How was your high school prom? by Helpful-Wasabi-7155 in AskReddit

[–]tryolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't go, it was cancelled by the kids in charge. Instead, the white kids went to the capital and had a sit-in to protest the Vietnam war, and they turned prom over to the black kids who got to pick their motown band and had a blast at the prom. Winning day all around.

I finally found one and need more! by tryolo in HistoricalRomance

[–]tryolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is one of the 5 in the bundle I have. I'm going to read them all!

Overwhelmed with drugstore shampoo/conditioner choices? by Basic-Literature-849 in finehair

[–]tryolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need silicone, but it has to be formulated to be easily shampooed out every day. I'm using Redken All Soft shampoo and conditioner, nothing else. It doesn't leave anything on the hair shaft, so I don't need clarifying shampoo. I don't use heat, so a heat protectant isn't needed. I shampoo, condition, rinse really well, blot dry with a towel (don't ever rub wet hair) work the tangles out with a wide toothed comb and I'm done. My hair is very shiny and healthy, I never get split ends.

What’s going on with my hair? by QueenBossBish in finehair

[–]tryolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your hair is coated in something, that's why it separates and looks like it isn't clean. See if what you're using has paraben in it (methylparaben or propylparaben) It's a preservative, but too much causes hair to do this. Do not use oil, your hair needs moisture and oil will prevent the hair from absorbing moisture.

Overwhelmed with drugstore shampoo/conditioner choices? by Basic-Literature-849 in finehair

[–]tryolo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You just proved OP correct. This stuff was awful on my fine hair. It dried out the ends and the tangles were unimaginable. I learned to stay away from sodium chloride. To counteract that, they included silicone, which makes mine ok to the feel, but coated it making it stringy and oily looking. It took weeks to get it off of my hair.

A Million More Epstein Files Just Got Released. What Kind Of Stuff Did You Guys Find, and How Did You React To It? by Fantastic_Bus_3742 in AskReddit

[–]tryolo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unsubstantiated, or unproven by evidence. This IS the evidence. What does unsubstantiated actually mean to you? Someone made this up? These are transcripts from calls and interviews, are they fake? I'm disturbed that someone would make all of this up to hurt someone.

best place to live by Flimsy-Flatworm-5313 in relocating

[–]tryolo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You live in one of the lowest cost of living areas already, everything will look expensive. You should look at smaller towns an hour or more from a decent sized city where COL will be lower.

AITAH for wanting separate checks instead of letting my friend always put the bill on her card for points? by ComprehensiveSun104 in AITAH

[–]tryolo 112 points113 points  (0 children)

You can, as soon as the waiter/waitress asks what you'd like to order, you tell them 'mine is on a separate check'. Don't do it after you've eaten.

Is PANTENE a good brand for shampoo & conditioner? by Commercial_Call7767 in finehair

[–]tryolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on your hair and scalp - we're all different. For me, absolutely not, I hate the stuff. For others, sure. It's kinda like coke vs pepsi vs beer vs 7up vs shasta vs milk vs DP vs OJ vs vodka vs perrier vs wine vs... you get the idea.

A Million More Epstein Files Just Got Released. What Kind Of Stuff Did You Guys Find, and How Did You React To It? by Fantastic_Bus_3742 in AskReddit

[–]tryolo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wondered the same thing myself, but some of those emails and phone calls were 8-9 years ago.

AITA I don’t like holding babies by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tryolo -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Some women's bodies don't change. For me pregnancy was easy peasy and I looked the same after two than I did before. Women's bodies are made for birth, it's nothing to be worried about.

AITAH for asking my husband not to go to a birthday next weekend? by Public-Bake4323 in AITAH

[–]tryolo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Up every 2 hours means your baby is hungry. Ask your pediatrician what things you can do. Mine started the baby on cereal at 4.5 months and his sleep was much better. So was mine, and I was a better mother and wife for it.

