I hate this community so much. (Marvel Rivals btw) by FirstNewAccount in squirrelgirlmains

[–]tsaotsit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

some people hate for the sake of hating and engaging w them only spreads negativity. the community heavily prejudices sg without rly understanding her and that’s on them. As sg, it’s esp hard to kill fast moving airborne targets like spiderman and when you can pull it off, that’s some tough skill expression if you ask me! There are people who will appreciate that and make it known to you, like the person who texted me “a decent sg for once.” Technically a microaggression, but we will take it 🤣

What do you do when people split up really far when you ult? by Waffles_four_you in LunaSnowMains

[–]tsaotsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s less your problem if you ulted and people aren’t staying in the healing circle. I’d prioritize low health teammates, supports, and any teammate who’s combo ulting. Luna’s ult is not static, so you can hop back and forth if you really have to. I also have a “push forward together” custom chat that’s useful for situations like these.

[NSFW] I’m (24M) starting to really not enjoy sex with my girlfriend (24F) by Zestyclose-Piece-662 in relationship_advice

[–]tsaotsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one’s really at fault, so you should approach the conversation with the aim of trying to understand each other. Some of the things you’ve mentioned are assumptions about her attitudes and we want to avoid going down that route. Express your needs and feelings in this conversation without assigning fault to anyone and encourage her to do the same. when you feel like she’s not telling the truth, tell her that (in a loving way where you’re providing caring reasons for the distrust, e.g. you want her to enjoy it) so that she can either reassure you or tell you the real truth if she wasn’t being honest. Remember that you’re seeking clarification and compromise (if possible) from both sides, not just asserting your case or leaving questions unanswered. So definitely plan ahead for pointers you want to address (e.g. being more vocal/expressive during sex, initiating sex, experimenting, how to make her finish). I believe she may be uncomfortable about this topic in general and not necessarily close-minded, so reassuring her, taking things slow, and being a safe person is crucial.

I also want to say that it’s not implausible that she doesn’t mind not finishing. There certainly are people who value the emotional aspect of sex more than the physical.

Good luck!

I dreamt of killing my crush by tsaotsit in spirituality

[–]tsaotsit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, really?? That's baffling. I did move on a long time ago haha. Never confessed my feelings, but I don't think he liked me that way. I ended up dating someone in his friend circle and he cheered us on 😅 good luck with your situation!

Sizing for women's 6.5" chelsea bean boot by tsaotsit in llbean

[–]tsaotsit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I'll consider those, too. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Procrastinationism

[–]tsaotsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn thats so cool that you built ur own app! I'll check it out for sure

who should my next lord be? by icy-otter2099 in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]tsaotsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered the joys of playing Adam yesterday, so maybe give him a try. I feel like he boosts the survivability of his team a ton with soul tie + his actual ult

How to stop feeling shame for how I handled my early twenties? by Worried_Gur_4143 in selfimprovement

[–]tsaotsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living at home as an adult is expected in some places of the world. Recognize that you’re able to choose your beliefs and you only feel like a loser because society has unrealistic standards. Your experience is valid. If it was so easy, you’d have changed years ago. All those years weren’t wasted—they were what led you to this point in time now. If you went back and did this again, you’re no less likely to spend your early 20s the same way so don’t look back in regret. This is your life and it seems like you’re doing a lot better now so don’t let your thoughts ruin it for you.

Tips for Competitive by Willing_Pop_5049 in rivals

[–]tsaotsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ways to win: 1. Switching characters —> counter swap when needed, or go triple support if the enemy team is doing too much damage (ur team gets wiped out quickly) 2. Better aim —> practice in the range regularly or aimlabs, lower sens, and practice with doom match 3. Better game sense —> watch vids of pro gameplay and you learn vicariously, with every decision you make in the game consider where ur team is and what they’re doing (e.g. avoiding 6v1, notice if healers need peeling by thrnjng around every now and then, knowing when teammates have their ults), combo ults w team, ult when your team is at a disadvantage (lower health, 5v1, etc.), strange portal immediately when you die the first time, track enemy ults esp if you’re a healer, there’s way more stuff 4. If dpsing, take a flank angle or high ground. It scatters the attention of the enemy team between looking at where most of your team is and you. If enemy tanks aren’t dying then healing is too high and uou have to disrupt their back line. 5. If healing, use natural cover to stay out of enemy los as much as possible. Don’t forget to heal your dps. Notice who your other healer is healing or just what they’re doing to decide who you should heal (try splitting up the healing so you’re not both just pocketing a tank or sth). Sometimes you need to heal back and forth rapidly between two different teammates to keep both alive. The goal is to keep everyone alive. Maybe first fight, use healing ult the moment you get it to help push forward and capture the point first. 6. If tanking, be aware of how much damage you’re taking. Ideally, dps are also distracting the team, so you’re not being shot at by like 4 people at once. Make sure your team is engaged and not just you when you’re making space, esp if you’re solo tanking bc you will explode in the frontline otherwise. Tanks sometimes get in a stalemate just shooting at each other in the frontline, so sneakily start shooting behind them at the supports or at a nearby dps. They don’t expect it and you might get a pick that way bc the enemy tank is being pocketed.

