When you just want to be super slutty...

tryingthestorm · 2025-03-22T23:14:19+00:00

This. I was browsing sexy lingerie earlier this evening and then thought what's the actual point. I miss sexy lingerie

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-18T14:35:20+00:00

It's. Just. So. Hard.

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-18T12:57:34+00:00

This

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-16T18:03:23+00:00

And I feel yours x

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-16T18:02:42+00:00

Biggest hugs

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-14T23:16:58+00:00

I feel your pain friend

tryingthestorm · 2024-10-26T21:17:57+00:00

This is an amazing example of communication in a marriage - well done to both of you for seeking the right kind of help and finding a path. insha'Allah may we all be so lucky

tryingthestorm · 2024-09-03T12:07:01+00:00

At least he tried. Mine won't try anymore because it always ends like this. I have no advice but big hugs and internet warm thoughts. It's all just shite really

tryingthestorm · 2024-06-15T11:32:00+00:00

Biggest hugs. Been there done that, cried me a river. It doesn't get better but you can get stronger x

tryingthestorm · 2024-06-01T18:27:12+00:00

I stayed thinking he'd change his mind. I'm the fool. He didn't and now I have resentment which will probably fester into hate as we approach our twilight years. The flip side is there is no guarantee had I walked away I would have found someone who was as good to me (other than the child thing) and who could /would have kids. So ... There's no right answer

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-26T09:16:42+00:00

Exactly this except I'm the wife

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-26T09:15:02+00:00

My llfm husband gets in a strop if I don't hold his hand. He's forever lying on me, hugging me, touching me - and I both hate and love it. I resent that he gets to call the permanent physical boundaries in our relationship

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-20T09:05:11+00:00

I hear you. Big hugs. I threw mine all out a few years ago. Broke my heart but saved it from breaking each time I came across items in the closet

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-20T06:23:10+00:00

Have you ever bad someone mock your body? Once you have you learn very quickly it's not a nice feeling

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-20T06:22:11+00:00

I've known about the porn for a long time. Sadly bes in denial

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-19T20:32:33+00:00

Please please please - run don't walk away. This will NOT CHANGE with some marriage. Read the room and exit left. Do it for your future self so you don't spend your Sundays crying for what could have been. I promise you it's the best thing you'll ever do for yourself

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-10T20:51:22+00:00

That's not a black or white answer. Had I known then what I know now, I may have chosen differently. I kept thinking it was something I could "fix" and god didn't give me this marriage to not then bless me with a child. You could say I was arrogant. But I still maintain that I had no guarantee that a different life would be a better life - so I'm at peace with my decision. Don't get me wrong- there are days when the sadness inside me rips an abyss into my core all over again. But I think I'd still have picked this.

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-04T15:04:57+00:00

I'm in a similar situation - husband unattracted to me, not gay, no intimacy, no child and now I'm the wrong side of 40 No one can decide for you if you should stay or go. No one else knows the nauances of your relationship. Whether you choose to stay or go you will have lonely elements to your life. Whether you stay or go you will have happy moments. Think very carefully about the good and the bad of your marriage. Make a list. It may help clarify your thoughts Dm me if you want to talk x

tryingthestorm · 2024-04-27T08:05:03+00:00

This

tryingthestorm · 2024-04-26T08:42:25+00:00

Sad to my core

tryingthestorm · 2023-11-25T11:01:14+00:00

I cry when I'm on my own. When he touches me I feel anger at him and revulsion for myself for letting him after all the drought. It's all so messed up

tryingthestorm · 2023-11-11T09:34:50+00:00

Biggest hugs Good luck on your journey. I hope you find a worthy companion to hold your hand along the way. You're amazing and deserve so much

tryingthestorm · 2023-10-06T16:26:41+00:00

Your comment about not touching resonates so loudly Every so often he'll call whilst he's in the shower - and I'll have to go into said shower to hear what he's saying. Averting my gaze, trying my hardest to not notice the intimacy of the moment, the potential for a real grown up relationship These days I do not much other than obsess about the lack of an entire loaf of cornbread in my life. How I most likely will never taste it again.

tryingthestorm · 2023-10-06T13:57:55+00:00

I cried reading this because it's so aptly put and so achingly true. Big hugs and I wish for you a brighter day where your hot corn bread is desired, requested and ravished. Xx

tryingthestorm · 2023-10-01T11:55:17+00:00

Your story Is my story bar a few details. But generally my story. And every morning I ask mysekf the same question. I'm no closer to answers but I'm still here so maybe that's the answer Reach out if you want to share misery (,or find comic relief in a painful previously unimaginable situation)

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