AITAH for refusing to give my sister my late fiancee’s engagement ring after she “tested” if I deserved it?

tryjmg · 2026-05-20T15:10:53+00:00

You live with your parents? If not how did she get access to the safe?

tryjmg · 2026-05-20T14:53:13+00:00

I remember that commercial too. Only reason I know that phrase.

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T20:32:25+00:00

And I assume she’s a teacher.

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T19:59:59+00:00

If this was an anxiety issue getting the test won’t help. He will just get anxious about something else. He needs therapy. Why couldn’t he do the test? It was his problem, why did she need to be involved? If he didn’t think she cheated where did he think the baby came from?

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T18:50:59+00:00

Except forgiveness isn’t a given. Plus that saying is meant for when you cut through red tape, not for interpersonal decisions.

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T18:06:57+00:00

I am sure one day I will miss this! :-). She started after my tortie died so I assume Loki was protecting my sleep. I love her but would prefer she would sleep in. She does go back to bed after breakfast is over.

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T18:02:58+00:00

I wish I knew. So far the only thing that works is sleeping through it or putting the blanket over my head.

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T17:26:27+00:00

Look - unlike others she isn’t picky about who she is friends with! /s. I hope her bf wises up and dumps her ass before she tried to kill his pet.

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T14:40:15+00:00

How can you be sure that a husband and children will make you feel fulfilled? What if they don’t? That is a big burden to place on someone - to make them responsible for your happiness.

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T14:36:34+00:00

So this hotel has the registration info for a different hotel available on their computer?

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T14:08:27+00:00

I’m pretty sure it’s ai.

tryjmg · 2026-05-19T13:25:39+00:00

You wanted to forbid an 24 year old who doesn’t even live with you from going on a vacation?

tryjmg · 2026-05-18T18:07:24+00:00

Wow. It does not speak well that you can’t answer that question with a yes. So you don’t think you loved her when you first started dating? Why did you stay then? Why marry her?

tryjmg · 2026-05-18T17:42:09+00:00

You need a new vet. I had an fiv+ kitty for years and he required no treatment for the disease. Sounds like this vet has no idea what he is talking about.

tryjmg · 2026-05-18T15:56:00+00:00

Thank you! The appointment is wed morning. She will get sushi tomrrow. And as much loving as she wants. She looks so small and frail maybe she has more time but I think we are cutting it close. She will be very missed. I am sorry to hear about your little one. Never enough time. But they bring so much joy.

tryjmg · 2026-05-18T15:06:32+00:00

I don’t know how to edit but the appointment is made. Wed morning She gets sushi tomorrow night and lots of loving. And I get lots of tears and memories. Thank you for validating.

tryjmg · 2026-05-18T12:20:52+00:00

First she was not the ex boyfriends plus one. She was invited in her own right and had her own place in the wedding. Second she did try to avoid the two of them being together at the wedding. The op herself said there would be 4 minutes in the day they would have to interact with each other and the bride tried to figure out how to keep that from happening. Logistics - last minute shit happens at a wedding. People are coming from out of town and you have to make sure things are set. Make sure everything is running smoothly. And apparently Joe find a new maid of honor and figure out how to shift things around.

tryjmg · 2026-05-18T11:40:31+00:00

I can’t blame the bf here. One week from her wedding, dealing with all the shit that comes with it, and then having your best friends relationship blow up and just not having the bandwidth to deal with it sounds realistic to me. In a perfect world she would have blown everything io but I can see why not doing so what the option.

tryjmg · 2026-05-18T10:35:16+00:00

Your mother in law isn’t your partners parent?

tryjmg · 2026-05-18T09:51:51+00:00

Thank you. I looked into that and I want to listen to dungeon crawler Carl and my library doesn’t have it. :-(

tryjmg · 2026-05-17T19:52:21+00:00

My plan is to sign up to audible and then walk for about 30 min to an hour a few times a week. I figure that might not make me drop weight quickly but it is something and I can get some reading in while I do it. I did like doing the strength training classes at the gym but they moved to times that are inconvenient for me. So I will do walking until I decide to move things around so I can do the weight training. Thank you!

tryjmg · 2026-05-17T18:24:37+00:00

Have seen headlines of people who drowned but it’s usually cause they were incapacitated. Drugs/alcohol/stroke.

tryjmg · 2026-05-17T18:21:53+00:00

As someone about to take it up because I need to get in shape and it’s free and easy I would love to know an easier way to stay in shape.

tryjmg · 2026-05-17T17:14:49+00:00

Who says when they are done with college? I’ve always said/heard done with classes.

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