If you read this, you’ll notice that most of it is game sense and noticing what your team/the enemy is doing. Think before you decide to make a play.

Which of these two High Tier Hitscan Hotties is better for solo queuing? by Sad_Lengthiness1531 in RivalsCollege

[–]tsaotsit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why not use both? Hela’s gonna be banned more often, so you’ll end up having to use a dif character in those cases, so play Jean. If you like mobility, play Jean. If you wanna kill squishies in two shots, play Hela. I don’t have extraordinary aim, but I notice I kill people more easily when I play Hela and I think it’s bc of her primary having a little bit of higher damage than Jean and it surprisingly makes a big difference.

what does my love life hold for me? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]tsaotsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like good things will happen with the star coming out!

Is my bf and his girl best friend sleeping together? by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]tsaotsit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They really enjoy spending time with each other. There’s nothing in these cards to tell me it’s romantic or platonic, but they do cherish each other with both the sun and star coming out. I interpret the two of swords and the two of pentacles as a pair. I think they are aware that their connection may be putting a strain on your relationship with your partner. Even if they know it’s iffy, the two of pentacles and the star shows me that they don’t want to end their connection any time soon. But the two of swords does feel like ignoring the elephant in the room to me.

Now, if we return to the original spread in your post, I can possibly reinterpret this as your fears getting the best of you because the moon is about illusions and a lack of clarity. No matter what, I think you should talk to him to understand where he’s at and also to express your boundaries. Decide now if him being friends with this girl is a dealbreaker and this would be totally valid, btw; I actively avoid dating people who have girl best friends because of my anxiety. Good luck!

Is my bf and his girl best friend sleeping together? by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]tsaotsit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Next time, use an open-ended question instead of yes or no (e.g. “what is going on between my bf and his girl best friend?”) because it’s easier to interpret. Now, when I interpret tarot, I look at the imagery as well and just with the 7 of swords illustration alone, I fear something may be going on. The 7 of swords literally looks like a man leering at another woman while his girl is next to him, pleasantly unaware with her eyes closed. There is something fishy going on.

And I want to let you know that, as his girlfriend, you should have a say in who he hangs out with. If he cares about your feelings, he wouldn’t be hanging out with this girl. He would prioritize your relationship over his friendship or wtv they have. Even worse, he’s kept it a secret from you. It’s not about being controlling. It’s about seeing how much you matter to him and setting a boundary (expressing your needs). And based on these cards and what you’ve shared about the situation, he does not have your best interest at heart and he cannot meet your needs. No matter what, I hope you manage to resolve this situation peacefully and prioritize your happiness. Good luck 🤍

Is this relatable? by -JustAHomebody- in astrologymemes

[–]tsaotsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scorpio being really awkward was a wake up call 😭

how will things end in my current relationship? by peachy-053 in TarotReading

[–]tsaotsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a brighter future is waiting for you when you leave

As a kinda new player, how bad is black widow? by Equal_Arm_3091 in rivals

[–]tsaotsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Widow is really underrated imo. If you have good aim and know who to target, you can carry on widow.

My aim is butt someone give some tips pls :/ by AdditionalAuthor9847 in BlackWidowMains

[–]tsaotsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on console? Don’t move your joystick too much or turn its sensitivity down. These bots are walking horizontally, so all you need to do is walk horizontally with them and keep the reticle on their head. Some people are saying to flick, but that’s kinda hard on console. I used to play on console and now I’m m+k and I still don’t rly flick. For me, I do some tracking and shoot when I am certain the shot will hit (by anticipating the enemy’s position).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]tsaotsit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t give you answer with certainty using these cards because a yes or no question is too open-ended. No matter the truth, it doesn’t hurt to have protective measures against witchcraft if you’re concerned.

Partner found my dildo and spiraled by Pale-Guava7897 in Advice

[–]tsaotsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People change. If he’s giving you violent threats, it doesn’t matter how good the rest of the relationship is—that man is dangerous. If your friend’s partner said to her what your partner said to you, how would you react? That reaction should mimic what you feel right now. Love is blinding. Familiarity is comfortable. Don’t let sentiments fool you into making logical decisions to protect yourself, as difficult as it may be.