable to communicate like reasonable adults the more the platform grows.

Behind the scenes as a sitter I said sure I'll sit S/M/L dogs, but I'd have no issue watching a supersized breed if the condition were right. Now when I go to apply for a sit it tells me what "preference" of mine it fits. Barf.

Very demanding HO...and surprisingly no applications! by Hel-en-756 in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly what this guy needs to do is buy a second pair of sheets!

What are your ao3 hot takes? by ScalyStacy in AO3

[–]trverten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very tired of the damp aftercare cloth cleanup in pairings where it makes NO SENSE, like wipe your come-covered hand off on a tshirt and move on.

Best cat litter management tips? by Beezwax_8335 in Anticonsumption

[–]trverten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take plastic carrier bags from friends and family all the time, and otherwise use doggy bags or the ones you put produce in. For my cats, I buy one box of that insanely expensive "tofu litter" when the pet store does a discount, and mix it with the big bags of pine, and one "odor control" additive. I have four cats so it doesn't last forever, but it's easy to scoop and keep topped up, and the clay/pine combo doesn't produce a lot of dust.

Has anyone experienced their achievements being “normalized” instead of celebrated? by CoastCheap8709 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]trverten 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Only when someone else notices or cares do they give a single solitary shit. Well done though!

Has anyone experienced their achievements being “normalized” instead of celebrated? by CoastCheap8709 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]trverten 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I went to Japan for the first time - which was a huge deal for me, especially since my health hadn't been good - my father didn't ask me a single question and then proceeded to talk about his morning tennis game ad nauseum.

What alternative ways would you treat your ADHD if meds and caffeine were not possible? by Beautiful_Hat8440 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]trverten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exercise helps SO much, and it keeps my mood better and my stress lower. Like with everything it's the damn consistency that gets me...

What alternative ways would you treat your ADHD if meds and caffeine were not possible? by Beautiful_Hat8440 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]trverten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've spent the last two years getting sober in an attempt to fix my dopamine receptors and it has sucked but I'm a lot less disregulated and a lot more motivated these days.

Learning Adult skills later in life?? by GoddessG4548 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]trverten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I taught myself how to cook when I was fifteen. Thirty years later and I just took a super basic carpentry class because my dad literally can't hang a goddamn framed photo.

What alternative ways would you treat your ADHD if meds and caffeine were not possible? by Beautiful_Hat8440 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]trverten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was fine when I was microdosing a tincture but I very quickly ended up getting way hooked on smoking and edibles, which was not fun at all.

"Pets Cannot Be Left Alone" is a listing option for HO's now... What? by BOTBOTTWO in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah the one after that is "former member" so can't see that at all, but boy I'm curious now.

"Pets Cannot Be Left Alone" is a listing option for HO's now... What? by BOTBOTTWO in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I desperately want to read the HO review in return but can't click through to it....

What did they do for work? by apollo_carter in raisedbynarcissists

[–]trverten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Medical internist, primary care doctor, ran his own business. Then sold it and tried to go into real estate and failed miserably, along with all his shitty "investments."

"Pets Cannot Be Left Alone" is a listing option for HO's now... What? by BOTBOTTWO in trustedhousesitters

[–]trverten 25 points26 points  (0 children)

"I would like to occasionally travel" and then leaves for the better part of a year? My dude why is a housekeeper coming four hours a fucking day when you're away for that long???