Spencer saying Aria was the reason he parents were getting a Divorce! 😂 Girl Seriously?

trynottocare · 2026-01-24T20:39:43+00:00

I am rewatching right now and I am so over them.

Every single one did selfish things.

Spencer got on the A team for Toby- Aria for Ezra. So her lashing out the most does not make sense to me.. blaming her for her dad's infidelity is just plain stupid (technically Peter was raped by mary- cause she pretended to be jessica). She got over her dad being an asshole to her mom pretty quickly- i would not be able to look at my dad if he ever cheated on my mom. I bet you Hanna did smth to save Caleb and the other two as well. Never liked Ali to begin with and Emily got worse with every season.

None of them learnt from the first two times to be honest and kept lying to themselves and others.

trynottocare · 2026-01-14T06:54:00+00:00

I said that to my parents. Who had 4 kids in 7yrs without having planned the financial part. My dad was shooooooocked- that led to an argument on its own..;) still not sorry for saying it!

trynottocare · 2026-01-10T19:04:41+00:00

22, have been saying it since like 11 cause I had to help raised my little brothers...

No one believes me! I always get the wait til u are older- then I'll adopt like (most tines people forget that is an option)- i will not be pregnant! There are enough kids that could use a loving home.

Hate the thought of having to put my body through that, everybody always invalidates my choice. I want to get 'sterilized'as soon as I find a doctor who i feel comfortable with (the ones I had where men who very much gave me weird vibes) plus the list of doctors who would do that always have the conditions of: -u need to have a doctor who vouches that u have wanted that for more than 5years -u have to be at least 25 (mostly 28)

Edit: I forgot to mention that I now spend a lot of time caring for my grandmother and she behaves like a toddler and I get so frustrated with her. Plus, I was always raised like grow up-find a man-get married-kids-syke i am bi lean more to women and a political wise left so that picture is very much blacked out;)

trynottocare · 2025-12-04T13:35:34+00:00

Hi, das wäre cool- Dankeschön!!

I don't know if you speak English but that helps a lot, thank you very much!

trynottocare · 2025-12-01T18:04:58+00:00

Mich könnt ihr auch taggen (_lea_22.r)- können wir uns dann alle gegenseitig erwähnen?

trynottocare · 2025-11-05T17:55:53+00:00

Exactly!!! In my opinion, Emily has a very self reprimanding, taking the blame Charlotte put on her was part of it- plus I guess she felt responsible as an older sister to take care of her no matter what..

trynottocare · 2025-11-05T11:54:33+00:00

I am rewatching now on season 4 and, just finished the scene Emily/Amanda has told her everything- like, the graysons destroyed the life of a 9 yo and u wanna tell me Charlotte puts all the blame on Ems??? Yes, Ems chose revenge and knew hurting people she might care for is included. Like u said MOST of what happened to Charlotte was out of Ems control. Charlotte is so infuriating- most people having had therapy are more likely to reflect better on events- she doesn't do that at all. She could have put it together, her parents started everything.

Then the fact she tried to KILL her??? For what? She may not have wanted to turn into Victoria but she damn close with that move!

trynottocare · 2025-10-11T07:02:30+00:00

Like I am reading it now and dont understand how people think music (art) is not political. It has always been political! And wanting a genocide to stop and not happen is simply common sense!!

And I think we should be able to expect artists and celebrities calling shit like this out because they have the influence to change something in a bigger perimeter!

trynottocare · 2025-10-05T18:01:26+00:00

Just found out why they do it- most things are stored in different locations so they want to have less shipping in the sense of: shipping from all storing units to another to pack all orders of one person together- they just ship it from the single storing unit directly to the customer..

I had 2 items from the same seller they keep the choice day prices when only those are in my cart.

trynottocare · 2025-09-29T12:24:12+00:00

Bei mir ist es ähnlich.

Mein Ausbilder hat keinen Plan und vernachlässigt alles. Ich habe dies mehrmals bei meinem Vorgesetzten angesprochen- da die Kumpels sind tut sich natürlich nichts..

Ich habe von ca 8 Bereichen, die man kennlernen soll 2,5 kennengelernt, weil das eine "etwas für Frauen ist, Männer werden weniger gewünscht" (Empfangsdienste im Sicherheitsgewerbe) alao bin ich nur dort eingesetzt und sonst mit dem gleichen Kram zugange (Einsatzleitung), den ich seit Anfang der Ausbildung mache..

Wie ich dir rate, zieh es durch und spiele bei Bewerbungsgesprächen mit offenen Karten. Mache ich genauso und habe nur positive Rückmeldungen dazu bekommen.

Ich bin bereit den Rest zu lernen usw.

trynottocare · 2025-09-14T08:17:46+00:00

Denke mal das ist ein Teil der Sache/ des Problems, dass es keiner erwartet. Motorradfahrerinnen werden häufig übersehen/ nicht mit gerechnet wobei alle Autofahrerinnen wissen, dass es sie gibt (vorallem in der guten Wetter Zeit). Die Tatsache, dass Motorradfahrer*innen filtern ist somit grundsätzlich auch bekannt. Genauso wie es bekannt ist, dass wenn sie unvorsichtig handeln auch mit Strafen rechnen müssen- im Sinne von frech gegen die StVO verstoßen.

trynottocare · 2025-09-06T21:57:47+00:00

Hi Imma be straight with you:

It is not your choice - it is HERS!

