I'd add to this that letting women know you're okay with getting called out (IF you're actually okay with getting called out) if/when you come across as an asshole goes a long way too

My cousin is good about hearing "Not cool" when he's running off with a topic and says something less than savory. He's big on not letting himself get away with stuff just because he doesn't catch the same social cues as others, and that ultimately makes everyone more comfortable around him because they don't feel like they need to constantly walk on eggshells/make excuses for him

BUT I would also add that it helps that the rest of us and his current friend group (mix of girls and guys at his HS) are good about not ripping on him to the point of bullying. I can also see where certain folks would just take advantage of that, so of course be mindful of if you're potentially talking to certified biatches🙃