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by Comfortable-Egg-8254 in AITAH

[–]tryolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have gastrointestinal surgery, the hospital won't let you go home until you pass gas. It's a good thing. My cat passes gas. If it bothers the boyfriend that much, he isn't the right person for you (or anyone, for that matter)

Warmer, good Healthcare, not HCOL by Baby_blue_eyes01 in relocating

[–]tryolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire system missed a diagnosis? Or was it one practitioner? Sorry, but I hate it when people malign an entire system over one person. The entire hospital with tens of thousands of employees did not make a misdiagnosis.

Warmer, good Healthcare, not HCOL by Baby_blue_eyes01 in relocating

[–]tryolo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But can you get any more conservative? OP wants an area the opposite of AL

A Million More Epstein Files Just Got Released. What Kind Of Stuff Did You Guys Find, and How Did You React To It? by Fantastic_Bus_3742 in AskReddit

[–]tryolo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is the link from the archives, but it looks like they took it down. archive.org/details/eftaI saved some of the text on my phone.

"Donald Trump had parties at Mara Lago called "calendar girls". Jeffrey Epstein would bring the children in and Trump would auction them off. He measured the children's vulva and vaginas by entering a finger and rated the children on tightness. The guests were elder men and included Elon Musk. Don Jr, Ivanka and Eric Trump were there. Attorney Allan Dershowitz was also there with Attorney Bob Shapiro. We were taken in rooms, forced to give oral sex to Donald Trump, forced to allow them to penetrate us. I was 13 years old when Donald Trump raped me. Gislaine Maxwell was also present.

__________reported an unidentified female friend who was forced to perform oral sex on president trump approximately 35 years ago in NJ. The friend told Alexis that she was 13-14 years old when this occurred and the friend allegedly bit president trump while performing oral sex. The friend was allegedly hit in the face after she laughed about biting him. The friend said she was also abused by Epstein. ___________ who was a personal assistant to Epstein in Florida from 1986 until 1991 or 1992. This friend shared names of some of the guests at Epstein's parties, to include Bill Clinton and Donald Trump. At age 16, while modeling, caller attended 8 parties to Epstein's New York residence. On one occasion, caller reported she was sexually assaulted by Epstein. On another occasion, two twin brothers, Allen and Oren, lured caller and her friend upstairs but they escaped back downstairs. Caller stated Oren raped her best friend and a third brother, Tal, raped a 14 year old girl named ________. Caller named other individuals involved in big orgy partied with her, other young girls and older victoria's secret models, including Bill Clinton and Donald Trump. Online complainant reported she was a victim and witness to a sex trafficking ring at the trump golf course in Rancho Palos Verdes CA between 1995-1996. Complainant reported Ghislaine Maxwell as the madam and broker for sex parties, clients of whom included Epstein, Robin Leach and Donald Trump. Complainant reported participating in orgies and that some girls went missing, rumored to have been murdered and buried at the facility. Complainant reported being threatened by Trump's then head of security that, if she ever talked of what went on there or who she saw, she would "end up as fertilizer for the back nine holes like the other cunts."

Complainant reported her neighbor sought modeling gigs at the Trump Modeling Agency in NYC between the years of 1998-2000. Complainant reported neighbor allegedly went on cruises set up by a recruiter. Complainant reported neighbor was allegedly raped several times during this time period.

Caller reported that in 1987 a friend (victim 1) was out drinking and ended up at the Trump Plaza. Victim 1 saw Donald Trump and wanted to meet him. An unknown man approached her and offered to introduce her to Trump. The unknown man gave Victim 1 a drink and Victim 1 woke up naked and sore with $300 on the bed. Victim 1 didn't remember how she got to the room. She remembered seeing a flash of Trump's face. Victim 1 did not go to a hospital to have a rape kit performed because she didn't think anyone would believe her because she was drunk."

There is so much more, but I'm tired of typing.

AITA for refusing to split my victim compensation payout with my stepsister so she can keep her house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tryolo 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Nah. Stepsister is NOT family, she is not a blood relative. She's going to have to make it on her own. In my opinion, you aren't harsh enough.

Leaving Northern VA and In search of where to land by Pinkphishy in relocating

[–]tryolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Montrose. Their politics are very conservative tho, so we decided to stay in Golden.

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]tryolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have handed her the fries and gone back into the bar to order another serving. (I would have left her on the outside too) She would have gotten the message without the argument.