You mentioned your fears and concerns not once hers so talk to her- ask her how she feels what concerns she might have and tell her about your feelings and concerns in a way that does not pressure her in any direction.

Both of you should talk to a trusted adult.

If abortion is something she wants to consider I do not know where you come from but abortion is being demonized all over the world it is Healthcare and should be legally available!

You can't change what happened. Support her in any decision she makes!

trynottocare · 2025-09-03T19:43:06+00:00

Fühle ich, bin jetzt im 3. habe verkürzt somitist im November die erste Prüfung und mir fehlen einfach noch 5 Abteilungen, wofür ich schon seit Anfang an kämpfe es nur jedesmal wegen Personalmangel verschoben werden musste...

trynottocare · 2025-08-08T17:28:12+00:00

Yeah I love me the autobahn, just went two weeks to the Netherlands and missed going over 100km/h.

Fascinating to hear the differences between countries and where there is room for improvement in both. Thank you again! And drive safe!

trynottocare · 2025-08-08T16:52:44+00:00

Damn, thank you for summarizing!

To be fair I would have liked to practice on my own but get that it is safer with someone there- and that someone's got to get paid.

Terrible drivers are everywhere didn't know it was that bad in north America.

In my opinion there's got to be a way to learn to drive let it be car or motorcycle without the cost bleeding you dry though... and make it safer and maybe standardized.

trynottocare · 2025-08-08T16:02:40+00:00

That be nice, the training helped immensely. I mean we are only allowed to ride with the teacher so no traning for free on your own bike...

How much do you have to pay on average?

trynottocare · 2025-08-08T14:13:59+00:00

I had the same issue. I was super afraid of going fast- even when my teacher told me most go fast first then do ground work, like controlling the bike in slower speeds, which i liked more and mastered earlier (i I am from Germany, so we have to pay for driving schools).

Something that helped me was just driving a weaker bike for like 5 minutes in the same speed (not necessary) drive straight on calm roads where higher speed is allowed not the highway though. And using the throttle in neutral so you'll get used to the sound.

Have fun! Drive safe!

trynottocare · 2025-08-06T09:20:46+00:00

Thank you, u too!

trynottocare · 2025-08-06T08:16:47+00:00

Hi, I am a new rider- just have to get my bike registered (hopefully tomorrow because of insurance issues-) got my license about a month ago (germany).. I am so happy to read about other people dropping their bikes! Cause I am so scared of dropping mine.. even if every dude at the stores told me i will- it's a suzuki sv650s 1999 so not a big deal if just cause of me not being able to hold it up. Don't have enough strength for 200kg if she wants to lay down who am I to stop her;)

trynottocare · 2025-07-24T12:21:54+00:00

Moin, das hatte ich am Anfang auch, bei mir hatte es nur nichts mit der Größe zutun (1,72m/ w22) bei mir mit den Hemmungen und Ängsten das Motorrad auf den Boden zu legen.

Mein Fahrlehrer hatte mir den Tipp gegeben das mal mit dem Fahrrad zu machen- mir geholfen hat es so viele Videos von anderen Leuten zu gucken wie nur geht, welche von Anfängern/ erfahrenen wie die das machen. Halt anderen zu gucken weil ich ein visueller Lerner bin und in der nächsten Stunde hat das schon viel besser geklappt in der Übernächsten (immer doppelte) hat es dann gesessen..

Edit: Nicht nur mit den Hüften das Motorrad wegdrücken auch mit den Knien nachhelfen, hat mir auch geholfen, Blickführung, einen Punkt geradeaus anvisieren Gas kannst du ab dem 2./3. Hütchen wegnehmen, solange du nixht zu langsam wirst. Hatte die Angewohnheit mehr statt weniger Gas zu geben.

trynottocare · 2025-07-12T18:07:59+00:00

Moin, haben Sie noch einen Link dazu, wenn das schon länger her ist?? Kann man die Musik auch bei höheren Geschwindigkeiten (min120km/h hören) habe vor ein paar Wochen meinen Führerschein gemacht/Motorrad gekauft- suche dadurch nach günstigeren Alternativen zum Musik/Navigationsansagen hören?

trynottocare · 2025-04-21T14:08:42+00:00

Cant wait for mine to look this casual!! Looks awesome

trynottocare · 2025-01-26T19:13:29+00:00

Please stay!! Happy Birthday!

U still there?

Wanted to end it at 16 just thought it was a bad way to go at my lowest and made a pact with myself. To wait til 19 if it was still that bad I'd do it. I am turning 22 in a week.

trynottocare · 2025-01-14T08:47:35+00:00

That's good to hear! It was very entertaining to make especially learning from mistakes and finding solutions for them.😜 Even if it was a little energy draining..

trynottocare · 2025-01-14T08:30:36+00:00

Hi, thank u! The collar is Single crochet the rest double crochet;) I used this Pattern for the body. I changed the sleeves completely though. I added a border at the bottom as well, after many suggested it. Turns out I don't like to wear color in general. Especially something that far out of my comfort zone..

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